Jessica_NZ
02-11-2022, 03:43 PM
Hi All,
I posted up several months ago asking for advice as I was thinking of 'coming out' to the world. Well, last night I did just that!
Short back story - I have been seeing a therapist for a few months for depression, and as it turns out this was one of my hang ups. This has been amazing, and helped me work through alot of my issues, and is on-going - I would highly recommend speaking to someone even if you are not depressed!
Anyway, I have had many many conversations with my wife about coming out, we stepped through her concerns and in the end she gave me her blessing and is 200% behind me on this. I am the luckiest husband alive! she has been so encouraging through all of this - my number one supporter!
I came out to my boss, and gave him a heads up I was going to put this side of me out to the world and he was amazing! Didn't even blink, super supportive, even suggesting if I ever wanted to dress at work it would be welcomed! Love the gesture. Has even assured me management will not tolerate any bad attitude towards this, and will support me in any way required. I'm still blown away by this response.
Also sat down with my parents, who I did have concerns about how they would take it. Turns out, once again, I had nothing to worry about. They have been soo supportive and are super happy I am finally taking steps to be myself and be happy! My dad even asked to see some photos, and they are both looking forward to meeting Jessica in person soon.
So, last night I posted a photo of Jessica up on my Facebook & Instagram story, along with a post on Instagram. Simple, full head-to-toe shot with the tag line
"This is me..sometimes" I think that sums it up pretty well really. I have been inundated with messages, all 100% positive! Many comments, likes, hearts etc. Most common response was "go you" - most even asking to see more photos and encouraging me to keep posting photos in the future. I'm so overwhelmed by the support - especially from a few people I had thought may not be overly keen on it too. I feel amazing, and I cannot stop smiling :)
I'm planning on getting dressed this afternoon & have invited a few people round for a few glasses of wine - I'm so looking forward to it.
Thank you to those who gave advice previously, I do greatly appreciate it. Many of the comments gave me alot to think about and encouraged some thoughtful discussion before jumping into this. I know this is not for everyone, but for me it has always seemed the right thing to do.
It is only early days, but the sky hasn't fallen, and I feel so happy - so much more so than I had ever thought possible! I will update in the coming days for anyone interested.
J
I posted up several months ago asking for advice as I was thinking of 'coming out' to the world. Well, last night I did just that!
Short back story - I have been seeing a therapist for a few months for depression, and as it turns out this was one of my hang ups. This has been amazing, and helped me work through alot of my issues, and is on-going - I would highly recommend speaking to someone even if you are not depressed!
Anyway, I have had many many conversations with my wife about coming out, we stepped through her concerns and in the end she gave me her blessing and is 200% behind me on this. I am the luckiest husband alive! she has been so encouraging through all of this - my number one supporter!
I came out to my boss, and gave him a heads up I was going to put this side of me out to the world and he was amazing! Didn't even blink, super supportive, even suggesting if I ever wanted to dress at work it would be welcomed! Love the gesture. Has even assured me management will not tolerate any bad attitude towards this, and will support me in any way required. I'm still blown away by this response.
Also sat down with my parents, who I did have concerns about how they would take it. Turns out, once again, I had nothing to worry about. They have been soo supportive and are super happy I am finally taking steps to be myself and be happy! My dad even asked to see some photos, and they are both looking forward to meeting Jessica in person soon.
So, last night I posted a photo of Jessica up on my Facebook & Instagram story, along with a post on Instagram. Simple, full head-to-toe shot with the tag line
"This is me..sometimes" I think that sums it up pretty well really. I have been inundated with messages, all 100% positive! Many comments, likes, hearts etc. Most common response was "go you" - most even asking to see more photos and encouraging me to keep posting photos in the future. I'm so overwhelmed by the support - especially from a few people I had thought may not be overly keen on it too. I feel amazing, and I cannot stop smiling :)
I'm planning on getting dressed this afternoon & have invited a few people round for a few glasses of wine - I'm so looking forward to it.
Thank you to those who gave advice previously, I do greatly appreciate it. Many of the comments gave me alot to think about and encouraged some thoughtful discussion before jumping into this. I know this is not for everyone, but for me it has always seemed the right thing to do.
It is only early days, but the sky hasn't fallen, and I feel so happy - so much more so than I had ever thought possible! I will update in the coming days for anyone interested.
J