Underdressing

[april1978]

Does anyone else go out fully dressed under their regular clothes? By that I mean bra breast forms panties stockings with a dress or something that will be camouflaged by your male clothes.

[Jane G]

Not for a very long time. But I recall it was both needed and fun. Enjoy what it brings.

[Pumped]

Never a dress, but I will do the whole underwear deal bra, panties, even garter belt and stockings, then cover it all up with some grubby men's clothing. A little fun knowing on top is grungy guy stuff and underneath is sexy!

Once in a while we might go out for something a bit more up scale and I other war a garter belt and stockings.

My wife loves it when I am on male mode with stockings and a garter belt.

I often go out to my shop and work on a project out there under dressed, with a bra and forms.

[april1978]

I didn?t realize how much I needed to dress until recently. I?ve been putting on hold or minimizing dressing for Quite a few years now because of circumstances wouldn?t allow it very often. Now I finally am in a spot that I can dress again and it?s really been amazing. I think I?ve really started to accept this side of myself. I understand that it?s not going away I?ve tried.

[Karren H]

I do not see the point. Besides being bulky with two layers of outerwear, if I am going to fully dress and need to go out then that is what I will wear.

[Pumped]

April, I agree!

I am retired so my time is very flexible and have much more time to dress.

Today I have been working around the house, replacing some electrical outlets. Bra, forms, panties and high heels! Makes the project a bit more fun! I need to do some work on a wall repair too. I will ditch the heels for that. I don't want to get dry wall mud on them!

[Jane G]

April, I agree!

I am retired so my time is very flexible and have much more time to dress.

I will ditch the heels for that. I don't want to get dry wall mud on them!

Retired as DADT is just so good. Always things to do around the house and mostly I can wear what ever I want.:daydreaming:

[DanielleCD]

I do enjoy undressing from time to time... sometimes it's just panties and A cup bra... sometimes more.

[Kelli_cd]

I wear panties (every day), a bra (really close to every day) and enhancers (almost every time I wear bras). I feel pretty wearing these things. For whatever that inexplainable reason is, feeling pretty is important to me.

[Jenni6521]

I underdress mostly during the weekdays while working. I will wear some form of hosiery (socks, trouser socks, etc) and bra and panties. I am hardly ever able to really fully dress. So doing what I can to make me happier is very important to me.

[Heather76]

I always wear panties. If I'm wearing long slacks, odds are extremely high I am wearing either suspender fishnets or thigh highs and a garter belt. With a few exceptions (church and golf) I generally wear a bralette and A cup silicone inserts. If I will be driving by myself, I will also have DD cup forms that I remove before going in any place. I then put them back in my bralette until I go in another store. etc. I won't wear a dress under my male clothes as I don't want to wrinkle them. Also, as Karren mentioned, 2 layers is mighty bulky. At home I pretty much wear a bra and DD forms most of the time.

[OrdinaryAverageGuy]

Underdressed, yes. The closest I've come to what you're describing is wearing a dress tucked into jeans so that from a distance at least it looks like a shirt.

[Jimmiya]

During the week when i go into work in the early mornings I leave the house with push up bra, panties and nylons. Once I get to work I'll remove the bra. I just enjoy the drive and the feeling of wearing all of it.

[docrobbysherry]

When I first arrived here at cd.com I had the urge to dress constantly!:daydreaming:

But, I was married with family back then. Couldn't do it!:thumbsdn:

So, I underdressed for a couple of weeks to work. But, after the initial kinky thrill wore off? Those bras, girdles, etc. became hot and uncomfortable!:sad:

Then, it came to me how childish I was acting. Knowing I had a secret that no one else knew or cared about suddenly felt pointless and unsatisfying!:straightface:

I went out dressed soon after that. My very first time. :eek:
And, I've never looked back!:devil:

[Brianne_bc]

Daily since 2009. These days its bra or cami, stockings or pantyhose and lately Rago 919 panties.

[TamT]

Does anyone else go out fully dressed under their regular clothes? By that I mean bra breast forms panties stockings with a dress or something that will be camouflaged by your male clothes.
I did that many times. Once I weared a short party satin dress under my dockers, shirt and sweater at the office. Sometimes I used leggings and a basic top under the same work clothes. Later, I changed from dockers to jeans at work, so I started to use female jeans from time to time, without covering them. Then I changed shirts to blouses, but camouflaging them with crew neck sweaters. Few months before the covid lockdown, I replaced my male swaters with nice female ones (hoping them to look androgynous or unisex). So, I could say I was going to work 100% dressed, with forms and pads... Two years later, I'm still working from home, so no (under)dressing at all because of a DADT-like relationship.

[Wendy-Lyn]

I under-dress all the time - panties, cami and, usually, a bra with my forms - and generally wear ankle stockings and a bit of jewellery.
I have, on occasion, dressed fully apart from a skirt, covered it with drab, then swapped pants for a skirt/top and shoes once I'm away from my home. I then change back before returning home. My neighbours don't NEED to know that I dress, so I don't advertise that I do. I did come home fully-dressed the night of my birthday, but it was late so risk of being seen was minimal.
I want to get a couple of pairs of women's jeans when I can find them in my size in one of my local charity stores. I am very slim (for a guy) and 175cm tall, so if they fit my waist they're generally way too short in the leg.

