What would you change about yourself

[AmyJordan]

We all try to look good or feel good about ourselves but there must be some things you wish you could change, mine are 1. The size of my feet, I take a size 9 to 10 UK so the really high 5 or 6 inch heels my wife prefers me to wear are just not stocked in shops so we have to order them from the US. 2.My height, I am already just over 6ft which is a blessing for my long leggy look but wearing the above heels just screams male, the few times we have been out I've had to wear lower 3 or 4 inch which is slightly less noticeable if its dark 3. My voice, its always been fairly deep and will never be convincingly female 4. My nose is bigger than I'd like. Apart from this list I think I would fairly convincing, you can check out some of my pictures in the photo gallery. Anybody else like to share their insecurities

[Kris Burton]

Oh I have several! I have skinny legs, serious bags and dark circles under my eyes, a crooked nose, no eyelashes to speak of, very thin lips just to name a few.
However, I think all of us have things about ourselves that we don't like that we would want to change. Even the most beautiful actresses and models do. We all compare ourselves to some unattainable role model, and for us CDs that role model is often a GG. Not a fair comparison, and I try to keep this in mind and not let it get in the way of the enjoyment and fulfillment that crossdressing can bring.

[JohnH]

The one thing I would love to change is my weight. It's so hard to win the Battle of the Bulge.

[Elizabeth G]

Well I think I would start with that damned Y chromosome..

[MarinaTwelve200]

The one thing I would love to change is my weight. It's so hard to win the Battle of the Bulge.

The same with me. then I can wear dresses with a waist.

[Natalie5004]

I would say my waist and grow real boobs.

[Karren H]

Hair (on my top of my head and no where else!). And call me greedy, even larger breasts!

[NancyJ]

Either to have been born a girl or with zero gender dysphoria and one hundred percent contentment with being male. I could do without all this discontent with my body and the near constant wishes to be more feminine. Nancy

[Heather76]

Definitely my weight. I so wish I could wear a size 10 or 12 dress; but, that will never happen,

[docrobbysherry]

If I had a small waist and a long, slim neck? I can fake the rest!:tongueout

[Misiokaku]

Definitely hair. I would love my hair to be like on my wig. To able to experiment with color, style, length... If I could go on wishing... Then I would take a full femme physique with wider hips, slim waist, breasts and a feminine face. But I would keep my male parts to still be a guy and a functioning husband;) . But if it had to be one part, it be definitely the hair. I would love to have it styled in a feminine way every day.

[kayegirl]

Shoe size, I'm also a UK size nine or ten so mostly have to order shoes online, although I do not use US suppliers, there are a number of UK based companies.

[Debbie Denier]

A number of things . My scalp I have had an irritating skin condition for last 10 years . Stops me wearing wigs for as long as I would like.Feet UK size 9 . Waistline . Lines bags on face.Nearly everything.

[Helen_Highwater]

Thinner in the face to make it easier to do contouring when putting on makeup.

Faking the rest isn't too hard. Clothing can and does fit with the right padding. Weight can be lost and with the help of cinchers and corsets a waist defined but things like cheek bones and perhaps a different shaped smaller nose, short of surgery I can only achieve limited success with makeup.

Oh and yes, slimmer hands.

[SaraLin]

I'm with Elizabeth G or NancyJ.

I'd MOST like to have been born with the right body (no Y chromosome). If not that, I'd like to have been born happy with the one I GOT

If wishes were fishes...

[MonicaPVD]

Absolutely. To have been born being either one or the other in every way.


Either to have been born a girl or with zero gender dysphoria and one hundred percent contentment with being male. I could do without all this discontent with my body and the near constant wishes to be more feminine. Nancy

[alwayshave]

Oh where do I start. First my weight, I need to loose 80 pounds. I have been trying and I'm slowly taking off weight. I'm 6'2, I'd like to be shorter. I'd also like hips and a waist. This could go on.

