Anyone ever had a chance to date a CD/TV/TS while you were in boy mode?

[Krissi]

I know for the most part everyone on here are more apt to be the CD in this scene than the guy. For me though I have a very good friend that is a very passable girl (body, hands, voice, looks, everything). We've even gone places with her dressed in just jeans and a t-shirt no make up and tennis shoes and people will call her Ma'am, or dearie and such. We both love it. Anyway we have gone out a few times with her dressed. Recently we went to a preseason Dallas Mavericks Basketball game. What a blast that was, not only did I have one of the best looking "girls" in the section, but someone who enjoyed and understood the game more than my wife does when we go. It was a blast. I've enjoyed being out with someone who can pass, and it is fun to be out with her and laugh to myself at everyone who has no clue at all. I just wanted to see if anyone else has ever done anything like this.

JJ :)

[Julie]

Dated no, I have on quite a few occassions socialised with other CD's, TG's, TS's etc and had a really good time. As to if other people knew or not I couldn't care less.

Julie J

[samantha78]

Not really i haven't dated one while in "boy mode" but have socialized with a few and that was a real enlightening experience for me. when we are dressed i think our whole personalities change and we become beautiful people. But that may be just my opinion, and thats the way i get.

[Sara Kat]

I had a chance to date a very passable TG before I left for the Air Force. I've pretty much known her since she first started her transition and living full-time. We were best friends and were thinking about going for more. But I had to leave so we decided to hold off. She's moved on since then though and got married.

Lately I've been talking to another TG who's also passable. Saw her a couple of times but I'm still not sure if she actually likes me or not. We'll see I guess.

[Sharon]

I was tempted to intoduce myself to a couple TV's, or maybe TS's in the past, but, unfortunately, I chickened out. Now that I'm a little more mature(or at least older) I haven't been presented with the opportunity. :(

[Sweet Susan]

While in high school in the summer of '67, I met an older "guy" that worked where I worked. One night he invited me to his apartment after work. He got me a beer out of his fridge, said he'd see me in a few minutes. When he re-emerged he was a she, and I was staring with my tongue hanging out. We danced to the Supremes. Not sure if I could call it a date, but I do know that when I finally made it home several hours later I was a very confused 16 year old boy. Having made crude attempts at crossdressing myself, it was quite something to be in the hands of a what I saw as a real pro.

Eleven years later I was walking through a park in a large southern city on a hot summer day, when I met a woman. Sitting on a park bench we talked for quite awhile. I began to notice small things about her, but when she asked me if I wanted to go get something to drink, I didn't hesitate. As we sat in my car I came to know that she was a he, but it didn't stop me from asking her out on a date that night. Nor should it have, as I had been dressing myself for a several years, though only privately and unknown to anyone but me. We didn't go out that night, but only because we spent the night in her apartment. Officially, I guess, that wasn't a date, either.

So, I guess, though I've had a couple "Lola" experiences, I didn't really date a cd/tv.

[Sarah Cummings]

While in high school in the summer of '67, I met an older "guy" that worked where I worked. One night he invited me to his apartment after work. He got me a beer out of his fridge, said he'd see me in a few minutes. When he re-emerged he was a she, and I was staring with my tongue hanging out. We danced to the Supremes. Not sure if I could call it a date, but I do know that when I finally made it home several hours later I was a very confused 16 year old boy. Having made crude attempts at crossdressing myself, it was quite something to be in the hands of a what I saw as a real pro.

Eleven years later I was walking through a park in a large southern city on a hot summer day, when I met a woman. Sitting on a park bench we talked for quite awhile. I began to notice small things about her, but when she asked me if I wanted to go get something to drink, I didn't hesitate. As we sat in my car I came to know that she was a he, but it didn't stop me from asking her out on a date that night. Nor should it have, as I had been dressing myself for a several years, though only privately and unknown to anyone but me. We didn't go out that night, but only because we spent the night in her apartment. Officially, I guess, that wasn't a date, either.

So, I guess, though I've had a couple "Lola" experiences, I didn't really date a cd/tv.
Hi Susan, question...Just out of curiosity, were the girls you spoke of, passable? Sarah

[T-girlMichelle]

Durring times I lived only as a guy I dated TV's, TS's, and CD's almost exclusively. Every once in a while I'd date a GG. I did have a year long relationship with a TS who was passable 90% of the time (depending on how she dressed). But living in SF at the time nobody gave us a second look.

[Krissi]

Great stories, thank you all for sharing. I was a little nervous putting this thread out there. I wasn't sure how well it would fit on this site. But it is nice to see that there are members here that even before they started dressing, or while they were on a break were able to have other girls as friends and/or dates.

My friend and I never dress together, she likes being with me as a man which is cool, especially with how I've not felt like dressing much recently. Its nice to have someone like her to live vicariously through. (Hows that for a big word on a Friday...lol). Even when I dress I can't be a pretty and/or passable as she is, so its nice to go out and literally think of myself in her shoes as we go. I do that with my wife all the time, we'll be walking through the mall or whatever and I'll be thinking what its like to be her, but with my friend its even better cause I know that its a guy and can really appreciate what she goes through each time she goes out.

JJ :)

[Sweet Susan]

Hi Susan, question...Just out of curiosity, were the girls you spoke of, passable? Sarah

Sarah, since it's been nearly 40 years since my high school experience, it's hard to recall if she was "passable," but I'm sure she must have been. At the time she worked friday and saturday nights as a female impersonator in a downtown Seattle night club. She was probably 21-23 years old, and I was 16. The firm memory I have of that experience is that I didn't hesitate and when it was over I struggled for days with what to do. About six months before I met her I had finally and successfully ended a four year all encompassing experience with a child molestor, and I was fighting any and all gay tendencies. I had a girlfriend, and I was just beginning to like myself again. So, then suddenly there I was staring at another situation in which I felt I didn't want to be. I do remember really wanting to be with her again, and at the same time not wanting to be with her.

The woman I met in the park was definitely passable, as I didn't know she was a he for quite awhile. I was only able to identify him because she would occasionally make a mistake while talking, and her hands seemed rather big, though they weren't huge. She was extremely pretty.

[Amelie]

Dated no, I have on quite a few occassions socialised with other CD's, TG's, TS's etc and had a really good time. As to if other people knew or not I couldn't care less.

Julie J

Same for me. I have been around CDs and TS's most of my life, but I never dated one.

Love Amelie

[Allison Vamp]

i'd like to try it, but i'd have to be dressed as well. i think the whole fun would be helping eachother get ready.