Gift from the Wife

[Brianne_M]

My wife buys a lot of LuLaRoe leggings and recently also bought a few sports bras as they are more comfortable for her. Now to paint a small picture, we are about the same height, but she is a larger woman, and I am a smaller woman(or at least like to be..). She ordered 2 sports bras from LuLaRoe in 3x. One was correct, and the other was an XL. The other day she pulled it out and asked if I wanted it. I of course was very surprised yet thankful that she asked. I normally wear a medium when it comes to those sizes, so I was very pleased to know that with the back adjustment all the way in and the crossover shoulder straps tightened up it fit like a glove. After wearing it all day today I knew why she got them. They are SO comfortable!! Whats even better is it fits my C forms, my DD forms, AND my Cs and DDs together. Sometimes you have to go big or.. go big.

When I went to talk to her about it, I started with "so about that sports bra.. " she said "what, are you wanting another?" She was honestly asking me. I did say no, because they aren't cheap, but I did thank her again and told her why I know she likes them. She's comfortable with my dressing, and I dont go overboard, but with a happy moment like this, I wanted to share the joy.

[Linda Stockings]

What an incredibly nice thing....for both of you! It sounds like you have great communication also!

Hugs,

Linda

[Maria 60]

I love reading how you both communicate so well. I remember a while back I wore one of my wife's Genie bra. It's not the most attractive bra but it was the most comfortable bra I ever wore. Now that you brought it up I may ask my wife for one. Thanks for sharing I love reading when a couple communicate so well

[alwayshave]

Brianne, I'm so glad that your wife game you that small amount of acceptance.

[Krisi]

My wife sometimes buys me clothes or jewelry. It's all the same money but it's the thought that counts.

Now if she really wanted to give me a "gift", she would offer to go out with me in public on a "girls day out".

[NancySue]

Ditto, Krisi. Whenever my wife goes shopping, she always asks if I ?need? anything. Fortunately, I have everything I need and then some, but I always appreciate her asking. Occasionally, she?s picked out something she thinks I?d like. Living in a small town really limits our girls day out. We recently drove to a nearby town for dinner and a movie, but saw some of our friends. We did panic a little. We do go out for drives, but still worry about police, road rage, an accident, etc. I?m OK with this. I?m always underdressed, including bra. Got a couple glances at breakfast, but got a smile too. Usually, I wear a b or c cup bra, but when out, it?s one of my a cup bras, which I fill nicely. Maybe someday.

[Krisi]

NancySue, When you go for drives, have your wife drive. It will be much simpler if she gets stopped by the police.

I would be thinking of a city about two hours away if I could get my wife to go out with me. Two of the three cities within a couple hour's drive from me have a lot of tourists so I think that would be better.

[DianeT]

Brianne, congratulations for find a balance with your wife. The respect you express for her in your post probably has something to do with her being comfortable with your dressing.

[Fiona_44]

Sounds like you have solid 2-way communications with your wife which is very nice indeed.

[Kitty Sue]

Your wife sounds pretty amazing.

[BLUE ORCHID]

When my:love:Wife orders out of a Catalog she leaves me a line to order something for myself,