Rhonda Jean
11-17-2022, 10:48 AM
To all those young, beautiful crossdressers on Reddit, you're welcome!
I guess it's my age showing (again), but... what the hell has happened?!? These boys are better looking girls than just about any girl I knew back in the day! I'm absolutely amazed (and SO ENVIOUS!) every time I look. I tell myself, "Oh, that's OK Rhonda, it's probably filters or some other trick photography", but I don't really think that's it. Obviously the photography is great, makeup is much better and expert advice is easily available, acceptance is about a million times greater, lots of things are better. Sexuality is, ummm... diverse, with a very faint line between gay and straight. I know that we're far from universal acceptance. Boys still get expelled from school for long hair in Texas, for God's sake. There are certainly pockets of absolute non-acceptance and danger, but those are becoming the exception and not the rule.
Back in the dark ages when I started school and until I was in high school there was exactly one boy with long hair. Me. Back when I started getting my nails done in a salon 30+ years ago I was the only one. Now at the large nail salons there is almost always a guy, often with his wife/girlfriend. I know a woman who has taken her nephew to the nail salon with her to get his nails done since he was 5.
Besides just being more widespread and accepted, the facial features, body types, posture, mannerisms, sense of style... Seriously! Not on my best day. Evolution? Good for them, though. I did it in a big way, and for a LONG time. I did it to the point of obsession, and paid a high price for it. I think there are a lot more places to fit in the world now when you're like us. More ways to make a living and still be yourself. I think in a lot of cases young people now are less driven to conform to a particular model of success. Maybe you'll never be the CEO if you wear dresses and heels, but you decide when you're 20 that it's more important to be yourself.
It's apparent, too, that acceptance is growing among GGs. Hopefully, wives and girlfriends are not so subjected to shame and ridicule when they have a boyfriend or husband who is a crossdresser, and just maybe we're getting to where there's not so much secrecy about it. Seems that a lot of women now don't feel ashamed of a son/husband/boyfriend who wears makeup or nail polish or dresses completely.
It's been a long time coming, but once the ball got rolling, it's picking up speed very quickly!
I guess it's my age showing (again), but... what the hell has happened?!? These boys are better looking girls than just about any girl I knew back in the day! I'm absolutely amazed (and SO ENVIOUS!) every time I look. I tell myself, "Oh, that's OK Rhonda, it's probably filters or some other trick photography", but I don't really think that's it. Obviously the photography is great, makeup is much better and expert advice is easily available, acceptance is about a million times greater, lots of things are better. Sexuality is, ummm... diverse, with a very faint line between gay and straight. I know that we're far from universal acceptance. Boys still get expelled from school for long hair in Texas, for God's sake. There are certainly pockets of absolute non-acceptance and danger, but those are becoming the exception and not the rule.
Back in the dark ages when I started school and until I was in high school there was exactly one boy with long hair. Me. Back when I started getting my nails done in a salon 30+ years ago I was the only one. Now at the large nail salons there is almost always a guy, often with his wife/girlfriend. I know a woman who has taken her nephew to the nail salon with her to get his nails done since he was 5.
Besides just being more widespread and accepted, the facial features, body types, posture, mannerisms, sense of style... Seriously! Not on my best day. Evolution? Good for them, though. I did it in a big way, and for a LONG time. I did it to the point of obsession, and paid a high price for it. I think there are a lot more places to fit in the world now when you're like us. More ways to make a living and still be yourself. I think in a lot of cases young people now are less driven to conform to a particular model of success. Maybe you'll never be the CEO if you wear dresses and heels, but you decide when you're 20 that it's more important to be yourself.
It's apparent, too, that acceptance is growing among GGs. Hopefully, wives and girlfriends are not so subjected to shame and ridicule when they have a boyfriend or husband who is a crossdresser, and just maybe we're getting to where there's not so much secrecy about it. Seems that a lot of women now don't feel ashamed of a son/husband/boyfriend who wears makeup or nail polish or dresses completely.
It's been a long time coming, but once the ball got rolling, it's picking up speed very quickly!