[Philippa Grace]

Almost every day! Sometimes just panties, other days could be tights, stockings, suspender belt, bralette,(don't have forms, yet!), a lacy body, a satin slip, a combination of all of these, whatever the mood is. Most days, I wake up with the need to underdress. It also depends what I'm doing that day, especially for work. I just love the lovely feeling beneath my drab clothing, the 'secret' is very exciting too!

[bridget thronton]

Only when I walk the dogs in the winter

[MiniRock]

Knickers all the time. When dressed casually, I have a four chain red and black necklace that my partner bought me that I like to wear under an open necked shirt. Often as well, a lacy top like the one here, https://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?277510-Mini-went-out-to-play, which occasionally shows as I move.

[Elaine Lynn]

During the winter when work is slow its an everyday thing. Bra with forms panties pantyhose and a panty girdle. Rings and braclets all the time with eyebrow pencil blush very light and kissable pink lipstick which is not noticeable.Painted toenails and toe rings with ankle braclets also. Early in the morning its fully dressed like now while everyone is asleep.

[susann_gardener]

Wear panties (just plain black) every day. Is that strange in a DADT relationship?

[rachelatshop]

I under dress that is to say that I wear a garter belt, stockings, panties and a full slip and half slip under my male outer clothes almost every day. I don't wear forms or bra as they would be to hard to hide and would make my wife uncomfortable as well as myself

[Stephj]

I wear my panties and a 34b bra everyday no forms I am a bra junkie

[Natalie5004]

For me underdressing does nothing. I need to go all the way or nothing.

[BTWimRobin]

So when exactly does it go from under-dressing to underwear? I hardly ever wear guy underwear anymore. Usually just to the doctor's or to the in-laws. I don't consider it under-dressing any more. To me panties and camisoles are just underwear.

[Linda_H]

On our 35th anniversary we renewed our vows at the VFW where I am an officer of the post. I wore a tux and my wife a delightful dress. Probably 150 people witnessed the occasion. What they saw was not everything. My wife and I were wearing matching bras, panties, garter belt and lacy hose under our formal outer attire. The under dressing was at the request of my wife. We had a delightful evening.

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My in laws are gone, and I don't care if the "Doc" sees my panties. I wear panties all the time. None of them are white granny panties either. Lace embellished and in a rainbow of colors.

[Stephanie47]

Years ago on this site I started to read about all the under dressing posts and thought I'd give it a try. I progressed to bra, panty, camisole, garter girdle with thigh high stockings. My outerwear is always dark jeans and dark shirt. After awhile I really did not get any thrill out of it. It was an inconvenience to use the bathrooms. Under dressing became not more or less thrilling than wearing my boy clothing. The inconveniences out weighed any anticipated thrill. The only time I could image wearing a dress or skirt/blouse under male clothing is living in the mid-west when the temperature hits zero. When my daughter lived in Chicago she used a full length coat against the minus temperatures. That would equate to when I was in elementary school and the girls were required to wear dress or skirts, even in the sub freezing winter. They would wear pants under their dresses and take them off at school. My wife had to endure the same thing in eastern Washington. Brrr.

[Fiona_44]

After the first few times going out underdressed many years ago it quickly ceased to be of interest for me.

[NancySue]

I underdress daily starting with panties, bra, and thigh highs. Also, moisturizer, a touch of perfume. Many times this leads to dressing more.

[JulieC]

Linda_H, that's very, very awesome :)

[LIKETODRESS2]

Only wear panties for underware. A bra when it cool outside andi can wear a sweatsirt around town. If out of town i wear bra under a t shirt

[JuliannaS]

I regularly go with panties, stockings, a tank top,nand sometimes bra under my clothes.

[CeCe]

I do not often dress or underdress, but when I do, I enjoy it so much that I wonder why I do not do it every day. After five days or so, it begins to feel routine and not as amazing, so I put it all away and return to drab. I more fully enjoy dressing privately and underdressing publicly when I do it only once in a while.

[ziggie]

I, mostly, underdress. I'm not really in to dresses and my daily garb is sufficiently androgynous that it is neither male nor female. Underneath, however, is a diffrent story. Panties always and often - depending on the circumstances - a bra and/or camisole, most always in bright colors and nice fabrics.

[Krisi]

It's pretty hard to conceal those breast forms unless it's cold weather and you're wearing a bulky coat. You will still have to wear pants.

I have done that but the opportunities are few and far between.

[Bruce64]

I wear a Brassiere to work, no forms. Sometimes I wear a garter and Panties sometimes a slip and Camisole. But mostly panties daily.