[Jillcder]

Basically I would love to be 5?6 around 140lbs and have feminine features I know im not asking for much. Dream on

[ShirleyN]

To try and get down to a much more healthy and feminine weight size than i currently am.

[kimdl93]

My hands.

[AmeeJo]

Well, the most obvious for me would be to repair my spinal cord. After that, lose some weight.

[sara66]

I would like not to be crossdresser. It cost too much, and I get a bit obsessive.
If not that, I would like to be thinner, size 8-10ish and smaller feet.
Sara

[Sabine Janus]

I'd change my weight down

[StephanieLake]

Like a lot have said already, my waist. And my body hair.

[Jenn A116]

I'd change my weight (working on that) and the amount of body hair. My weight is a little on the high side for a male my height. I don't really look fat though. But I can deal with that fairly easily with the right foundation garments.

Its the body hair that is the most annoying when trying to present as Jennifer. I need to shave my legs, my chest, my arms, and of course my face. It would be lovely if I didn't have to do that.

[Stephanie47]

It's the height and weight. I'm six foot and 200 pounds. I'd go for 5'6" and 140 lbs +/-

[Barbara Jo]

I just wish I had a prettier face.
A COVID mask hides this in pubic and I do have nice eyes. :)

[Cheryl T]

Well since we are fantasizing where do I start?
Make me 5'6" and 125# to start with and a figure to match. Then you can make me 40 again. I really don't want to go through my youth all over.
A full head of blonde hair, and NO facial hair or hair below my chin.
I'll take it from there.

[Aka_Donna]

less droopy eyelids, can't use eye shadow. pfft

[jacques]

hello Amy,
I wish my boobs were bigger
luv J

[Barbara Jo]

Yeah, that also :)

[Jessica Secret]

Definitely breasts #1! I wear bras and forms but having natural female breasts would make me feel even more feminine. Next would be being hairless, body hair is really annoying to deal with.

[DianeT]

For proper crossdressing, I'd like long hair with a continuous hairline, steep forehead, arched brows, flat arcades, larger eyes, thin nose, high cheeks, pulpy lips, thin chin, round jawline, thin neck, smaller shoulders, thinner arms and hands, smaller waist but larger hips, boobs, a vagina, smaller feet, and a high pitched voice. Then I would be ready for... pff... oh, right. [-]Cross[/-]dressing.

You should probably accept your little defaults. You will never be the perfect lady? Well, neither are ladies themselves. They're just them. And you'll be you.
Also you need some challenge for CDing to work its magic. Or where would the fun be?

[Fiona_44]

1. I'd like to get rid of the bags under my eyes.
2. Narrow my feet a little so I wouldn't have so much trouble fitting into dress shoes.
3. Get rid of the nerve problem in my left foot so I could wear high heels.
4. My age!

[Maid_Marion]

I was married to a GG that body issues and wouldn't go into Victoria's Secret.

I'm OK with my hourglass figure and looking young for my age.

Marion

[Bea_]

I'm sixty-seven in a couple of days. I'd go back to my 35 year old body. 5'8 156 pounds at that time. 195 pounds now. I'd keep the a-cup man boobs though.

[Tania75]

Thanks to time, my eyelids are rather droopy, one eye more than the other. I have actually seen an eye specialist about it. He said it can be fixed with what is basically an eyelift. If it wasn't on my face and so prominent, I probably would have gone ahead with it. The next is my big nose. It looks OK looking straight ahead, by the side profile is not good. On top of those, I just wish I had the same amount of hair from when I was in my 20's. As was the fashion back then, I have had perms (sorry, she called it a body wave), different colors and trendy styles which could be fashioned into a short ladies style. If only Father Time, was a crossdresser. He would be so much more sympathetic to us ladies.

[Ellie52]

I am happy as I am......Thats why Im sitting here with anti aging pads under my eyes trying to get rid of the bags that age brings... But in reality I am happy as I am. I wouldnt change anything really.

