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Allison2018
01-03-2023, 11:41 PM
Posting for the first time. Here it goes. After my divorce in 2018 I've gone in a bit of self discovery. I wrote about that in my introduction post. I now have a girlfriend for 2 plus years who supports me as we figure out this lifestyle together. On New Years Eve I decided to (kind of) go out as Allison. My girlfriend and I went out dancing for NYE. I decided to wear an outfit that passed as a man's, but every peace was designed for a woman.
I've always painted my nails and worn panties/lingerie under my clothing for almost every date night for the past 18 months so that's no big deal. So I put on my sexiest panties and a beautiful metalic silver camisole top, painted my nails black with a glitter top cover and wore mascara (not quite comfortable with my eye shadow and liner skills to go in public yet). My shoes were black sparkle dress Convers high-tops. Finally I wore black vinyl pants with a black and silver button down blouse. I wore an older blazer and a black tie to complete the look. A girl needs to sparkle on NYE.
I got so many compliments on my outfit it amazed me. Usually I receive none dressed as a man.
Would I have loved to go all in with a wig and full makeup while wearing a sexy vinyl skirt with my black knee high boots. Yes, but I'm not ready and neither is my girlfriend to go there yet. Hopefully next year.

Thanks for listening.

BLUE ORCHID
01-04-2023, 04:24 AM
Hi Allison, Welcome to our Forum, When you are here , You are Home,

What ever questions you have, There is a 99.875% chance that one or more of us will have an Answer for You.

You are so blessed to find such a Wonderful:love:Lady, >>Orchid**O:daydreaming:O**

Bobbi46
01-04-2023, 04:54 AM
Hi Allison yes it is a "Big step" but an enjoyable one and with the lovely support of your GF, like I have got with my GF you will have a lovely life.

Crissy 107
01-04-2023, 06:40 AM
Allison, Good to have you with us and your GF sounds like a keeper for sure!

kimdl93
01-04-2023, 08:49 AM
What an amazing and eye-catching outfit! From your description of the outfit and your make-up, you really are pretty close to going all the way. Be patient. You will get there!

Debs
01-04-2023, 08:55 AM
it takes time, Alison where do you live ? , does make a difference on how peeps can help you in pointing you to safe areas to go dressed etc. and of course the real deal , not NYE, where you are totally en fem in the real world. lol

Jenn A116
01-04-2023, 09:41 AM
Welcome to the forum! What a great post to read. Enjoy the ride and please do continue your contributions to his fun place.

alwayshave
01-04-2023, 09:05 PM
Allison, Welcome to the forum. Congratulations on getting out on NYE with some women's clothing on.

Geena75
01-04-2023, 09:17 PM
Doesn't it feel great to get out when wearing something fun! It is a very big and important step for you, and you had a great time! That's what this is all about -- feeling good. So well done!

Simple pleasures
01-05-2023, 03:11 PM
That sounds like an epic night out for you. Long may they continue.