If you could change just one thing about your appearance

[NatalieGirl]

If you could change just one thing about your body or appearance, what would it be?

If it were possible, I would give myself a narrow, hourglass waist. That would really help me wear a lot of female clothes, especially skirts.

Unfortunately, I have a bulging waist, not an hourglass. LOL.

Big boobs would be nice too. But those are easy to fake. A narrow waist is not easy to fake.

What say you girls?

[alwayshave]

Natalie, Loosing weight would be the one thing I would change.

[Diane P]

I agree on the narrow waist. Unfotunately I'm your typical 65 year old with a gut

[Bea_]

I'd like to have the physique/figure I had at age 33. It's the one time in my life I had a six pack. I took "before" picks this afternoon so that I can see if my goal of working out and eating right will accomplish anything this year. I'm not particularly big, but my gut is my most prominent feature and ruins any look, masc or femme.

[Maria 60]

Well I believe I'm with everyone else with the weight lose.

[kimdl93]

One thing is not enough. If i am going to engage in hypotheticals I would fantasize about at least a half dozen things that would merit improvement.

[Karren H]

A feminine voice. The rest I have a handle on but not the voice.

[Sherry Ann Evans]

Definitely to lose the belly!! I'd also like to have whiter, straighter teeth.

[Snide_lobster]

make my nose a little smaller

[SarahBJackson]

I wish I had more hair on my head. I'm dumping stuff on it twice a day to try to grow it again.

[Kelli_cd]

I'm in the weight loss/ body figure crowd. A narrower waist would be really nice, residual if I could cups that with proportionate hips.

[Lisa Gerrie]

I suspect that most people, male or female, would answer weight.

Beyond that, I'd probably replace my face. It would be nice to experience being pretty.

[JohnH]

I would like to lose the.gut. I have big enough boobs as my.bra cup size is DD.
About my voice: No, I don't want a feminine voice. Rather, I would prefer to keep my deep singing range all day that I have when I.wake up in the morning (G1, three ledger lines below the bass staff).

John

[Samantha51]

A more androgynous face.
An accepting and encouraging wife?! 😂

Weight/gut can be worked on with lots of work

[Sometimes Steffi]

I'd like to be able to buy all those cute shoes in size 10. It's pretty hard to find any cute shoes in an 11 or 12.

[Heather76]

I would like to lose weight (10 lbs.); but that doesn't get me a feminine figure. I would like to develop feminine mannerisms. I think that would go a long way toward making me feel more feminine.

[docrobbysherry]

Another "waist" vote, Natalie. While I'm about 38"-31"-37" and do have a waist? I'm short waisted so that's NOT dramatic enuff for the 20's/30's something woman I portray.:battingeyelashes:

I can wear tite laced corsets for short periods of time which helps a lot!:thumbsup:

But, only for 2 hours max. And, that's not long enuff for most of my shoots and my outings r usually 4 hours or more!:sad:

[Jane G]

Some how I have never had a gut. It is more of a battle to ward it off as I get older though, Lol. Short of being born a girl, I wouldn't change a thing about my body. It has served me well all these years and I have had happy life thus far.

[GretchenM]

Change one thing. Hmmm. Go back 20 years (at least). Sadly that is not possible in this Universe. Being 78 is not the ideal setup for being that younger person, but one can still make efforts to be younger in mind even if not in body. That is all about adaptation.

[Leah87]

I would love to permanently lose all my annoying body hair.

I know there are various means of removing it, but I would have to consider some basic issues such as explaining to my wife why all my body hair has disappeared (She doesn't have a clue about my CD life, by the way). Having said that, I have already gradually started to reduce the amount of hair on my legs, which is a key area. My wife noticed straight away the first time i wore shorts last year. My explanation was that it had been gradually worn away by my clothing during various work and leisure related activities such as walking, running etc. She wasn't convinced, but I think she's got used to it as she doesn't mention it anymore.

I could always take up swimming in a big way and get all my hair removed for performance purposes!

[Jillcder]

Being a perfect size 6 would be great.

[Stephanie47]

I'd like not to be a victim of male-pattern baldness. Natalie, I do not have an hourglass figure and am not going to pack on false hips, so it is dresses only that do not accentuate a waist; empire waists and sheaths.

[Cheryl T]

Well, I can change my weight so that's not really a wish.
Not to be greedy but I would want to change 2 things that are not in my control.
1. My voice which has become even harder due to some medical issues.
2. I'd love to have a full head of hair so wigs would be optional, not necessary. Darn Male pattern baldness.

Other than that I'm content with everything. I can deal with my height, I can change my weight, I'm comfortable with my age and such.

[Monique65]

I’d love to have a full head of beautiful hair like I did in my 20s when I wore it in a long ponytail. I started losing it in my 30s, and now it’s only a faded memory.

[KymG]

My hands could look nicer. They are a dead giveaway. Mind you, so is my face but makeup works wonders.

[DianeT]

So, basically, everyone wants to take the slack from the belly and move it ten inches up in two lumps...
But, no, thank you. I keep my little pot belly. Like I said before, it is very feminine.

