Fantasies While Dressed

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There was an interesting show on Fuse TV last night that explored fantasies in the context of sexuality. One of the experts that was interviewed mentioned that there was basically nothing wrong with fantasies so long as one didn't act on them. I'm sure that we have all had fantasies and in many cases, may have felt guilty about them. Fantasizing that you punched some jerk in the nose isn't the same as doing it... two totally different things.

Given that background, what are some of the fantasies that you have while dressed? Are you an elegant movie star? How about a high school sweetheart? Are you the serving French maid? How about the TV classic June Cleaver? Do you envision yourself ready to go out with the girls or go out on a date with that special someone? What goes through your mind when en femme?

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[Bea_]

My only real fantasy was the idea having my wife embrace who I am. Not happening. So, there is nothing really to replace it.

[OrdinaryAverageGuy]

I fantasize that society would have no problems with me wearing what I want to wear in public. Doubt if I'll live to see that.

[Dana3]

I would say it would be .....

To be a stay at home 1950's ~ 60's Wife to an accepting (Dare, I say ENTHUSIASTIC?) GG.

[Karren H]

Yeah. I am June Cleaver with a BDSM dungeon in the basement of the Cleaver home. Do not tell Ward! Lol

[Sabine7]

I have no fantasies when dressed because my dreams became reality. I have always fantasies of being a woman when having sex with my wife.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Karen, We have the same fantasy

[NjJamie]

I'm living my fantasy right now, have been out doing everything as Jamie, shopping, driving and now stopped at McDonald's, because I could!

At most I got two second looks but otherwise no one cares! I tried a few things on at the mall, stopped into a quick check at a busy time and just went about doing what any 60 year old woman would do.

Please, if you haven't been out and that is your fantasy you can have it as fast as you like it will go well and you'll wonder what took so long!

[docrobbysherry]

My fantasy is Sherry. :heehee:

And, her fantasy is to appear as every single woman I've ever found attractive and/or appealing!:daydreaming:

Altho, that number must be approaching a 100, the list keeps growing every time I see a cute new female personality or go to a movie like Barbie!:battingeyelashes:

And, that includes portraying many of these female characters out in public!:eek:

[Teresa.Smith.VA]

Any fantasy that I have related to being Teresa is good, positive, and to be enjoyed by me and my wife. Life is too short to not enjoy the harmless fun of fantasy and cross dressing.

p.s. I made reference to you in my latest post titled, "My Promise To Be Brief".

[Kris Burton]

My alter ego, Kris, is a creation of my imagination, and is a work in progress. I envision her as an attractive stylish woman, sociable and approachable, successful and worldly - all things I am not. When out and about, or even when I'm at home dressing up I leave my psychological baggage behind and let her do the driving. As such I am free of realities intrusion for a while. I can and do return, but it's not always easy. Even as my male self, I feel her influence, and I'm the better person for it.

She is the fantasy.

[mbmeen12]

Mine is having size Ds breasts and not being judged. While in any mode ie dressed or male mode.
https://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?277622-In-a-Dilemma-over-breast-augmentation/page2

[Sabine7]

Having really large size breasts is my fantasy too. Even more to have my whole real body of a curvy woman. Everybody could see than that I am a girl and would expect me to dress as a woman. I would stay en femme permanently with red lacquered nails at hands and feet. I would join a public meeting en femme in my most sexy dress and high heels.

[Debbie Denier]

Like many have lived out some of the fantasies such as dressing like an office girl. The French maid sounds appealing . As does being a cocktail waitress at a large women only party.

[Heather76]

I believe the closest I come to having a fantasy is to be able to dress en femme 24/7. I simply find dressing in all my women's clothing to be so much more enjoyable than putting on my golf shirts and shorts (or slacks). My dresses, tops, jeans, bras, forms, jewelry, etc. are so much more fun to wear. I love the times I'm wearing nails. I hate shopping for my drab clothing; but, I can't get enough of browsing thru the women's clothing departments. I really wish there were no societal objections to people expressing themselves as they want. Unfortunately, my fantasy will always be a fantasy.

