How would your SO react to seeing you in a cute lacy Bra and Panty Set

[Robbiegirl]

I know many of you are in very suportive relationships and others are in the other extreme of DADT, and others are some where in the middle.

So if your SO saw you in a girly underwear set that complmented your figure do you think she might be a bit turned on ? turned off ? Amused ? and if so would she say anything ?

The only time i did this was when I surprised my SO by walking in wearing the exact same FrenchCut panties and bra from Maidenform that she was wearing ! She was amused but also I think a bit turned on since she is a bit heavy and thought I looked better in the lingerie than she did !

[Bluesman]

Well she certainly wouldn't be turned on! She'd probably say "That's a cute set. You have nicer undies than I do, I'm jealous. Where did you get them?"

[Nick j]

Got a feeling she would quite like it. She does get turned on in certain femdom scenarios

[Kris Burton]

Confused I think...the real frilly, lacy stuff is not typical of either one of us, so it would be very much a departure. To date, I have not focused on such items for myself either, so again a departure from what is expected. I think she would make mention of this change of direction, but that would be about all.

[Celee]

I?m not sure how she would react, honestly. Some days she seems ok and she?ll ask me if I have her bra. (I tell her no because I don?t). Other days she seems angry if she thinks something is out of place so I don?t know which wife I?ll get. She knows that I really like lacy things so if I ever did show her it would be very lacy frilly lingerie for sure.

[Gillian Gigs]

To my way of thinking, the first lesson a CD'er needs to learn is to never look better in lingerie than your spouse does. Even more so if they are hers, that's one of the biggest reasons for not wearing her clothes!

I am in supportive relationship, my undies are more girly than hers, as in prints and colours. She has seen me in a bra and panties too many time to count. My bras tend to be practical, my current favourite is an Anita sports bra. She has commented many times about my 'boobs', saying that one particular bra did a nice job of lifting and separating!

[Pumped]

She wouldn't care for the bra, but cute panties she likes on me, as other lingerie. Panties, garter belt, stockings and heels and it she is ready to go!

[Paulie Birmingham]

she would laugh. it would be a comical sight. we we could probably still.plsy, but it is not a turn on for her

[Mary Loo]

She would probably shake her head either in frustration, disgust, or possibly laugh. Though she has seen me dressed before or changing clothes not really in that state and I have never really been the bra and panty adoration type anyway, just dresses mostly or bathing suits on occasion.

Chances are it would more likely be a negative reaction and certainly not a positive one.

[Diane Douglas]

Mine would probably look at me and not say anything. At best, I would get "that is cute". The good news is I no longer have to worry about her yelling at me.

[JuliannaS]

Mine would probably roll her eyes, and come up with some negative comment. We are kinda DADT, a little towards the middle sometimes, depending on her mood.

[Rachael Fernandez]

"You look ridiculous." That was all she said when she caught me once 20 something years ago. Turned on her heels and walked out of the room, didn't even stop to get what she came in for.

[RADER]

My Wife did not mind me wearing a Bra and Panties. Just do walk outside or in front of the windows.

[alwayshave]

I don't believe she would be turned on. My wife is accepting and will sometimes let me play in lingerie, but she does it for me not because it turns her on.

[vplshowoff]

She would say something sarcastic like you've outdone yourself then laugh and walk away. She acts like that with most awkward conversations.

[Teri Ray]

My wife would likely say something like " Did I buy that for you or did you get it yourself" or "pretty bra when did you get it"

[ValerieL]

I don?t think she would mind the panties, she actually has helped me picked a few. But I think she would ask why I?m wearing a bra, since my chest is pretty flat.

[Katrinka]

I am really not sure. I know he knows about Katrina. He sees all the clothes and shoes in my closet. Katrina has a Chanel fetish that he knows about as well. He teases me in his own way about cross dressing and I think he?s ok with me having my alone time as Katrina but I don?t think he wants to actually meet her. Good question.

[Jessax101]

Well, would probably look, shake her head, laugh, and say are you serious?think it?s time for you to leave now!