[PaulaJeanette]

Wow! I can't believe no one has said this yet...so I will. Be a sexy, young woman!

[Jessica G.]

One thing is too hard to choose!

In my case it may be a little more then a cross dressing thing, But I wish I could have a nice body propionate set of boobs.

I've told my wife this is a goal in my life. When will I do it? I have no clue. But she's ok with it, its just not something I can do at this age without a lot of explaining to do.

[Debra Russell]

Just one thing :idontknow::sigh: really :praying: M>F .................Debra

[Kitty Sue]

I just wish I could learn to accept me warts and all. If I coukd change one thing I would not be thankful. I would demand that I could have something else changed also. Gratitude is not one of my best qualities.

[Fiona_44]

Would love to change my voice.

[Deborah G]

If only one thing, rolling back the dial 30 years! That would take care of many issues in one swoop!

[EmilyShy]

Bigger breasts 🫣

Bigger but Not big! a full A cup will do me just fine.

Emily xx

[SuzyZahn]

Smaller fem hands.

[Misty_cder]

I'm another vote for losing the belly. Would like natural breast, but given where I am in life, it would be very hard to explain and my forms work well for the time.

[HollyGreene]

My face. As I get older, it's becoming more and more difficult to paint it with a feminine look.

[abby054]

OK, I will state the obvious that two others have stated. I would like to look like an attractive young woman. That is my one thing. For many, that is what passing means. I would settle for looking like an attractive woman my age. For me, that is not a compromise. I consider myself young and always will. I have long found most of the women that I consider most attractive to be my age, regardless of what age that might be at the time. They alone treat me as a peer, not as their grandfather figure.

I am having some success with weight loss, about 21 pounds, 10kg, since September. It slowed during the holidays but I am now back at it. I have reduced a dress size, now a US 16. My goal is to fit into a size US14 occasionally fitting a US 12, as was my case 25 years ago. My method is dietary, mostly. I got rid of the obvious sources of sugar and salt in my diet. That includes also bread and grain products. My motivation is the early signs of several weight related illnesses. The last straw was a letter from the Red Cross saying they would fire me as a blood donor if I showed up with blood pressure over 155 again. That hurt. I am nearly at a lifetime total donation of twenty gallons.

The story is told that God became tired of people complaining constantly. He found particularly irritating that a common complaint was that someone else had it easier. So He summoned everyone. He told each of them to pack up their troubles in a bag and place those bags in front of His throne. When all troubles were so packaged, he told everyone, life has troubles, that is the way it is. But He says, I will help you all with your burdens. Pick up a bag, your choice, and go home. Beginning with the oldest and in order down to the youngest, each person slowly and sheepishly picked up his own bag of troubles and went home.

[Violetgray]

Wider hips.

[SaraLin]

One pesky chromosome.

[oh to be rachel]

One pesky chromosome.

It's this.

[Natalie5004]

I would change the year I started really dressing. And bigger boobs.

If I did that I am sure I would have been on hormones. Therefore, larger boobs like my Mom and sisters would have appeared. I am sure of it.

[April Rose]

By now I've had more than a hundred hours of electrolysis, so I guess it's pretty clear that I am working toward a more feminine face.

[bridget thronton]

More hair

[mbmeen12]

Natalie5004 here here👍

[JANINE500]

Bigger boobs.
Feminine voice.
Luckily, almost everything else is almost 100% feminine. I should have really been born a girl!

[BLUE ORCHID]

Smaller Feet, There is really not a Lt of, Orchid**O:daydreaming:O** really Sexy ladies size 13 Heels

[Tip or Ozma]

I agree with you, Leah. I would love to have hairless skin from my hips up. I have been shaving my legs for years with my wife's acceptance.

[Tania75]

My figure is actually ok, it's the face that would need work done. The nose is on the large side, and the eyelids are drooping south with age, one more than the other.

[Debbie Denier]

My scalp. I have a chronic skin condition that look?s awful in male mode and is irritated when wearing a wig .

[Elizabeth G]

That damned y chromosome.

[Robyn2006]

Absolutely #1: Lose all body and facial hair. Shaving is such a pain!!!

[Melody Rich]

Such a hard question!
I'm bald and would like hair. My feet are too large for most women's shoes. I hate my testes. However, I think the worst is my weight, in particular, my belly. It makes find clothing that fit, and look good a real challenge.

[Adelaide]

I would love to have natural breasts. One wish.....but so important for me...

[Kris Burton]

When I do CD pics the hardest thing I have to disguise is my protruding adam's apple...so that!

[Sporco]

My gender at birth. Anything else comes up miles too short.

[ReallyLauren]

For me, the first thing that comes to mind is weight. I guess this makes me like a lot of the other women in the world! Of course, being born as a CIS woman would have been the ultimate dream.

[Sabine7]

The only reasonable thing I would have done was to be born as a woman. Unfortunately, it was not my decision behind that. However, if being a cis-woman, I would not appreciate that fact enough.

