miss_sarah
04-16-2006, 08:45 AM
Today For You - Tomorrow For Me!
So Wednesday my wife, a GG friend and I (as Sarah) daytripped to the windy city to see RENT! This marks the first major day out for me, and wow! What a liberating experience. I know I would never have had the self esteem/confidence to go through with it without the support of my wife and girlfriend.
The night before was a high-stress night. I honestly don't have anything male that I feel comfortable wearing and think I look nice. So I was raving about that all day. Finally I just decided if I couldn't find something suitable to wear, I was going in drag. There's more to that story, but I put in on my blog if you really want to read all that :) www.sarahcd.com
First thing, at like 4am, my wife and I make a mad dash to WalMart for shoes and a black bra, because all my shoes are very dressy and not at all comfortable for walking around downtown Chi all day. YAY! Shoe shopping!!!
We got together and had breakfast at the same local restaurant where we have breakfast just about once a week -- so I was most surely "made" there (although oddly enough, I'm finally learning to love myself to the point of not caring about being picked out of the crowd) but the girls were polite as always. Back on the road to Chicago, we make a quick drink stop at a gas station in one of our local hilljack towns before getting on the interstate. The girls decide they're going to make a bathroom stop... without telling me :straightface: leaving me stranded alone in the hicksville convenience store... After the third burly hard-labor-worker looking guy came in and stared me down, I'd had enough and scurried back to the car for safety.
Onto the interstate, 100-some miles later we had to make a stop in Woodridge to drop off some sound equipment to get repaired. I had spoken to the lady there on the phone the day prior, so she was likely expecting a man, but didn't bat an eye when I pranced through the door. From there it was on into the city - and lemme tell ya, we're small town people! The GG friend and I grew up together in a town of like 1400. Suffice it to say I'm not a fan of big metro "let's cram as many people as we can fit in" environments, nor can I understand why on earth anyone would LIKE that lifestyle! LOL Not that I haven't been in downtown Chicago before, but this was my first visit where I had the misfortune of driving. You couldn't pay me enough to live in a big city. There's NO JOB worth that mess! haha
Well, we got settled on the 40000th floor of the parking garage (ok, I'm exaggerating a bit...) and the theatre was only a block walk away, which was nice as the wife and I were both breaking in new shoes in the process. We had a little time to kill, so we cruised through a dress shop, and another shopping center before making our way to the theatre. OMG What a gorgeous place that was! Again, if you're interested in my take on the show (it was great, in a nutshell), see the blog, link above. We were 4th row center stage in the Orchestra seating - excellent seats!!! Anyway, intermission came and I've gotta pee really bad right. Not happenin. Way too many people there. I'm sure I would have enjoyed the 2nd act a whole lot more if they didn't have the air cranked way up, hair on my legs growing, and crossing my legs back and forth fighting the *urge*.
We decided being rush hour and all these shows getting out, it'd probably be a nightmarish wait trying to get into a restaurant (we WERE going to hike to Ed Debevic's...) so we just high-tailed it back to the car and out of the city in bumper to bumper rush hour traffic. Again, no salary is worth this!!! LOL
We ended up stopping at a Cracker Barrel for dinner, mainly because I HAD to stop SOMEWHERE to pee. No trouble using the ladies room here, no long lines, I think there was a lady in there as we were coming in, who was on her way out. Anyway, no problems :)
Halfway home, I decide my hair just isn't growing fast enough, because that bloody wig started itching like mad, and I know it doesn't look very "real" ( based on lack of hairline mainly, and the way the part looks). Gotta say overall a great experience! Not one single comment made to me, although I'm pretty sure there were some odd looks and some good conversations about it after we were out of earshot. I even conversed a bit with some elevator folks about the show, which my male persona would probably normally be too introverted and shy to do! YAY! Now I'm ready to go see it again (all the good seats are sold out by now though)!
So Wednesday my wife, a GG friend and I (as Sarah) daytripped to the windy city to see RENT! This marks the first major day out for me, and wow! What a liberating experience. I know I would never have had the self esteem/confidence to go through with it without the support of my wife and girlfriend.
The night before was a high-stress night. I honestly don't have anything male that I feel comfortable wearing and think I look nice. So I was raving about that all day. Finally I just decided if I couldn't find something suitable to wear, I was going in drag. There's more to that story, but I put in on my blog if you really want to read all that :) www.sarahcd.com
First thing, at like 4am, my wife and I make a mad dash to WalMart for shoes and a black bra, because all my shoes are very dressy and not at all comfortable for walking around downtown Chi all day. YAY! Shoe shopping!!!
We got together and had breakfast at the same local restaurant where we have breakfast just about once a week -- so I was most surely "made" there (although oddly enough, I'm finally learning to love myself to the point of not caring about being picked out of the crowd) but the girls were polite as always. Back on the road to Chicago, we make a quick drink stop at a gas station in one of our local hilljack towns before getting on the interstate. The girls decide they're going to make a bathroom stop... without telling me :straightface: leaving me stranded alone in the hicksville convenience store... After the third burly hard-labor-worker looking guy came in and stared me down, I'd had enough and scurried back to the car for safety.
Onto the interstate, 100-some miles later we had to make a stop in Woodridge to drop off some sound equipment to get repaired. I had spoken to the lady there on the phone the day prior, so she was likely expecting a man, but didn't bat an eye when I pranced through the door. From there it was on into the city - and lemme tell ya, we're small town people! The GG friend and I grew up together in a town of like 1400. Suffice it to say I'm not a fan of big metro "let's cram as many people as we can fit in" environments, nor can I understand why on earth anyone would LIKE that lifestyle! LOL Not that I haven't been in downtown Chicago before, but this was my first visit where I had the misfortune of driving. You couldn't pay me enough to live in a big city. There's NO JOB worth that mess! haha
Well, we got settled on the 40000th floor of the parking garage (ok, I'm exaggerating a bit...) and the theatre was only a block walk away, which was nice as the wife and I were both breaking in new shoes in the process. We had a little time to kill, so we cruised through a dress shop, and another shopping center before making our way to the theatre. OMG What a gorgeous place that was! Again, if you're interested in my take on the show (it was great, in a nutshell), see the blog, link above. We were 4th row center stage in the Orchestra seating - excellent seats!!! Anyway, intermission came and I've gotta pee really bad right. Not happenin. Way too many people there. I'm sure I would have enjoyed the 2nd act a whole lot more if they didn't have the air cranked way up, hair on my legs growing, and crossing my legs back and forth fighting the *urge*.
We decided being rush hour and all these shows getting out, it'd probably be a nightmarish wait trying to get into a restaurant (we WERE going to hike to Ed Debevic's...) so we just high-tailed it back to the car and out of the city in bumper to bumper rush hour traffic. Again, no salary is worth this!!! LOL
We ended up stopping at a Cracker Barrel for dinner, mainly because I HAD to stop SOMEWHERE to pee. No trouble using the ladies room here, no long lines, I think there was a lady in there as we were coming in, who was on her way out. Anyway, no problems :)
Halfway home, I decide my hair just isn't growing fast enough, because that bloody wig started itching like mad, and I know it doesn't look very "real" ( based on lack of hairline mainly, and the way the part looks). Gotta say overall a great experience! Not one single comment made to me, although I'm pretty sure there were some odd looks and some good conversations about it after we were out of earshot. I even conversed a bit with some elevator folks about the show, which my male persona would probably normally be too introverted and shy to do! YAY! Now I'm ready to go see it again (all the good seats are sold out by now though)!