[LIKETODRESS2]

She would be turned on. I buy 90 percent of the panteis for both of us. I When she needs a new bra she wants me to help her pick a few of for her to try on

[Jessica Secret]

I have a boyfriend who is accepting, supportive and encouraging of my dressing so he'd definitely love it!

[kayegirl]

Given my total lack of any male underwear, the fact that we share domestic tasks including the laundry, there would be no comment whatsoever. Our mutual preference is for comfort rather than style, although hers tend to be more girlie with some lace etc. The difference in size means that we could never share.

[OrdinaryAverageGuy]

The first time she chuckled but then asked me not to wear her bras out of fear of me stretching them out. Now when she sees me like that (in my own stuff) she doesn't even seem to notice, she's so used to it that it's not a thing any more.

But turned off? No. Aroused? lol no.

[Cacique82]

She?d like the lace panties as I?ve worn them many times with her but I actually don?t own any bras. I suspect she?d be like ?when did you get a bra??

She has said how nice my legs look in stocking but I don?t necessarily think it turns her on. Though I know Dr. Frankfurter turns her on so maybe it does. I do know she enjoys it because I enjoy it.

[SaraLin]

My SO?

Not well.

The panties would probably be OK, but the bra is on the "NO NO" list.
Also - I have sensitive skin, so I avoid lacy things anyway.

[Stephanie47]

I have no desire to find out what she might say. Some times I wonder that she may awaken early while I am banging away on this keyboard with bra, panty and full slip under my male fluffy bathrobe. She has in the past stuck her head into the room on the way to the bathroom to say hi, and, then turned around and head off back to bed. Earlier this week, she said something precipitated by something she was watching on television. She said, "Why would a man wear a bra when he has nothing to back into it?" Then she got into why a woman sheds a bra; strictly about mounds of human flesh unnaturally confined in a garment.

I don't believe she would blow her stack to see me as I am now. I think it would generate a conversation

[sara66]

She is fine with me dressing, as long as see doesn't see it. I do not think she would flip but would be a bit mad.
Sara

[Leslie Mary S]

She would say "You need a robe to cover that up" She always wore robes around the house.

[Kelli_cd]

I really don't know how she would react, but in my mind (my own worst enemy), it wouldn't go over well.

[AlexiaH]

My ex probably wouldn?t have been happy but not for wearing it but the fact Im a bigger size then she is.

[April Rose]

She would ask me why I was walking around in my underwear.

[DianeT]

It would definitely turn on my wife. And yours. And every other wife. After all, wives are supposedly attracted by heterosexual males, but they are in fact lesbians in denial who only PRETEND to be heterosexual because it allows them to fulfill their expected social role. The minute they get married, they instantly have this urge to see their husband in cute female lingerie with lots of lace and tit tassels. The sad thing is, some will soon find out that not every wife wins the lottery and gets a CD husband to please her. Some are stuck with these poor excuses for a husband that are these boring, vanilla males who do not get the point of dressing pretty for their honeymoon, while all the other lucky girls have it easy, playing guitar with the suspenders of their hubby's garter belt.
Hopefully these wretched females will eventually educate themselves about what a perfect husband should look like for a lesbian in denial, and in the process stumble on the Crossdressers.com website where they will finally be able to pick a proper soulmate and live happily ever after.

[Mary Loo]

Diane,

Thank you for a genuine chuckle at the end of a stressful day!

[Debbie Denier]

We do have suitcases. Mine would be packed in record time.

[Pumped]

Diane, Funny!

To some point it is true with some of us. My wife tells me of conversations she has with other wives and how boring their husbands are. She tells me that I have been far from boring and prefers it to what she hears from other wives!

[66caprice]

I would have to pack my things and dodge the flying everything she could get her hands on.

[Katrinka]

I wish my bf was accepting. He knows that I like to cross dress becuase he has seen the clothes and shoes in my closet. He also knows I love makeup. I wear makeup as a gay man and he has no issue with that. But when it comes to crossdressing I don?t think he would really understand or be into it. Maybe I?m wrong. But for now I just keep it to myself

[RI Chrissy]

My SO has seen me in bras and panties, she didn't say anything, she knew i crossdress when we met. She is used to it now

[Aka_Donna]

I have no sets so can't imagine and heavy lace is not my style. It's too uncomfortable, and I go for comfort first.