[Brenda Freeman]

It would be nice to not have to shave my beard, also I have had a nice head of hair but slowly am seeing a receding area, I have enjoyed just going with my natural hair after growing it out upon retiring but have kept a wig for my younger look and wear it occasionally.

[Krea]

Hair. I would love to have far more on top and none on my face & chest.

[Cheryl T]

A full head of nice hair.
The rest of it I can deal with or change.

[Jamie001]

Smaller feet. I am a women's size 11m.

[Genifer Teal]

Smaller feet to fit more shoes.

[audreyinalbany]

better complexion; fewer wrinkles

[Debs]

would love my breasts to be one cup larger, Im a natural 38b, would not be greedy 38c will do fine.

[countrygirl]

For me it is the weight. But instead of losing weight I want to gain more of it. Feel better when I am bigger. Always have.

[Michala]

A smaller body for me. A body like an NFL lineman is hard to dress feminine. Don't have a bulging waistline but a 48" chest, 40"waist, and about the same hips isn't very feminine.

[OrdinaryAverageGuy]

It would be amazing if my beer belly would slowly disappear and reappear in the form of 2 boobs "that I just can't explain."
-Fantasy

It would be great if I didn't have to shave my face every damn day.
-Maybe laser someday

[Destinycd]

A smaller body for me also. My size is great for guy mode but not so much for girl mode.

[AllieBellema]

I'm also wishing for a smaller body. Would make ordering and wearing dresses and ball gowns so much easier.

[Michelle1955]

Several things come to mind,but feet is biggest issue.
Mens size 13 or 14.
The have grown several sizes due to falling arches.

[Claire_with_a_twist]

100% on board with people that say "Body hair and facial hair"... Shaving sucks! But, I am ok with how I look so far, I have gone through 20 pounds loss over the past 2 month, so win win!

[Rachelsometimes]

softer face, (smaller nose and chin.)

[MarinaTwelve200]

My weight--- I am 260 pounds, so I have to wear dresses that don't show my waist or pot gut. I am happy with my face legs, etc. Could be better, but they look good enough IMHO.

[Chrisdresser]

probably I would change my breasts to bigger ones

[chrissy111]

My voice, to me I sound like a guy trying to sound like a woman.

[mayarose]

Less.broad shoulders for me. It's the singularly most masculine feature that stands out when I'm dressed.

[Raychel]

Weight would be my number one, Larger natural breast would be #2

[Amanda James]

I would love a 24 inch waist.

[CrossKimmy]

I wish my skin were supple and much softer. I try everything to get it to feel like a real girls and I get close but not perfectly feminine.

[Christina89]

My weight and maybe my height as 1 and 2.

[AnelineM]

My kingdom for eyebrows and more visible eye lashes...

[amandak_tv]

Oh, to be petite!

What a thrill it must be to spend a girly day out and about not drawing any unwanted attention to your dainty little self - or maybe drawing the right kind of attention.

I’m blessed/cursed in that I’m a big, strong, athletic man. I appreciate the things that my size, along with my fitness and overall good health allow me to do, but more than anything, I’d love to know what it’s like to be fit, healthy, and PETITE!

[prene]

Change from one X chromosome and one Y chromosome (XY) to two X chromosomes (XX).

The rest would work it out naturally

[Melani65]

I want a bigger butt. Oh yea!

[Anne E]

I would like to never shave my face again.

[Mary Loo]

I only want characteristics temporarily, but personally my biggest wish would be a softer face and better makeup skills. Granted I rarely have the chance to practice makeup, but I am reasonably content or okay with most everything else except my face which I have trouble not seeing my male self in reflection and pictures. Mind you I am okay with it normally, just not when dressing en femme. Oh and the other significant thing to fix is body hair ( or more accurately lack thereof ). Again, this one is even moreso in my win control, but not ready to make a permanent change quite yet.

[lynn.crossdresser]

Just one thing is a hard choice, but i would go for a full head of hair.

[BiancaEstrella]

Body hair is the source of my dysphoria, so I'm going to go with that.

A close second would be my smile. I like my smile, but I often imagine loving my smile.

[danniUK]

I'm relatively happy with my weight, body hair and most of the things that people have mentioned so far.
I'm a bit on the too-tall side but I can live with that... I think the one thing I'd like would be more feminine facial features. For me at least, that's the hardest thing to make more female-looking.

[Freddi]

Would like to drop a few dress sizes and lose my pot belly. Slightly larger breasts would be nice to fill a bra properly but not too big. Make-up skills need more practice too.

[BTWimRobin]

Just one thing. I can think of at least 10 things I'd like to change. Oh where do I begin?

A pretty smile.
Smaller feet
Less body hair.... a lot less lol
A more shaply figure
Manageable hair
Softer voice
Longer eyelashes
More feminine facial features
A more flexible body

Dic I miss anything?

[Bea_]

I have a very weak chin. Not a feminine chin. just very weak and not attractive. And my teeth are not attractive. My appearance always took back seat to all the other family needs so my crooked teeth remain. I'd rather have those two issues corrected than all the other possible changes. I like my build in general but would love my old 30 inch waist back.