What are your dress limits

[Debs]

What are you limits/tolerances with your wife or partner with dressing ?. The only two thing for me, I cannot grow my hair out and I cannot have my ears pierced, everything else is fine, I can dress when I want fully shave all my body paint my nails etc, but the two things Ive mentioned are a big NO NO. What are your barriers.

[bridget thronton]

No limits if I want to dress at home

[Cheryllynn]

I wouldn't really say I have limits, but my wife has made it known that she doesn't want to be a part of my dressing and I accept that. Not comfortable enough to go outside anyways...and I'd absolutely NEVER pass. lol. I do shave my almost all my body hair off though, and will wear leggings around the house. Painting my toenails is ok as well...so she does accept some things.

[Debbie Denier]

My wife has an absolute 0 tolerance which is the biggest barrier of all.

[Kris Burton]

My wife is fully accepting and supportive, but is concerned about reactions in our conservative neighborhood should I be seen. As a result she has told me that when I venture out and about the further away from home I am the better, so I am always cautious of my surroundings no matter where I am.

[alwayshave]

My wife is fully accepting. There are limits that I don't dress around her oldest daughter who has some mental health challenges.

[sara66]

The only real. but big limit, is my wife does not want to see me dressed. She is very supportive other wise.
Sara

[Monique65]

My wife accepts me wearing panties, a bra, leggings and night gowns. I am quite satisfied with this and have not mentioned any further dressing.

[SaraLin]

Panties - OK (She doesn't need to see them)
Nighties - OK (as long as they're not too "girly." Plain, solid colors, and longer is preferred - no "mini's")
Anything more - taboo!

[CDMargret]

The wigs. My wife would rather me not wear them unless we are heading out. Other than that I have free range. Love that girl. Oh there are a few of her dresses she so not to wear yet she wears all of mine...just not right.

[Jillcder]

Debs, I could definitely live with the Crossdressing limits your wife set you are very lucky to have such a sweet accepting wife. Enjoy!

[Suzie Petersen]

Zero tolerance for me. Less than zero, if that is an option.

[IsaZ]

This is brand new for my wife and I. So far she is supportive and let?s me have time and space inside the house to crossdress as I please. The only hard rule is I have to let her now when I?m doing it. She is not comfortable participating, which is fine with me because I?m not sure I?m ready for that yet either. We are not ready to be intimate during it which is a mutual boundary. I also wear a bra and panties and a nightgown to sleep sometimes which she doesn?t mind if I let her know and as she says ?don?t expect her to watch.?

I feel very lucky, supported and loved by her. She loves shopping and does not mind talking about things I like in the store, which has been a lot of fun.

Thanks,
Isa Z

[BLACK STOCKINGS]

My wife is fully supportive of my dressing. My days of venturing out are over for me at 71 years of age. But, I dress almost every day when I get home from work. She loves to see me dressed.

[chrissy111]

My wife has always accepted me for me. I have been living as Chris for a while and yet the only stipulation is no pictures. Its always been this way.

[Jamie Lynn]

She's not that jazzed about it but does tolerate it. No wigs or makeup, and no going out.

[JocelynJames]

In the very beginning, she didn?t want me having a wig or breast forms or wearing makeup. She relented those things after less than a year .She has seen that after almost 13 years since I told her, I?m still straight and have no desire to transition, so if I?m ok with it she is.

[Samantha43]

My wife met Sami well before we married. She was tolerant at first, but over time has come to prefer Sami. She says I'm calmer and easier to get along with as Sami. She encouraged me to shave my body and get my ears double pierced 20 years ago. We go out occasionally as girlfriends. I don't really pass well. I'm a six feet tall Ironman triathlete. We only go to friendly places. We've been married since 1988 and have two adult children that also accept me for who I am.