[EmilyShy]

There are so many for me but dreams while dressed I dream about being able to just live and dress as if it was normal (although I do like the taboo side as it add to the excitement) and have to option to dress for a whole week and not worry about what other people think. I have never tried to portray any look and would love to do this esp casual tennis girl look, secretary and hooker lol. Also I have fantasied about being a maid and doing chores or even a waitress at a party (public or private lol)

I have also dreamed about going on road trip for a few days taking no male attire at all. Do everything as a woman.

Being in the closet that I'am I also dream my partner would embrace me more and even played/have fun with my dressing desires and dared or encouraged me to do things that I'm to scared to do, eg send me to supermarket dressed etc

[SaraLin]

I have a VERY elaborate fantasy that I've built up over the years. It would take a book to tell it all, but here's a very brief version.

I meet a man while I'm out somewhere (as Sara, of course). He takes an interest in me, but in a more "professional" way.
He introduces me to a "study" group who will fund me and my transition to female if I keep a detailed journal of what I do and experience during the process.
Of course there are numerous tasks, tests, experiences, and encounters along the way.

I used to use this fantasy world to lull my overactive brain into going to sleep at night. That's why it got built up so much.


A more mundane fantasy is my wife suddenly changing her attitude and becoming supportive or even encouraging.

Both fantasies have about the same odds of coming true.

[alwayshave]

My fantasy is dressing. I feel so complete when dressed.

[kimdl93]

My fantasy was to go out in girl mode with my (ex) wife. I was never able to realize this fantasy with her, but I have since been out with GG friends.

[SherriePall]

My fantasy (if you can call it that) was to go clothes and shoe shopping while dressed. To have pedicures and make-overs also while dressed. To have a bite to eat and window shop while dressed. To make friends of the GG SA's while dressed (and to visit with them without shopping). To exit a hotel while a gentleman holds the door for me while dressed. Done all that and more. Enjoyed all that and more.

[Stephanie47]

I'll keep it "G" rated or "PG" for mature audiences. Usually, my fantasies are probably achievable if I had an accepting wife. But, alas, that is not to be. Anyway:

1) Having kept my hair and fingernails long during the long Covid lock down, and, constantly badgering my wife to dress more often, she devised a scheme to fulfill my fantasy. However, to an unanticipated extreme. Being a teacher (in fantasyland) on the last day before summer vacation she told me to take a shower and get pretty. After transforming totally en femme I find she has clean out my entire male wardrobe to a rental locker. There is nothing but dresses and heels to wear for the entire summer. The doorbell rings and her entire extended family enters and gets to see me en femme. I have to endure the reveal for the entire ten week summer vacation.

2) It's Halloween and I have coaxed my wife into letting me dress as a woman during her weekly book club at our home. I thought I was in heaven serving tea and coffee attired in a white blouse and black skirt with black heels and hosiery and all the proper undergarments; full makeup and beautiful wig. The women think I am adorable and somewhat envious of my wife for having a nice hostess. Then, unexpectedly, my wife announced that, since she always serves drinks and snacks for my football game watching buddies, I have agreed to do the same en femme for her book club. A one day adventure turns into a weekly thing and finally I am included into the book club and go to book signings and events outside the home.

3) I am an unemployed college kid and a female cousin who knows of my cross dressing tells me of a job opening for an evening shift at a restaurant. There is a dress code because there is "drag queen" entertainment those nights and I would have to be attired as a woman. I am desperate for a job so I take it. I am able to earn lots of tips and get lots of wandering hands from women. After a few shifts of earning terrific tips I am told by my female boss that there is no dress requirement to dress as a woman, but, the boss is happy because a lot more women have been coming to see me with the intent to more than look. Only in my dreams.

Those are the recurring fantasies suitable for "G" viewing.

