Emma_Forbes
04-15-2006, 02:39 PM
Hi Ladies,
I have just had the most amazing few days away and didn't dress once - not even a little bit!
I was away visiting my aunt and uncle who have been very loving and supportive towards me over the last few years during some difficult times. They were aware of my crossdressing before I went on Thursday and had never condemned me at all. Being without support of anyone who I can sit down and talk to about dressing I think I was desperate to talk to them about it (well, more my aunt really as I figured she would be more receptive) although I had no plans to broach the subject.
However, it cropped up occasionally during conversation throughout the visit until last evening when we spent about 2 hours just talking about my crossdressing. They asked questions, I gave answers and volunteered bits of info along the way. Then my uncle just said that if I wanted to dress while I was with them, that was fine. You could have knocked me over with a feather boa! Then he wondered whether I would be happy to go out for dinner with them en femme. Well you could have knocked me over with the suggestion of a feather boa! I was shocked, amazed, frightened, excited, nonplussed etc etc etc. I didn't know what to think or say or anything. My aunt offered to help with all sorts of things, like doing nails to shopping for cosmetics. I discreetly showed them my avatar at the end of the evening and they were amazed that it was me. They said they felt privileged that I felt able to talk with them about me. Absolute rubbish - I'm the one who is privileged, to have such an understanding aunt and uncle.
I have genuinely spent today trying to work out if it was all a dream. I even asked if I had imagined it all and was assured that it had happened. I'm in a whirl; it feels like all my birthdays and all my Christmases at the same time. I just don't know what to do next.
Now, before the words of warning come, I know that I should take it easy and not force it on them and that is good advice and I will heed it. I shall wait for them to mention it next time I am due to visit. If they do, Emma (soon to be renamed) will well and truly be out of the closet. I know I am going to have many more questions for you all but this post is already way too long.
Finally, in spite of the fact that they will probably never read this, I wish to praise my aunt and uncle for being so loving and supportive. I wouldn't have made it through the last few years without them and now I look forward to exciting times ahead. They are worth far more than riches to me.
Be encouraged my friends, just as you have encouraged me. Dreams do come true after all.
Ecstatically,
Em
I have just had the most amazing few days away and didn't dress once - not even a little bit!
I was away visiting my aunt and uncle who have been very loving and supportive towards me over the last few years during some difficult times. They were aware of my crossdressing before I went on Thursday and had never condemned me at all. Being without support of anyone who I can sit down and talk to about dressing I think I was desperate to talk to them about it (well, more my aunt really as I figured she would be more receptive) although I had no plans to broach the subject.
However, it cropped up occasionally during conversation throughout the visit until last evening when we spent about 2 hours just talking about my crossdressing. They asked questions, I gave answers and volunteered bits of info along the way. Then my uncle just said that if I wanted to dress while I was with them, that was fine. You could have knocked me over with a feather boa! Then he wondered whether I would be happy to go out for dinner with them en femme. Well you could have knocked me over with the suggestion of a feather boa! I was shocked, amazed, frightened, excited, nonplussed etc etc etc. I didn't know what to think or say or anything. My aunt offered to help with all sorts of things, like doing nails to shopping for cosmetics. I discreetly showed them my avatar at the end of the evening and they were amazed that it was me. They said they felt privileged that I felt able to talk with them about me. Absolute rubbish - I'm the one who is privileged, to have such an understanding aunt and uncle.
I have genuinely spent today trying to work out if it was all a dream. I even asked if I had imagined it all and was assured that it had happened. I'm in a whirl; it feels like all my birthdays and all my Christmases at the same time. I just don't know what to do next.
Now, before the words of warning come, I know that I should take it easy and not force it on them and that is good advice and I will heed it. I shall wait for them to mention it next time I am due to visit. If they do, Emma (soon to be renamed) will well and truly be out of the closet. I know I am going to have many more questions for you all but this post is already way too long.
Finally, in spite of the fact that they will probably never read this, I wish to praise my aunt and uncle for being so loving and supportive. I wouldn't have made it through the last few years without them and now I look forward to exciting times ahead. They are worth far more than riches to me.
Be encouraged my friends, just as you have encouraged me. Dreams do come true after all.
Ecstatically,
Em