[Joanie CD]

I am one of the super fortunate ones. After I came out to my wife 5 years ago, after 38 years of marriage, she was completely supportive. She calls it my "hobby". We go out for dinner and/or drinks together, go shopping together, etc. with me dressed. She doesn't have a fixed rule, but doesn't want me to be Joanie every single day, so I'm sure to be my male self at least once a week. It's a small price to pay for my freedom. Sometimes I stay in male mode for a while. When we vacation, I am usually in male mode, but depending on where we're going, sometimes I have a Joanie day. Last spring we spent two weeks in FL, and we spent a girls' day out in Downtown Jacksonville; the rest of the trip I was in male mode, except for one night at a music festival.

The other restriction is that there are a few restaurants where we go that she wants me to reserve for male mode, which is also A-OK, due to the aforementioned wonderful support.

I wear panties every day, under my male clothes if it's a male day. I have girlie pajamas I wear at night or just sleep in my underwear. (No nighties -- they don't appeal to me). She is part of a group of women that have lunch every Friday, and told the other ladies about me, but respectfully asked me first. I was already (accidentally) out to a couple of them that I ran into out and about.

I have taken over my office closet, and half the drawers in my dresser with Joanie's clothes. As long as I don't take up any of *her* space, she's fine with it.

She doesn't mind if the neighbors see me, and thus I am out to most everybody within one or two houses away, as I take out the trash, get in and out of the car, get packages from the front porch, etc.

In other words, I'm living the CD dream.

[Cheryl T]

My only limits are no implants and no hormones.
We agreed on that early on and although it's become more difficult for me I respect her and the promise I made.

[Steph_CD_62]

I have a few limits that my wife and I agree upon.


No dressing on major holidays, her birthday or our anniversary.

I dress as a man more than a woman, but wearing panties every day is okay.

I don't wear any of her clothes.

I don't wear anything noticeable in the small town we live in. But that doesn't stop me from dressing more on colder days since I can hide things under my coat.

Inside our house, I am free to dress as much as I want (3 days a week), and I can freely dress in front of her with no issues.

[NancySue]

My wonderful wife has been totally supportive and helpful. She?s never voiced any limits or restrictions, but we both agree , no tattoos, pierced ears, long hair, my wigs are beautiful, like Cheryl, no implants, or hormones. I don?t think of them as barriers, just agreements. Things are good.

[JohnH]

My wife, when she was alive, had only one restriction: That when I went out with her that I present as a man. Otherwise I was free to do anything, including being on estrogen. She even encouraged me to do that as it calmed me down. If I was being irritable she would say, "You need to take your hormone".
Breast implants were not necessary as my natural bra cup size is DD.

Cheryl T: "I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes." Yes, that's what I say when I dress en femme.

John

[Teri Ray]

I have a supportive wife. Our limits are no going out dressed in or near our town. We shop together and do each others nails. I am a very lucky girl.

[kimdl93]

In my case the limits are all past tense. While still married, my ex did not want to see me fully dressed. I think if she was honest about it, she was bothered by even the knowledge that I dressed completely when she was absent too.

[Sometimes Steffi]

My wife has an absolute 0 tolerance which is the biggest barrier of all.


Pretty much zero tolerance here also, at least with respect to what she sees.

I can go out dressed as long as I don't leave the house dressed or drive through the neighborhood dressed. I've gotten good at changing in the car and public bathrooms. I can also go to the Keystone Conference for all girl four days and nights, as long as I pack my bags in secret.

I also have self-imposed "No Fly Zones" to minimize the chances of running into someone we both know.

[DianeT]

Debs, my dress limits are based on boundaries defined between my wife and I. They are different in full nines mode where my wife doesn't see me and in MIAD mode where she does. And these boundaries may evolve in the future but that's a decision we would make together. It's possible that some wives allow more and some allow less but that doesn't concern me. We are in a good place my wife and I, and I want to keep it that way. If I had an advice, don't listen too much to what other CDers may be allowed to do or not to do, focus on your couple and if something is worrying you make sure you discuss it with your wife.

[JulieC]

The boundaries that I have are actually stricter than what my wife is comfortable with.

My wife would be ok with our adult children. I'm not; I don't see a benefit. We're not at a point (yet) where they might just pop in unexpectedly. If that becomes reality, then we'll have to have a discussion. If it doesn't, I don't see there is a need to know, and certainly there's no benefit to them knowing. I'm never going to dress around them. Well, at least not observably and intentionally.

