What are your thoughts?

[sara_also]

The other day we went to a local market. As we were intering there was a gentelman also going in. He was dressed total male with one exception.
He was wearing Bright blue three inch heels. Of course they stood out and were quite noisy.

Just wondering if others would have the courage to do the same.
I have been out in public fully dressed, but never had the courage to just wear one item that stood out that much.

Happy holidays to all !

[Diane P]

I seriously doubt that I'd have the courage to do something like that. I've only started crossdressing in the last 4 months, it's going to be a while before I work up the courage to go out dressed. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you!

[April Rose]

Just out of curiosity, Sara, how old would you say he was?. I'm betting he was younger.....

I wear gold hoops in my ears 24/7 but I don't think that's the same level as our gentleman.

[Teresa.Smith.VA]

Just wondering if others would have the courage to do the same. !

I would never under any circumstances wear anything feminine that stands out like those high heel shoes. When I dress as Teresa, I want to present the most complete and normal feminine appearance instead of drawing attention to myself with such eye catchers.

[Lana Mae]

Do blue suede Mary Janes with a 4" heel count? LOL Yellow shirred tee shirt and a coral one also! But I wore a yellow polo shirt as a male! (female, transwoman 24/7) That male shirt is just about the only male clothing I kept except uniforms( USAF and Boy Scouts)! Hugs Lana Mae

[Jamie001]

Why not? Women wear men's shoes all of the time. What about a woman wearing combat boots. I will bet that you have seen this quite often, or a woman wearing a men's shirt with a necktie? What is the big deal?

[BrendaPDX]

Probably not, I have worn gender neutral but nothing that stood out like those shoes. But then again I have worn some 3" boots under my jeans before, so who knows.

[Heather76]

I would not do that. My intention when dressing is to attempt to blend - not draw attention to myself. Maybe I'll never really blend; but, it won't be for lack of trying.

[AnelineM]

Nope.. Reminds me of the time I tried to buy a few things at a grocery store including a lipstick I wanted. The cashier said "Out of lipstick today?" Yeah, not doing that again. Mind you, when I had a plantar fascia flare up, I thought my low heel strappy sandals were actually more comfortable than my regular shoes. But I wouldn't have the guts to wear them...

[Kitty Sue]

I have done nothing that obvioius. I have worn womens jeans or shorts or tennis shoes, but not heels while in drab.

[alwayshave]

If I'm going to wear heels, I'm wearing a dress.

[isabelle_tv_uk]

Never a mix of heels and male attire but have worn women's jeans out at times.

[Rachelakld]

black see through top and pretty bra back in 2017, similar during other years with different colours
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[isabelle_tv_uk]

Very brave - and pretty!

[GretchenM]

I mildly mix and match regularly. But include heels? No way. But that is an interesting combination he was engaging in. I would want to ask him why, but of course that can be taken way too wrong and would be impolite. Each to her or his own.

[Maria 60]

I'm with Alwayshaved on this one, if the heels are on so is a dress. The only mix I will do is wearing pantyhose and not wearing socks out and the pantyhose showing. I also wear a bra at times but that is usually covered, wish I had Rachelakid courage for that.

[kimdl93]

To each their own, I guess. I really have no interest in wearing just one conspicuous item.

[Jillian Faith]

I would not do that. My intention when dressing is to attempt to blend - not draw attention to myself. Maybe I'll never really blend; but, it won't be for lack of trying.

Nope, like Heather I would not mix in obvious bright blue high heels with my male mode attire. When in Jill mode my goal is to blend in with all the other women during that time of day and venue.

[Rhonda Jean]

Well, not bright blue! But, yes, I've often worn one item (including heels) and continue to.

[BobbiKay]

I've worn 2-inch block heeled booties at times. The pants legs mostly hide them.

Once I was out with my wife in the grocery, wearing a suede pair. The cashier complimented me on my "cowboy boots". I thanked her for the compliment, didn't correct her. In retrospect, she probably knew.

[Patience]

I've gone out with nothing fem but boobs while in male mode but never high heel shoes.

To me, shoes complete the ensemble. No fem outfit, no shoes.

[CeCe]

In New York City, we see non-binary men partially dressed on public transportation going to and from work. Just this week, a tall coworker who has facial hair wore stiletto boots. We live in a rapidly changing world and I applaud those who have the courage to be fashion fluid in public. Myself, I am not ready to wear any of my femme outerwear outside of my apartment unless it is completely covered by a coat.

[NancySue]

Nope, not me. If and when I go out, my goal is to blend in. My guess, was he was sending a message. 3 inch heels. Ouch. I?ve seen men in flats.

[Cheryl T]

Not me.
I don't express myself that way. I am fully dressed when I go out. I wish only to be seen as a woman.

[Crissy 107]

I have a friend from another site that wears 3-4” heels all the time no matter what else is worn. She says the heels really help with back pain.

[Stephanie47]

Exhibitionist? Breaking in a new pair of heels? The latest fashion statement? Lost a bet? "Walk A Mile in Her Shoes" fund raiser? His wife found them in the trunk of the car and thought the shoes belonged to a secret girlfriend?

If I am wearing heels, I am wearing a dress.

[Jackiefl]

I have seen that once in 1982 in ohio. It was in the early evening and i was going into the drug store when a man head of me walked in with a long trench coat and 4 inch heels, and long pants stopping just above the front of the shoes. The sound of the heels on the tile floor caught my ear and after watching him for a little while i caught a glimpse of the full shoe.

[Bianca Fay]

On a Saturday afternoon this last July I had decided to drive to a local convenience store to get a coffee. I was wearing my standard summer attire (men's white t-shirt, cargo shorts, and canvas deck shoes without socks).

However, on this particular afternoon I was also wearing a pair of sheer pantyhose in a shade called 'blush'. I waited in my car until I gathered enough courage to get out. I had to walk past 3 store fronts, including a ladies hair salon that was jam packed. Once inside the convenience store, I quickly went over to the coffee station and got what I needed. I'm not sure if the cashier noticed my nylons but she didn't mention it. We just exchanged pleasant small talk and then I was out the door.

[JocelynJames]

Yeah?no..

[TAG]

I have never worn bright blue heels so no.LOLOL
To each their own wear whatever you want.
Never really felt the need to be a show off.

[Fiona_44]

I go out dressed all the time but would not have the nerve to did what that fellow did.