[Genifer Teal]

I don't know about it being a fantasy. I've always wanted to wear a big dress that billows out maybe with hoops. There would have to be a fancy and appropriate party to wear it to. Doubt it will ever happen. It's on the list.

[MissSixties]

To have a man ask me out on a dinner date walking around town hand in hand and then back to his place where i stay the night and let him have his way with me.....a girl can dream

[Sometimes Steffi]

I envision myself ready to go out with the girls.

And it's not a fantasy; I do go out with the girls (en femme) IRL.

[Aka_Donna]

I'm surprised no one has questioned the "expert" who said it is wrong to try out fantasies. That is just BS. What is a fantasy? Thinking about having an experience before seeing it play out in life. What little one has not had a wish to be president, a super hero, or the richest man in the world. Who of us can say we didn't have a fantasy of cross dressing, before actually doing it? Goes to show that few labeled "experts" are really any more knowledgeable that we are. They are just better with PR.

[Karren H]

Hi Karen, We have the same fantasy

Yeah! I keep calling it 50 shades of Beaver but that does not sound too good! Lol. How about Leave it June?

[Lacey New]

Simply to be exchanging pretty lingerie with a gg with a little intimacy along the way.

[krissysSecret]

For the most part, I have lived out my small but easy fantasies. I?ve been the French maid at home doing mundane chores, I?ve been the ballerina prancing around my home acting just plain silly. I?ve worked outside in my garden while dressed when the neighbors were at work. I?ve been camping wearing a dress and sensible shoes?gotta be sensible some times! I been to the beach in public in a swim dress and a two piece bikini?lots of just small things over the years to enjoy some Krissy time.
I would say my fantasy that I?d like to do is to have a woman that I could be a servant to everyday dressed in a variety of styles?whatever she desires. It would bring out my more submissive side and I would enjoy that. It will never happen, so I?m certain it will remain my final fantasy.

[EmilyShy]

krissysSecret;

Why is there no "like" button lol. That's great and so want to do all those things

[Janet Murray]

to experience all of the feelings, emotions of a woman when dressed.....back in the 80's!

[NjJamie]

Janet, YES! Back when the hair was high and the skirts were short! At the ZZ Top concert last week they played some awesome oldies, with the video playing in the background, Sharp Dressed Man, She's got Legs, etc.

[Janet Murray]

NjJamie;

pantyhose/makeup/wild hair were acceptable back then!!!!

[Lois Lane]

Would love hose heels etc. Heels clicking on the mall. Dressed to the nines.

[prene]

My fantasy:

to go out and pass easily, and live feminine all day

[Sabine7]

One of my most inspiring fantasies is to spend one or two days in another city in a hotel without having taken any male clothes with me. I mean, you are a woman now and you can only go forward.

[ClairFlair]

I would to have my wife meet me out for drinks while I'm fully dressed and then go to dinner together. Return home and have her make love to me.

[katie36]

My fantasy is looking so damn hot after a makeover then walking around town with all the cars slowing down for a good look at the hot woman I have always wanted to be

[Jillcder]

My number one fantasy since I was a teenager was to dress completely as a woman wearing a pretty dress, heels, wig, full makeup and girly under garments in public approximately ten years ago this fantasy became a reality.
Another fantasy is to have my wife instruct me to wear my French maid outfit while completing all household chores on a weekly basis.
With Halloween coming up this fantasy would include my wife and I attending a large gathering of our friends at a costume party with me dressing to the nines in my prettiest dress, walking perfect in 4 inch heels, perfect hair and makeup leaving no mistake that this is not the first time I have worn womens clothing.

[Stephanieanne]

Without doubt being taken on a date with a lovely caring man. Just prepping before hand getting ready, then there?s that knock at the door and it?s him! And later ?.

[DianeT]

No fantasies while dressed, just lounging and enjoying the gender confusing sensations.
I very rarely have a dream where I have to dress up in clothes that have been laid out for me by some unknown woman or women. The dream never goes beyond the point where I am looking at the clothes or beginning to dress so if I want to know what happens next I'll have to write it myself. That lazy dreaming mind is definitely of no help.