My wife would be ok with me being seen in town. She doesn't care too much what other people think. That said, she agrees it could cause problems with my job, and therefore it's probably not a good idea until we retire. She is ok with me being in public away from our town, and I have been...if only a little bit.

My wife is ok with me dressing as much as I want around the home. When our children are not around, I do dress about 80-90% of the time. The first time that I had the opportunity to dress as much as I want (temporary empty nesters), I dressed near 100% of the time at home for the better part of three weeks. My wife was fine with that.

My wife is ok with the neighbors seeing; she doesn't think there'd ever be a problem. I have ventured outside of the house dressed, but only on darker nights.

She's ok with me shaving my legs. I keep my lower legs (knees down) shaved all the time. We haven't talked about piercing, but she'd probably be ok with that (I don't have much interest). Same goes for makeup. I don't have a wig and want to change that. She's a little perplexed about that. I just want to get to the point of being 100%, completely, as much femme as possible and see what the net result is.

[Sherry Ann Evans]

My wife is supportive and we go out together. The very reasonable limit is, it can't take over my life -- she married a guy and wants to keep it that way. So she's perfectly happy with me being Sherry. fully dressed, as long as it's a once-in-a-while thing. That being said, I started wearing panties daily and threw away my male underwear almost two years ago. She's fine with that.

[Kandi]

I too am one of the lucky ones. Wife isn?t thrilled with it but accepts me for the gender bender I am.
No real limitations but she did express some disappointment after I sported a g string at a pool party at the paradise conference.😳

[Freddi]

My wife supports me....there's no set limits as such but if something doesn't look right she says so. Make-up is no issue and she'll offer advice on how to apply it. She wasn't keen on the cheap wig I bought to try but in all honestly neither was I. She doesn't want me to go out in public.....its for her eyes only....I'm happy with that.

[2B Natasha]

The only limits I have are ones placed on myself. Those limits or guardrails fluctuate on a routine basis. The only agreed limit is one for both of us. Nothing she does or I do can hurt our income stream. otherwise. The rest is fair game.

[OrdinaryAverageGuy]

I briefly had a couple of weird limits; she had a fit when she first saw my toe ring for example. But those limits very soon passed. She warns me (usually) if someone is coming over so I can decide if I want to change, but she doesn't make me. She's also made it clear that if I want to go out to eat with her dressed however, I can, although she knows I won't so I'm not sure if she'd REALLY be ok with it.

She told me in the beginning that she'd stay with me even if I transitioned. I don't quite believe her, but it's a moot point since I have no desire whatsoever to transition.

Guess I'm one of the lucky ones

[Taylor Dame]

My wife allows me to wear panties and women's satin pajamas every day. She has seen me fully dressed with makeup and jewelry when she came home early one day, but she generally doesn't want to see me fully dressed. She knows I do it when she is out of the house.

[Gi Gondin]

As my wife daily encourages my crossdressing my limits are 3 male underwear (she is weekly throwing away 1 or 2 pairs of the off limits ones that I keep insisting in wearing). She keeps remembering me that wearing male boxers is not what she signed for when we married!

It’s funny that part of the thrill was the hiding part.

[Leah87]

My wife has absolutely zero tolerance, and that's being generous. If I could give a minus figure, then I would.

[kayegirl]

My limits are almost the same as Debs. No ear piercing, and not growing my hair out. I have additional limits from when my first wife was alive. Never in front of the children, both now in their 40's, and both aware, never to use any of her stuff, much easier with my second wife because of the size difference, and finally to always blend in. Otherwise its open court.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Debs :hugs:, We have a Very workable DA/DT, My:love:Wife Pierced my Ears for me, >Orchid**O:daydreaming:O**

[Andrea Renea]

My wife's rules are: Don't dress at home if we have guest or
if the kids are here and don't get caught by anyone we know.

[AmyJordan]

Hi Girls

I guess my wife has set me slightly different limits to most here.

