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Yettobenamed
02-27-2022, 02:32 PM
Hey guys, thought I'd tell a little more about me. I've been interested in CD'ing for years and have always had a swimwear fetish. I met my partner about 10 years ago and the last 4/5 I have voiced my interest.
At first she was unaccepting and didn't want to explore but over time and meeting other TG CD and othe non binary people, also seeing many more 'male public figures' bucking trends and wearing non conforming clothing has helped her accept that I dont want to be a woman just that I like the clothing and enjoying looking like one. (Have no interest in meeting men for 'fun').
We've explored many other things along the way. Before Christmas she said that it would be nice to have some nice matching lingerie so we went to ann summers to select some sets, after looking at everything we went to the changing rooms where my partner told the store assistant that this pile was hers and this pile was mine, cue a red face. The SA was great though and just reminded me to keep my underwear on underneath which wasn't a problem as I mostly wear thongs anyway. We both tried on numerous sets, the SA grabbing things in different sizes for both of us and letting us have a nice time trying on the lingerie although we were in separate change rooms opposite each other so we could both see.
This last week we went shopping and my partner wants to get back into swimming so she picked up a nice and sexy red swimsuit that has a zipper up the front, I joked that she might keep loosing it and have to go looking for it. We bought it and she tried it on when we got home and unfortunately it was a little too small so the following day I thought she was returning it for a larger one.
Once I got home from work I was told that she hadn't swapped it and had just bought another one as she wanted to see me try it on.
After showering I was told that it was on my bed waiting for me, as I entered the room I saw it laid out with black hold ups (I have leg tattoos that I like to cover when dressing) and red high heels.
Getting downstairs to find my partner dressed in her new swimsuit thigh high heels and fishnets was a sight to behold....

JulieC
02-27-2022, 07:39 PM
Sounds like you are having a blast, and your partner is wonderfully supportive :) Make sure you treat her extremely well; she is a gem.

bridget thronton
02-28-2022, 02:53 AM
You have a great partner

Linda K.
02-28-2022, 03:36 AM
It is fantastic that your partner has come to understand your desire to dress! I wish all were like that!

alwayshave
02-28-2022, 07:27 AM
Yettobenamed, Welcome to the forum. Sounds like you have a very supportive partner. Good for you.

Yettobenamed
02-28-2022, 02:40 PM
I am enjoying it very much, its nice to come home, shower and get dressed femme, especially when my partner tells me what to wear. She doesn't have full control over my clothing but its nice for both of us for her to have an input. She steers me away from things that I maybe know I shouldn't go for and towards the things that are similar to what I want but better.

Our 10yr anniversary may be spent as a weekend spa in another town where we may have a girls night out...

Paulie Birmingham
02-28-2022, 04:32 PM
Nice. Matching lingerie is on my short list of things to.do with wife
Unfortunately, probably like many cds here, i wear more lingerie than my wife.

Yettobenamed
03-01-2022, 02:35 AM
You should definitely get some matching lingerie, its great and a turn on knowing that we are matching, we've a couple of other matching items like dresses and such. So much fun, id reccomend it to anyone. I did reccomend it to a cis male friend after he'd told me him and his partner were trying new things....

ziggie
03-01-2022, 06:37 AM
Sounds like good times. My wife is supportive/accepting, but not interested in joining in.

Debbie Denier
03-01-2022, 11:12 AM
Welcome yettobenamed. You are fortunate to have a supportive partner. Good luck on your journey in the future.