[Lorna]

The underdressing topic has come up many times and usually gets a variety of reactions from those who say "never" to those for whom it's a regular practice. Those of us who, for whatever reason, do not go out dressed, have underdressing as the only way we can at least experience what it's like to be out and about, walking, travelling, etc while wearing some female clothes. Personally I can't imagine trying to cram a dress and/or a slip inside my trousers and in any case doing so would hardly replicate what women would do - but each to their own.
For many yearsfor my job I had to stay away in several UK cities, far from home, for meetings. Most of the time, British weather being what it is, going outside meant several layers of clothes and there was, in my experience, no way that other people would know what I was wearing beneath. I never attended the meetings underdressed because that would bring risks: fewer layers worn indoors and the likelihood of some physical contact with colleagues. But walking the streets, getting on a bus, tram or train, going into a pub or restaurant or visiting a museum or gallery - all were possible and unlikely to lead to problems. I would normally wear a bra (no forms or padding), tights or stockings with a girdle, panty girdle or suspender belt and panties. Socks over nylons so no danger of stokinged ankles being seen.
Why was this an attractive venture? I would have anything from a couple of hours to almost a full day to remain underdressed - you really find out what it's like to be in a bra and girdle for an extended period, something rarely possible at home. The sensations of walking outside, perhaps even rushing for a bus or train, using the escalators for the underground, sitting down in the park or on the bus and all the while feeling the straps and band of the bra, the restraint of the girdle, the sensation of nylon on legs - those were the nearest I could get to understanding how women's clothes felt for long-term wear and with a range of movements and activities - very different from sitting around at home.
The down side? Obviously it would all have been so much better with a dress or skirt and heels, so the experience was still only second rate compared with those fortunate enough to be able to dress fully and enjoy such freedom.

[JuliannaS]

I wear panties every day, sometimes tights, or thigh highs, sometimes a tank top under my shirt, sometimes a bra, but never wear a bra to work.

[countrygirl]

I did it yesterday. Bra with forms, panties and pantyhose, girdle, ladies shirt and men's pants but yeah for the most part I was in Amanda mode. Felt good.

[Jamie390]

For me its panties every day. If I am out and about, sometimes I will throw a bra on, but only if I can hide it under a flannel shirt or jacket.I recently discovered these thong body suits that are pretty concealable. I have tried pantyhose under my jeans, but its just not comfortable.

[Paulie Birmingham]

[QUOTE=Stephanie47;4573410 After awhile I really did not get any thrill out of it. It was an inconvenience to use the bathrooms. Under dressing became not more or less thrilling than wearing my boy clothing. The inconveniences out weighed any anticipated thrill. Brrr.[/QUOTE]

Thats kind of where i am now. Not much thrill and changing in locker rooms inconvenient. So much so i am wearing mens underwear regularly now.

And i think wife likes it more.

[BTWimRobin]

Back in my gymrat days, 1994ish, there was a guy whi always wore the cutest pink panties, and camisoles. He kept to himself and no one ever said anything about it to him or anyone else.

[kateydoe]

Panties everyday, bra in cool months only, toes painted yes. It feels so natural to me and I love it.

[Davina2833]

Robin,

I agree with you 100%, you go girl...

Davina

[Lacey New]

I used to be on the road a lot driving by myself. For most of that, I would be wearing panties under my male clothing. Depending on the weather, sometimes a bra as well if I coild cover it under a sweatshirt. On very rare occasions, I would add a camisole or pantyhose but pantyhose always complicated the required pit stops.

[Maria 60]

Not as much now but I remember wearing a full slip stockings and garder belt under. My wife for some reason loves when I underdress, almost like she's the only one who knows what I have under, like a secret. She will often ask what I'm wearing under and will encourage me to put something on.
When I go for night drives I usally fully dress and then put on my male clothes on top, when niebours see me they must think I gained wait because of the bulkeness.

[Veronica Lacey]

Occasionally just panties and a slip but rarely anything more. When the colder months set in the opportunities increase as I can possibly wear a camisole, blouse and perhaps even a bra (sans forms) under a hoodie or light jacket. If I have on some looser fitting pants rather than jeans then some stockings or hose may work as well.

[Teresa.Smith.VA]

Oh yes! Dressing in femme attire is somewhat of a ritual that has an emotional feeling to it. Femme attire makes me feel very special, very different, very pleasurable.

[Veronica Lacey]

That's a unique observation, Helen. I believe that I experience a bit of that satisfaction as well.

Understanding how challenging a journey it has been over the decades to obtain certain items, the joy that wearing such clothing still produces, the delicate nature of some special garments. As much as when I put these items on I take the extra care in removing them and returning them to Veronica's armoire. Within the process I admire some of the items a second time that day and am thankful for the oddly peaceful moment of dressing and undressing.

Perhaps it's a similar comparison to wolfing down a meal compared with savouring the food over a longer period of time.

[Kris Burton]

Absolutely! I take off my guy stuff and toss them to the floor with disregard. My female clothing is already laid out carefully , admired before I put them on, slowly savored as I do, similarly in reverse, and carefully hung up and put away to enjoy the next time.

And I thought it was just my OCD kicking in!

[Mandyinfemme]

I?ll leave my forms on with a bra and huge hoodie, with leggings (never with shorts) to drop the kid off at school. (As long as just dropping off in line). Sometimes will go into a gas station before going home. That?s always fun

[Blonde617]

Wearing panties, bra with small breast forms, womens jeans and a turtleneck. No one notices.

If I was fully dressed up aid be a 60-something not very attractive woman and no would notice, either!