Rule number 1: Strictly no male clothes to be worn in the home
Rule number 2: Legs must always be on display in either pantyhose or nylons or very occasionally skin tight leather leggings.
Rule number 3: Hair and makeup applied everyday.
Rule number 4: Obey the rules.

Amy x

[Kitty S]

We started with limits, no bras, no wigs, and all the outfits were to be club wear. Now we don't have many limits, I have several wigs but none that are realistic. We seemed to add to what was ok and even crossed the taboo lines with breast forms and a bra or 2. It was small steps but each with both of us in agreement.

[Natalie5004]

There are limits? Kidding. When I dress I tend to go all out. I hate my look when dressed and no makeup. Wife has seen me fully dressed many times but I do hold back many times because I do not want to rock the boat with her.

Have have everything I want for now. Pierced ears, no long hair, (too bad), shaved body, growing breasts, painted pedicure at the salon. Almost a C cup now.

[CharlotteCD]

With my now Ex Wife, nothing was allowed.
With my current GF, wear what I want, just don't do it all the time and dress appropriately for the occasion.

[Allieboy]

For many years, it was a strict DADT. Recently we have agreed that I can openly wear nightgowns and panties. I can go further with in the house skirts, tops and dresses. No wigs, makeup or shoes.

I am ok with this

[Gi Gondin]

Amy, yours limits may become mine in the future… lol
We just haven’t agreed on that, but she is insisting in no male attire at home.

[Natalie5004]

Charlotte, Sorry to hear about the divorce. I know you were struggling with that for a while.

[Gillian Gigs]

1. Only at home.
2. No one else needs to know.
3. No showing your cami's, or panties. Your under garments are to be covered up outside of the home front. I do get reminded if my cami show when we are out I public. I keep my shirts tucked in, no "plumbers crack" either :o :heehee:.

[Heather76]

No family or friends are to learn of my cross dressing. I dress at home whenever I want. I know she's not a fan of seeing me with makeup and a wig, so I generally hold off on those until she's gone to bed. She accepts/tolerates but is not supportive.

[Tanya silk stocking]

The only limits is to not dress in front of the children which we both agree on

[cpt2669]

My wife has not set limits but I am sure that they are there. Not sure what she is accepting of and not. Since or oldest came out as transgender she has only said that she is afraid I want to transition also. She has said to stay away from front room windows in the past.

[Davinnia]

I can fully dress, makeup, wig etc whenever I want but usually from mid afternoon.Satin pjs or gown in bed.My wife & I swap unwanted clothes between us which gives longer life to garments & we enjoy seeing our clothes on each other., we are the same size. I usually spend 2 full days each week dressed when my wife is out all day, dressing when she leaves. We recently spend some days away & wore female jeans, tops, bra & panties & footwear the whole time as they passed as men's clothes. Did not present as female but still felt dressed.
Never been out other than sitting in the garden nor expressed an interest in doing so.

[Pumped]

No limits here, and my wife participates by helping me dress, hair and makeup.

I shave my head, so I have a couple wigs and she keeps them styled for me.

I don't venture out, but she said that it is up to me, and she would suppose,

[abby054]

My wife has absolutely zero tolerance, and that's being generous. If I could give a minus figure, then I would.

Same here. The random tirades whenever something cd or tg appears on television, they can get wearying. The tirades make me wonder whether she is suspicious but can prove nothing, making the tirades simply preemptive strikes. This situation is liberating in an odd way. I can buy anything and do anything with no concern for permission. Careful selection of time and place enables anything. I grew up with four nosy sisters, so I have plenty of practice.

[Teresa.Smith.VA]

My limits are mostly self-imposed but my wife totally agrees to the following:

-Nothing irreversible to my athletic male body;
-No hormones, no pierced ears, no electrolysis;
-Keep my CDing private from family, friends, neighbors and work colleagues.

[countrygirl]

As I am single and live alone. I have none. Any body I may date will know about this side of me before dating as if they can't accept this side of me, please don't waste your time. Not asking them to dress together. It would be nice but at least if they come home and Amanda is washing clothes and cleaning up the house I will not hide this side of me.