Hard to imagine, but something along the line of
-- hey, I'm supposed to look better
-- giggle, giggle, giggle.... sorry it just doesn't work for me
-- bet you can't wear that outfit for 24 hrs. How much??

[Leslie Langford]

Let me put it this way...

Years ago when we were newly married, I was trying on a new pair of high heels in our basement recreation room long after my wife had gone to bed, and I felt safe in doing so given our DADT situation. I suddenly heard an unexpected noise, and she appeared out of nowhere at the foot of the stairs. She took one look at me and promptly fainted.

'Nuff said...and I haven't tested the waters since. Prancing around in my wife's presence in lingerie??? Do I have a death wish?

[Heather76]

My wife has seen me in my lace panties as that's all I own. She has seen me in my panties and a bra (with forms) and simply hasn't said a thing. We are at the point where I dress when I want but I don't overdo a good thing. Last night I was exceptionally tired after a long day. I knew I would go to bed early so I put on my thigh highs, bra, forms, and nightie at 8 p.m. I came out to the family room and watched TV with my wife for about an hour. I went to bed at 9 p.m. - extremely early for me. Tonight I'll likely wait until she goes to bed before getting dressed. As I said, she's seen me in various stages of being dressed and makes no comments.

[Judy-Somthing]

Four years ago when I told my wife that I cross-dressed (once in a while) it basically ended what was left of our intimacy life at 60.
The only time she saw me dressed was about 20 years ago at a few Halloween Parties and said I made a very ugly woman!

[Cheryl T]

Well my wife sees me like that nearly every day. I don't have any bland undies so most everything I wear fits your category.
She's at the point where she doesn't even react anymore. It's just me in my lingerie.
Actually some years ago she was the one that suggested I build a lingerie chest for myself. She was right, I needed it. Now they all have a nice home.

[Connie D50]

I love matching bras and panties (who here doesn't lol) mine are definitely lacier than hers. She sees it almost every day in the morning I sleep in ladies' night wear every night :) she just says good morning

[Teresa.Smith.VA]

The most common reaction I get when my wife sees me in my lacy bra and panties, usually while putting my make up on, is something like, "Ohhhh pretty!"

We both enjoy wearing matching bra and pantie sets so if my bra doesn't look like it goes well with my panties, she scolds me in fun.

[Kelli_cd]

Oh, Theresa, I wish that were true for me with my wife.

[Jane G]

I know the answer to this one from practice experience. It is, you look daft I prefer you as a 6ft 4inch fit male. Important to find that out though. I see one thing in the mirror. My loving wife sees another. We both understand and respect that.

[Krisi]

If she said anything it would be "Cute outfit!"

Neither one of us is into cute bra and panty sets, we wear utilitarian bras and panties.

[AshleyMira9857]

She?d be confused and angry. She doesn?t know about my female side.

[Crissy 107]

Ashley, That explains the confused and angry. Maybe time to come up with a plan to tell her.

[Elllie]

I'm lucky enough to know she'd say I'd look cute.

[Christie ann]

How would she react? Not well.

[Bobbi46]

Mine has only one gripe, boobs!! she sees no need for them, and given the opportunity would have hers taken away!! she has seen me in all ways because my GF and I are in an intimate relationship. She had a go at me about my boobs once and I said " they are staying or I am going on hormones and grow my own"! she has said nothing since!!

[bre]

She would probably say. ""Oh, you again."

[Sometimes Steffi]

I think that she'd ask something like, "Is this your subtle way to ask for a divorce?"

[Gi Gondin]

- That?s my girl!

(Specially if we are not in the frequent ?lingerie weeks? she keeps creating). For some reason, she enjoys my CDing more than I do.

Last week I got 3 gifts from her? a necklace with my initial on it, an ankle bracelet and a black lace panties.

I will never let this girl down, ever!

[Brianne_bc]

She would smile and tell me I look sexy and come closer for a feel.

[prene]

Been there / done that and lost the girlfriend.