[Monique65]

My fantasy is meeting another CD at an out of town hotel and spending the weekend with her en femme.

[Gracefullyfemme]

My fantasy is always the same. I'm home for the evening and become the elegant woman I feel I am inwardly. I add the necessities to give myself a feminine figure and get dolled up with make-up and a wig. The finishing touch is slipping into a long flowing sheer nightgown. As I settle in to be a lady a knock comes from the door and I quickly put on my male robe. I answer the door forgetting about the make-up and wig and my younger good looking neighbor is standing there with flowers in hand. Obviously I've been caught and he encourages me to take off the robe and "be myself". I do and he tells me I'm beautiful which is music to my ears. We settle in to get better acquainted and we have a wonderful intimate time. Its the start of something truly beautiful.

[mirima1992]

I have always had a fantasy of being a bad girl who gets caught and punished by a big strong man for her bad behavior. Like a school girl caught in the professors home stealing answers for the midterm. Thank God for doublelist. Not very pc today.

[AmeeJo]

I have always wanted to have a threesome with a man and a woman and little old me dressed to the nines in the middle. I'll leave it at that but pretty much nothing is off the table....

[MissSixties]

Without doubt being taken on a date with a lovely caring man. Just prepping before hand getting ready, then there?s that knock at the door and it?s him! And later ?.

This ^^^^!!
The anticipation whilst getting ready.......and then he arrives :love:

[CDMargret]

Being able to be dressed and accepted in public, with family and friends. That's mine. My wonderful wife and I along with a few select friends know about my passion and share our desires. But really it's just a big ol' secret.

[Ameli]

I recently read a book called ?Tell Me What You Want?. It?s about people?s sexual fantasies. I really enjoyed the book and highly recommend it. In it, the author / researcher talks about fantasies involving crossdressing and gender-bending. He also differentiates this from transgenderism. I don?t want to summarize it here, because it?s been a while since I read it and don?t want to mis-speak about it. I remember feeling validated though.

[Lacy PJs]

Genifer Teal,

Here is your big, flowing dress! :)

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[Lois Lane]

To be lois lane. Tied gagged classic damsel in distress. And dressed to the nines

[Janet Murray]

This ^^^^!!
The anticipation whilst getting ready.......and then he arrives :love:

That's a nice one...

[Becky Bloodstone]

I picture myself being the star of a drag show, the whole crowd loving me. But I'm not talented or sociable enough for that sort of thing😄.

[Joannie]

AmeeJO, I think we all have that fantasy. I wonder how many (few) here have actually had it happen.

[Sometimes Steffi]

As a kid, I used to have an unusual fantasy. I knew that CDing "was wrong" so I tried to invent forced or accidental ways to be crossdressed, so I "could claim" (at least to myself, that I couldn't help it.

One of my favorite fantasies was that I found this strange elevator hidden in the woods. If you walked into the elevator and pressed the down button (there was no up button), you would get younger and younger as the elevator went down. Eventually you reached the bottom where you were a single cell. The Y chromosome would change to an X and the elevator would go back to the top. When you exited the elevator you would be a full-fledged girl.

[NewGirlChloe]

I have quite a few: walking down the aisle in a beautiful bridal gown, going to cocktail parties in stunningly elegant dresses etc, even just going to work in formal office women?s attire. I do also imagine having the necessary surgery and living full time as the woman I know is in me.

[CeCe]

My fantasy is to feel comfortable about other people seeing me dressed. Less than a handful of friends have seen me dressed. I do not like the secrecy of my dressing, but I do not yet have the courage to reveal myself to family, friends, co-workers and neighbors

[Kathi-Anne]

Being a teacher and having the students having a peek at my pantyhose clad legs.

[Leohose]

To be lois lane. Tied gagged classic damsel in distress. And dressed to the nines

With Superman rescuing Lois be wearing a leotard and pantyhose ?

