Rhonda Jean
01-23-2023, 09:33 AM
After reading Helen's thread in the media section about Fentanyl, I thought it might be appropriate to talk about this. Most of us are probably not used to taking the same precautions that we should when out as female.
I used to have a routine when out alone (en femme) at a restaurant. After I ordered my drink I'd go to the restroom. My drink was usually served while I was away from the table, leaving it unattended. The restaurant wasn't particularly crowded. There were two men sitting at a table near mine. I'm sipping on my drink while I look at the menu and before I even ordered I was feeling drunk. I almost didn't order, but it would have been awkward to leave, and since I hadn't eaten all day I though that eating something might make me feel better. By the time my food came I was seriously drunk and felt like I was going to be sick. I took a few bites, which didn't help. I paid and left. The room was spinning, and especially in stilettos I had a lot of trouble walking. I remember people turning to look at me. I seem to remember getting sick in the ladies room before I left, but at this point I'm not sure. I made it to my car and sat there for a while trying to sober up. Maybe I did, a little. I shouldn't have driven, but I did drive back to the hotel and fell into the bed.
I thought I had just had a heightened response to the alcohol because I hadn't eaten, even though I had only drunk about 1/3 or 1/4 of my drink. I later told a female friend about it and she said I'd been "roofied". I had heard of the "date rape drug", but never thought about being a victim of it. I suspect it was the two guys who were sitting near me. Who knows why they did it. Maybe they thought it was funny, or maybe they planned to "help me get home." I'm glad I didn't drink any more.
Moral of the story, don't leave your drink unattended.
I used to have a routine when out alone (en femme) at a restaurant. After I ordered my drink I'd go to the restroom. My drink was usually served while I was away from the table, leaving it unattended. The restaurant wasn't particularly crowded. There were two men sitting at a table near mine. I'm sipping on my drink while I look at the menu and before I even ordered I was feeling drunk. I almost didn't order, but it would have been awkward to leave, and since I hadn't eaten all day I though that eating something might make me feel better. By the time my food came I was seriously drunk and felt like I was going to be sick. I took a few bites, which didn't help. I paid and left. The room was spinning, and especially in stilettos I had a lot of trouble walking. I remember people turning to look at me. I seem to remember getting sick in the ladies room before I left, but at this point I'm not sure. I made it to my car and sat there for a while trying to sober up. Maybe I did, a little. I shouldn't have driven, but I did drive back to the hotel and fell into the bed.
I thought I had just had a heightened response to the alcohol because I hadn't eaten, even though I had only drunk about 1/3 or 1/4 of my drink. I later told a female friend about it and she said I'd been "roofied". I had heard of the "date rape drug", but never thought about being a victim of it. I suspect it was the two guys who were sitting near me. Who knows why they did it. Maybe they thought it was funny, or maybe they planned to "help me get home." I'm glad I didn't drink any more.
Moral of the story, don't leave your drink unattended.