Fantasy

[crobeson96]

Felicia Day said, "The internet exposes you to the random thoughts of every person in the world. It's like the worst superpower ever."

Here's one:

Would you be interested in a service that provides the opportunity for you to interact with a male while you are dressed, safely in some ordinary circumstance and situation?

The gentleman would treat you as you presented yourself. This would be similar to the way we interact with members of the opposite sex in our everyday lives. There would perhaps be a challenge or task presented the two of you or any scenario you could imagine in which light or formal interaction would be appropriate.

The inspiration for this is a recent episode of 'Young Sheldon'. in a conversation between Sheldon's father and the divorced neighbor woman she explained that men find it easier to talk to a female acquaintance than to their wives. How this twists into my proposal is left for an exercise for the interested reader.

I'd say that one context of the proposal would be that direct discussion of crossdressing would be off the table - the idea is to provide the crossdresser with the experience of interacting with a male while en femme.

There's no intent here for this to be or to become 'intimate' in any way.

[EmilyShy]

I would have to say yes to this, way way out of my comfort zone here but I admit to fantasies about this kinda thing. Mine range from dinner date, day out, house cleaning and also full on sex. I have never thought (or acted on) about the sex part as a guy with a guy, but for some reason being dressed seems to have a different perspective. Guess i'm curious
As with all scenarios my thing would be when dressed I would embrace all aspects of experiencing being a woman and get on with it. If I enjoyed it I'd do it again if not at least I tried.

[CDMargret]

My wife and I have thought and talked a lot about doing just this. Rent our spare room for the night for CD to come, dress and spend the evening. Like a CD BnB. Help with make up and outfits. Enjoy and evening with dinner and snacks. But the sex thing came up with a few that are interested in coming and we would rather keep it as close to PG as possible. So many variables to still work out.

[Sandi Beech]

I have had many one on one interactions with men, women, and couples. All you need to do is go sit at a LGBT bar and someone will interact with you, even if it is only the bartender. That has happened to me a couple of times when there was only a handful of people around, but that is rare.

You could have someone hit on you but it does not happen all that often, and most are easy to turn away so it is not really a concern.

I know what you are talking about regarding the show and it is true. I find it very easy to talk to strangers about my CD habit, although more often it is women than men I like talking to. It is exceptionally fun when you get pulled into a group of two or more women, and you get to just be one of the girls. You would be surprised, they occasionally tell all right back to you of their secrets.

It does not have to be a fantasy. You just have to take that first step. A service is really not needed although I understand many are very apprehensive about going out and meeting anyone.

Sandi

[Stephanie47]

My fantasies tend to run towards some interaction with groups of women. They usually involve "coming out" of the shadows. One involves my wife dolling me up at Halloween to be a server of coffee and tea during a book club of women meeting at our house. The gig starts the weekend on a Friday evening. Word gets out and over Saturday and Sunday Halloween weekend the female members of the family request my femme presence preparing and servicing lunch. The end result of the book club is for the women to fully integrate me into their club and encourage me to go to a book signing at our local Barnes & Noble. Similar "outing" run through my imagination, but none involve men. I probably associate male/female interactions to be more in line with pickups or male conversations usually involve topics I think women would not be interested in talking about.

[Aunt Kelly]

Interesting question...
I guess though, that I would say no. Such interaction, however well meant, would be contrived. For me, that's a non-starter, but then I am not looking for a fantasy experience. I can see, however, where that might be an interesting, even rewarding experience for crossdressers and others who don't regularly have the experience of interacting with others while en fem.

[Cheryl T]

I've had the fantasy of a real date. Not one ending in anything sexual, but a real date.
Say a gentleman caller picks me up and we go to a nice restaurant. We dine, maybe a drink or two then off to somewhere for a little night of dancing and music.
I've always wondered what it would be like to enjoy a night like that.

[kimdl93]

Nope, note even remotely interested.

[MonicaPVD]

There's a very broad spectrum of preference in this group, but I know that validation is a big deal for many of us. To that end, the idea of going out on a platonic date with an interesting person who is going to engage and treat you like the woman you either aspire to BE or emulate can be a wonderful, affirming experience. Ive done it many times and can assure you that it is rewarding, even if you have zero physical / romantic / sexual interest in the guy.

[Teresa.Smith.VA]

My version of this fantasy is that I am a girl who enjoys a girlfriend type relationship with another girl. Since my wife is totally accepting and supporting of my cross dressing needs and associated fantasies, she enjoys always playing the role of my girlfriend when ever Teresa is present.