[Jessica Secret]

I've been wearing romantic bridal lingerie to bed since my teens and prior to having a boyfriend the fantasy was to have a boyfriend/husband and experience him making love to me on our wedding night. Since having a boyfriend I get to experience the fantasy on a regular basis (well the lovemaking, not the wedding night yet lol)!

[Genifer Teal]

My fantasy is to feel comfortable about other people seeing me dressed. Less than a handful of friends have seen me dressed. I do not like the secrecy of my dressing, but I do not yet have the courage to reveal myself to family, friends, co-workers and neighbors

You live in NYC. There is so much to explore! (And it's friendly) message me. Let's talk. I had a ton of fun in New York City in ny 30s. Of course all the while I wish I had found it all in my 20s. Regardless how old you are life never stops moving.
I'd love to help you find you're happiness sooner rather than later. Like they say about real estate location location location!we've got the best location. Make use of the opportunity. I am saddened I hear what people in small towns have to deal with..

[Maria 60]

When I was younger I would go to work with my father on summer break. His job involved going into offices and I always loved seeing all those secretaries dressed so perfect, all with skirts and dresses and would alway catch a view of lacy slips hanging down. It was so different back in the 70s women working in offices it seemed more professional, my wife never wears a skirt to work and she doesn't even own a pair of pantyhose and she gave me all her slips years ago. So to answer your question if I do any fantasizing it would probably be a secretary back in the 70s look.

[Wolfords]

My fantasy was my gorgeous aunt Alice . She was 38, had a wonderful sexy figure and often wore black pantyhose and heels. She was a receptionist at a printing so she was always stylish and dressed beautifully. I was 14 and asked to feed her cat twice a day while she was on holiday. Ventured upstairs and my heart was beating out of my chest when I tried her bedroom door. I sat on her bed and admired her rows of heels, coloured frocks and dresses while a beautiful black silk slip hung over a chair next to her bed. I had to look in her lingerie drawer and it took my breath away. Black lace bras, silk panties, slips and all colours of pantyhose. There was a beautiful aroma too, her distinctive perfume and woman musk made it a highly charged sexual atmosphere for a raw teenager who had never seen such beautiful lingerie. I locked the door, pulled the blinds down and picked up her pantyhose, she had left on the floor. I'll never forget the brand; 15 denier, barely black. Gosh, it felt so good. Naked except for her beautiful pantyhose I chose a pair of her black sling backs and a mini skirt. It was sensual and overwhelming. I knew what the conclusion would be, but I was determined to enjoy this new experience. I was wearing some of aunt's most intimate lingerie and I closed my eyes and thought of her. Standing in front of her long wardrobe mirror I thought about aunt dressing where I was stood and exploded in appreciation of aunt's beautiful figure. That afternoon began a lifetime of cross-dressing. Aunt was my ultimate fantasy.

[Vintage4sarah]

Once I accepted that I was a crossdresser and started on my voyage to be as femme as possible, my earlier fantasies changed. About twenty years ago, I would dream that I was as feminine as possible and I would be on a dinner and show date with a wonderful gentleman. Well, I once shared this with one of my Tgirl friends about seven years ago and she said that she would would help me achieve that fantasy.

The fillowing spring an opportunity arose while I was returning from a business trip and it came true. Well almost as there was no show; but an absolute wonderful dinner date with flowers, wine and a gentleman who treated me like a lady. It was a grand evening for both of us. As the years passed since then, I would be able to play out that fantasy into reality with other gentlemen with equally wonderful memories.

[Jane G]

Yeah. I am June Cleaver with a BDSM dungeon in the basement of the Cleaver home. Do not tell Ward! Lol

:heehee: If only I knew who June Cleaver was.

[Anissa]

I think Margaret Brennan of "Face The Nation" is so beautiful and commanding. I've often thought what it would be like to wear her beautiful dresses and be made up for television. She also clearly wears couture shoes. Jimmy Choos at times, I'm sure.