[prene]

For me smaller waist, bigger bust and would love a more feminine voice.

Maybe not in that order

[ScientiaMetallum]

My biggest desire if I could magically alter my appearance would be a more feminine face. Extremely feminine. More hair/no balding, as well.
Ideally, looking like the heavily edited (faceapp) version of me I use as an avatar.
Some breasts as well, but not too large, B or C cup.
Finally, fixing my messed up spine.

The rest is less important. I'd like to go back to a smaller waist, but I'm already doing that with relative ease. Less body hair would be nice, sure, but it can be dealt with.
I'm quite tall (almost 2m), but I don't think it'd be a problem on its own: if I looked like that, I think people would be more likely to think I'm very tall for a woman rather than think I'm not a woman.

[Kelli_cd]

1. My weight
2. My shape - I'd love my body to have curves in all the right places.
3. My hair
4. No facial hair
5. Go back in time to 40 years ago (but with the knowledge and wisdom I have now) , and embrace my feminine side as I should have

[Paulie Birmingham]

to be a little bigger down there. not much, a little.more would.hurt

[Barbara Jo]

I'm sixty-seven in a couple of days.

I am actually 76 and realize that only the lucky get to be older, :)

[Marcelo]

The one thing I would love to change is my weight. It's so hard to win the Battle of the Bulge.
Yeah, know what you mean. I might not pass as a woman but it's nice to look good as a crossdresser and a slightly muscular, athletic build looks a lot better than a slightly pregnant man.
Another thing is fair complexion and a fused ankle. My right calf has a lot of dystrophy and not being able to point my foot doing high kicks is a bummer. I've also just recently bought a tanning mitt and it's much better than using bare hands or latex glvoes.
Other than that being a genetic female would be really cool and I would wreak a lot of havoc on society if I was.

[April Rose]

I would trade my pot belly and ADHD fueled ambivalence about, well, EVERYTHING, for a full head of hair.

[Genifer Teal]

My age so I could do it all over again.

[Christina89]

Like most it would be my weight. But another thing I would change is my shoe size. It's tough to find shoes that would fit me.

[Rikidee]

Some small, cute boobs would be great!!! Riki

[ShelbyDawn]

Can I just be 18 again. modern pharmacology and medical science could take care of everything else...

[GraceM]

If I'm going to pick an age, I'd be 6. Coloring, people read to you, no responsibility. I had also discovered dressing at 6 and today, who knows what that would have brought about. I don't know what that would look like, but it would probably be very different than my current struggles with this.

[KymG]

Id like smaller hands and no adams apple, although i can hide that with a choker but it doesnt look quite right.
The hands though i think are a dead giveaway.
Still, im not complaining, i think im quite lucky on the whole.

[fly2188]

1. C cup breast
2. Feminine hair on my head
3. Much less (and thinner) body/facial hair
4. No male anatomy

Too much to ask for?

[Jane G]

Well I'm 6' 4" size 13 wide feet, hands to match. I dreamed of being a girl from as long as I can remember. But I enjoy my life, so I guess I wouldn't change a thing. I'm also pretty sure I would have had a happy life if born female, but I wasn't.

[DaniellaUK]

Either to have been born a girl or with zero gender dysphoria and one hundred percent contentment with being male. I could do without all this discontent with my body and the near constant wishes to be more feminine. Nancy

This, anything else is just tinkering.

[spicy]

20 years younger, easy

[TAG]

It would have to be my weight.
I would love to be a size 14 and not a size 26-28

[Rachelakld]

I've tried body building -big arms and chest, abs would be my wish - but after months at the gym doing weights, I'm just a fitter version of a person with very low testosterone

[KristyPa]

My looks of 21, like someone mentioned I wouldn’t want to go through my life again I like my life right now except being older.

[TessK]

Less facial hair, maybe smaller nose would be a good compromise. I don't want to get greedy