Since we have enjoyed visiting with other cross dressers and their spouses and SO's, I have always enjoyed getting to know other woman in those groups. My interest in girl-to-girl relationship never includes anything other than platonic relationships. Just being able to be in a group of other women that treat me as just another woman in a group or even one-on-one, is very fulfilling and fun.

What makes this really fun for me is not to merely be a man dressed as a woman, but to dress totally as a woman and to think, behave, and relate to other woman as a female friend. Of course, it's fun to talk about girly stuff.

In short, my fantasy for this sort of cross dressing pleasure is all about "pretending" that I am a woman enjoying the friendship of other women.

Such encounters do not happen frequently, but anytime my wife and I are together we both enjoy this sort of thing make believe that we're both girlfriends that enjoy girl-to-girl relationships.

Over the years, we have made close friends with other CD couples. It may seem strange but the other couples and my wife have never been face-to-face with these friends while any of the CD's were in male mode. Over time, we have come to know each other quite well, but only as "pretend girls." Try it, you may like it.

[Charly52]

When I?m dressed en femme I often have a fantasy with regard to a intimate interaction with another man from being taken out for the evening to full sex, I?ve never been in that position but I?m really curious to what would happen!! I think I would probably go for it, who knows until the situation arises.

[Debs]

I went out in Blackpool last saturday to a pub called "The Flying Handbag", I Joined up with a group of 6 girls on a hen party in the afternoon, I even went back to there hotel with them at about 8pm while they got changed, they even did my makeup for me, I spent all day all night with them, even had breakfast with them on a Sunday, loved it, no fantasy required here.

[ShawnaL]

Like Cheryl, I think I'd enjoy a real date with a nice guy. Dinner and drinks...maybe a walk...and I'd LOVE to go dancing...sigh!

[docrobbysherry]

Of course I thot about dating guys when I first began dressing a lot! And, since then I've been hit on often. My last time out in fact! The guy seemed nice and really came on hard, but respectful, he wanted my phone number bad!:eek:

This has happened to me before. One time a guy online even offered to fly me to Florida. He'd take me out for an evening of dinner and dancing. Pay for my separate room. With no obligation or hankypanky expected. And, fly me home the next day! Round trip tickets would be sent to me!:)

So, why haven't I tried this at least once? Because I'm a guy and know what guys want! :devil:

Maybe I could make out with a guy if I had a few drinks and liked him. But, no man or any male look has ever "attracted" me. I know if things got heated I could NOT go there! So, I will not put myself in a position where I or my date mite feel I owe him something!:thumbsdn:

My fantasy dates will remain a fantasy!:hugs:

[mbmeen12]

Can you say artificial intelligence.???????....There is a science fiction movie at this point I think it's Blade Runner??? People pay to wear headsets and artificially interact.

[Georgina]

My answer is no. I have no desire to meet men when dressed.

[Karren H]

No service required. Most of the times I have been out enfemme in public I have interacted with more women than men. I enjoy talking to women more than men, dressed or not. I just like women.

[Krisi]

That sounds a lot like an "escort service" but in reverse. I have thought of that and how it would be nice to go out in public as a woman, escorted by a man who treated me as a woman.

But, I doubt I would ever actually do that. For one thing, it would be hard to explain to my wife.

[Lacey New]

My fantasy would be to be surrounded by women, no males.

[SaraLin]

I, for one, would love to be the lady in "typical" male-female social interactions - with no indication whatever that I'm anything else. (I'm not talking about "intimate" stuff - just simple, everyday activities, like shopping, dining out, a movie, maybe even drinks and dancing. Those kinds of things.)
My real-life situation prevents it from ever happening, though.


I have often wondered if a couple of T(whatever) folks could get together and have tradeoff nights (Tonight you be the guy and I'll be the woman. Next time I'll be the man.)
It always felt to me that if your presentation is at all questionable, it'll get less attention if you're in the company of a male "date." I know that if you put ME in a group of women, I'll stand out like a sore thumb.

[alwayshave]

This is definitely not a fantasy. I have been hit on by men and did not find it flattering.

[Breezy]

Emily this is exactly how I feel too. I totally get it! Everytime I slip on feminine attire my thoughts go straight to pleasing a man, it would be amazing to have that date scenario, and yes, full on sex. Glad to hear I?m not alone on this one!
Flip side is that I think I?d be into that scenario with the role reversed, maybe because I know how turned on I?d be dressed as a woman and being wooed by a man. Definitely a fantasy!