[Samantha51]

I'd love a machine that changes me into a real woman including emotions and the full workings - good AND bad. Not just a man in a woman's body. I know this isn't unique. I started writing a story but deleted it during a purge. I'm no novelist and of course I don't know what it really, deep down, means to be a woman, with a maternal instinct and a full female life story. My story was trite and didn't really go anywhere - no plot!

But a sex change machine would be awesome! I might not want to change back TBH. So much more than having sex.

[Breezy]

Totally get this Samantha! I?ve started writing so many fantasy stories like you described, then threw them away. You?re not alone & it?s not trite, you?re writing down a pure emotion but your words & time get in the way!
I?ve done it and I think I know the feeling!

[Samantha51]

Yeah, maybe I should try again but I don't know what it's like to really be a woman so it would be limited to my imagination. I need a decent story first.

[Stephanie47]

:heehee: If only I knew who June Cleaver was.

June Cleaver was the mom on "Leave It to Beaver" television show played by Barbara Billingsly. It was aired 1957-1963.

[JohnH]

I don't have any fantasies at all when I'm "dressed" as dresses are part of my everyday attire. And my having large breasts is not a fantasy as my bra cup size is DD without any filler. Of course that means I have to wear a woman's swimsuit. I have a tankini that has "boy shorts" to give room for my boy bits.

John

[prene]

My fantasy:

to go out and pass easily, and live feminine all day

and all Night feminine

[Cheryl T]

Fantasies?
Well, I suppose I have the usual. French Maid, Bride, Princess.
They were there from the beginning when I was little, well, maybe not the French Maid, but the other two surely were there.
Other than that I would just love to have an evening out. Yes, a date, but not a physical one, just a night where I can go all out. A lovely gown, beautiful heels, a gorgeous escort and an exquisite party. Full dinner, dancing, cocktails and a night where I don't turn into a pumpkin at midnight LOL.

[Andrea1964]

I'm happy as a man and have no desire to change so mine is to just be able to dress and act as I want without fear of ridicule.

[Vale]

I am with Cheryl for that night out. . . . Vale

[Freddi]

One of my fantasies is to be held by a rich woman....I'm free to wander around a vast house but must be dressed en Fem all the time...in fact I have no access to male clothing. Sometimes I made to wear a maids outfit and wait on her and her female friends others its normal female attire . Then theres times I'm in a full on ball gown and dancing with her. Someone does all my make up & hair etc to transform me into some who passes. She loves every minute of and I have no desire to escape. lol

[OrdinaryAverageGuy]

What Samantha said. A machine, or (as I've mentioned before) a Harry Potter type spell, to make me an actual woman for a day or a week. That would truly be awesome. BUT, as they say, "Welcome to Fantasy Island!"

[Lilly-Ann]

I'm lucky to have a loving and supporting wife - I guess I can say I don't really have any big fantasies now because shes fine with me living them out, only have one big one left but I hope on her birthday this year I may be able to live it out ,I wish to make love to my wife fully dressed feminine and please her how she wishes, when I think of all the folks that have to hide everything from their wife or their wife will not indulge in their husbands quirks I feel sorry for them that they have that kind of relationship with their spouse, Ill say again I am just very fortunate to have one that will go along with it, i know my limits with her and my desires and try not to over step those boundaries,

[MissSixties]

That was great Lilly-Ann.

[Karren H]

I wish I could tag along with Sandi Beech and I would like to hear what her fantasy is!

[Brenda Freeman]

I had lots of fantasies when I was very young. I finally made several come true much later in life. The French maid uniform, wedding dress, petticoats and pretty dresses, corset nylons and garters, full make up dressing up and going out in public, finding friends like me. Fantasies that are now fun memories with more to come.

[Natalie5004]

I would love to go out as 2 women with my wife. Both of us dressed to the 9's.

[Sandi Beech]

Doh, not going there Karren. My real outings are wild enough as it is. I don?t need a fantasy.

Sandi