I want to ask a girl friend of mine to dress me up

[AndreaCDNJ]

How should I go about it?

[Sharon]

Andrea, I assume this is a close friend? There are numerous ways to go about this. Slow and easy is probably best. Maybe you can start a conversation about her clothes or makeup. Watch for her reaction and then ask a more penetrating question along the same line. If she's really close to you, you might be able to just come out and tell her you want to try it and that since she looks so good herself, would she mind giving you some pointers. Just be sure you feel comfortable enough about your relationship to get into all this with her.
Good luck!

[KewTnCurvy GG]

There are numerous ways, but I still say show an Eddie Izzard video. You could simply say a friend gave it to you, saying it was hilarious. And then, pop the tape in and watch her reaction. See what she says. If she hears 'male lesbian' and says "I want one of those" (like I said when I saw the tape:D); then you may know she's game so to speak. But if she says, "who is this freak?", like my 83 year old father did; then you may want to consider otherwise. Just a thought. :)

hugs
kew

[Cami]

Try it this way, One night I said gee that bra looks uncomfortable, She said here you try it on. I said well ok. (I was so happy). It turned her on and that was the start for her and me CD'ing. She didnt know I had been doing it since I was 12. You might need to ask to try it on to goat her into it. You'll know right away if it turns her off or on. Try to make them think its there idea... :)

My bad, I assumed She was SO, You wouldnt see bra of a friend vs Girlfriend..

[Renecd]

Good advise Kew. I actually tried that once with a girl friend and got a similar reaction to the second choice. Oh Well, can't win them all lol
Good Luck Andrea.

Rene

[Lily_gg]

Girlfriend or girl friend?... And if girl friend, do you have an SO (girlfriend/boyfriend) at the moment, and would they be ok with this?

And yeah, Eddie Izzard seems a good idea - even if she freaks out at him, you still get to watch some good comedy :D
Or, if girlfriend, maybe go about it slowly - ask her to wear lipstick in bed for you maybe, and tell her it feels great to kiss her wearing it, then maybe ask if you could wear some too? And then see where it goes from there?...

[Renecd]

She was my perspective girlfriend Lily. We didn't continue the relationship very long. No, I am not currently with anyone right now. But always looking :)

Rene

[DebbiAnne]

How should I go about it?
Well there is the Show He's a Lady on cable on Tuesday's night at 9:00 pm Central on TBS, you could watch TV and turn that on & see how she reacts, you may make a comment like "I think I could do something like that if the price was right", then let the chips fall as they may!

[Julie]

How should I go about it?

Does she already know anything about your dressing and if so what does she feel about it? Any replies would depend on the answers to these questions.

Your correct age up front please!!!

Julie J

[Amelie]

Be wary of this thread, it might be a little strange.

Andrea says his age is 16 but in the profile it is 20-21.

Some one's age is not easy to get mixed up.

Just thought a word of caution.

Love Amelie

[Julie]

Well spotted Amelie. I don't know you have to have eyes in the back of your head here sometimes. :confused:

Julie J

[DebbiAnne]

Be wary of this thread, it might be a little strange.

Andrea says his age is 16 but in the profile it is 20-21.

Some one's age is not easy to get mixed up.

Just thought a word of caution.

Love Amelie

Good catch! what should we do with her?

[Amelie]

Off to bogie-land!!!

I don't know, some people have reasons for saying things that might be wrong. She can tell us, it isn't really a big deal. Some here being closeted, might make a mistake like this, infear of someone knowing who they are.
Ifshe is of proper age(over 18) then she can continue to post, it's alright, no real harm done.

Love Amelie