[EmilyShy]

Breezy, it's not forefront of my dressing but it is something I'd thought even the role reverse thing lmao I guess that most things in this life goes both ways. Like SaraLin said it be a trade off

[Jane G]

No service required. Most of the times I have been out enfemme in public I have interacted with more women than men. I enjoy talking to women more than men, dressed or not. I just like women.

Karren has said it all for me. I have always found it easier/more interesting, to talk to women.

[Breezy]

Emily for sure it?s not the forefront but, often thought of, I just got excited seeing other likeminded comments! Lol
Agree on the role reversal nights would be very fun.

[OrdinaryAverageGuy]

I sometimes wish I had a friend or 2 to talk to about my CDing, male and/or female, but I would never consider paying for such a service. It wouldn't be a real friend then and I wouldn't trust anything he/she said, knowing that he/she was being paid to be friendly to me and pretend to give a crap.

[BrendaPDX]

I will admit that I have thought about it, a date, holding hands, a hug, a kiss, just chatting seeing where it takes us. But it is just a fantasy, I am a male and nothing is going to change that. However, yes I have thought about it. Brenda

[Monique65]

I do not fantasize about men when dressed. However, another cross dresser would be a different story.

[BaileysSecret]

This is the exact way I feel. I've never acted but man is it not a curious part when I'm dressed

[Breezy]

Definitely Bailey! With each layer put on, I admit I want to try it more!

[TheHiddenMe]

I've talked to both women and men while dressed--mostly women--and women are definitely easier to talk to. I do have GG friends I have met because I dress and I've been out with them, and a couple of GG friends who met the guy me first.

Women are easier to talk to because I always say guys do things and women talk. Guys do things like golf and go to sporting events where talking is secondary, while women meet to specifically talk. What are you going to talk to a guy about?

Of course, I think many on this board would be entertained by the idea of a date with a man. I went to a Springsteen concert with the husband of one of the GG friends, and it was the first time for me one-on-one with a male. The dynamic was a bit different than being with one of my female friends, but again, we were doing something--going to a concert.

[Diane P]

I would have to agree with Monique. I don't fantasize about men at all but yes other cross dressers would be adifferent story.

[Sometimes Steffi]

My fantasies tend to run towards some interaction with groups of women.


I guess I have to say that I've had a real-life fantasy with a group of women.

I've told this story before, but it is so memorable.

I was out en femme with a bunch of my "girl" friend at the restaurant at the hotel we often hang out at. A group of GGs came up to me and the leader said something like, "How do you do it?" I probably said something like, "I probably do it just like you do."

But then, she repeated the question, but pointed at my boobs. I replied, "They're just breast forms." Then I pulled the breast forms out of my bra to show her and (half jokingly) I said, "Do you want to try them?" Well, she did want to try them and she took them from me and stuck them into her bra over her natural breasts. She modeled them for her friends. Then, one of her friends wanted to try them, then another. The fourth girl didn't want to try them on. She didn't really need any help in the breast department, unlike the first three girls. But the first three girls kind of dared the fourth girl to try them also. I finally got my forms back and put them where they really belonged, on me. I guess I can say that four girls felt up my boobs that night.

I had some conversation with the first girl about where she could get them (The Breast Form Store) and what model they were. Then one of the husbands broke up the conversation wondering why his wife wasn't in their room in bed with him.

This is not a fantasy; it was IRL. I don't have any pics, but I do have a witness (also en femme) who stood right next to while this was taking place, mouth agape at what she saw going on.

[Jenn A116]

My fantasy is simply to be out with a group of women doing usual (non-work) things. Shopping, eating, seeing a movie, exercise, etc. To be accepted as part of the group.

The closest I come to that is the monthly meetings of our CD group where the SO's accompany their CD'ing spouse. We just sit around and talk.

[April Rose]

Cross dressed or not, I am with Karen and Jane. I am involved in mixed groups, but the people I am closest to , who I hang out with, who I have dinner with, are women.

[Jemima Stephens]

Like many have already said, whilst being a straight male most of the time, when dressed my perspective changes and do wonder what it would be like to spend quality time with a nice man.

Also, if I wasn't married I would love to take a Trans/CD out on a date and give her the full 'Girlfriend Experience'