[MsKim2888]

Well its a bit restrictive for me. My SO a bit unhappy about my inclination. As long as i can kept it private, its ok. I can only wear boy-short panty (non-lacy one.)and others which were not too feminine. Some women jeans (they are more comfortable than male version. Stretchy too). Sports bras (no normal bras). Certainly no dress, skirt etc which are too feminine in her opinion.:sad:

[Sandi Beech]

Pretty much zero for me. My wife just said - would you cut your nails in a rather mean tone. So for me, it is dress away from her or not at all.

Sandi

[Melanie Therese]

She is ok with me wearing panties which I do everyday and undershirts in winter. She doesn?t particularly like me wearing bras so they go on and off after outside the house. But chest hair she really doesn?t want me to get rid of. She is ok with legs although I don?t have much not shaved and hairless down there and armpits but for some reason she likes chest hair which is a shame as a few tops I have are a little low.

[kimmy p]

No going out unless I have her permission. Usually in October for obvious reasons. And a couple of other times that were either Rocky Horror or cosplay. I get to do a female demon for Steampunk next... No second set of holes in my ears. Nothing that could hurt me professionally.

Kimmy.

[Sometimes Steffi]

Same here. The random tirades whenever something cd or tg appears on television, they can get wearying. The tirades make me wonder whether she is suspicious but can prove nothing, making the tirades simply preemptive strikes. This situation is liberating in an odd way. I can buy anything and do anything with no concern for permission. Careful selection of time and place enables anything. I grew up with four nosy sisters, so I have plenty of practice.

It is liberating. Since she doesn't want to see my clothes, she can't tell me my dress is too short.

I've been wanting to go for a pedi for a long time. I just did a wlkin0in at my regular salon. I went for "sunshine yellow", a very unusual color for me.



Pretty much zero for me. My wife just said - would you cut your nails in a rather mean tone. So for me, it is dress away from her or not at all.

Sandi

I just got the cut your nails "directive'. I just ignored it. It will come back up soon.

[Jessicajane]

In the early years heaps of things were an issue for Jo?.now the only no is surgery?this year we celebrate 30 years married and I have changed my gender marker name very soon .. hormones 5 years now and i work / live as Jessica 24/7? the journey was not easy?but slowly slowly and she was able to walk the journey with me?

[Celee]

DADT if that is considered a limit. We have had little small talks about it but not THE talk. I let her set the limits of what she is comfortable with. Once she asked me if I played with her bras. She has old ones that she never wears so I kind of adopted those. I responded yes and she asked me if I put it on and before I could say yes she said that she knew I liked feminine and lacy things so I probably just felt it with my hands. That told me that she isn?t ready to adjust our limits. A couple of months later she couldn?t find her red bra and asked me if I had it. I told her no because I knew it was her favorite so I wouldn?t touch it. She wasn?t upset just matter of fact so maybe she is getting more comfortable with it. BTW it was in the laundry.

[alliy377]

I can only dress on weekends at home. No going out. From Friday evening till Monday am full on. Make up, ear rings, etc. I am able to wear nighties, wig and breast forms every night to bed during the week.:battingeyelashes: She's not 100% supportive, but a lot better than I would have thought. Like everyone says, "Small Steps".

[SylphDevine]

Hmmm limits.I can pierce my ears if I want to. Paint my toenails and fingernails if I like (not interested in any of that) doesn't like me trying to change my shape with bras and padding because she likes who I am as a guy, and I don't blame her.She gets that I like lacy, girly things, but she doesn't want me to "look" like a girl at all. Loves my bald head and goatee and I am quite hairy and muscular which she loves. So, no shaving, no passing and no going out.

She wants me to come out to the kids (44, 42 (f) 32 (m) ) I told her they already would have to know, and she says "then what's the problem?" I never dressed in front of them or ever got caught by them but my stuff was always hiding in plain sight, and my wife does not do the girly girl thing at all. She dresses like the professional woman she is and she's a knockout. I have also never worn her clothing, which she was relieved to find out. Not because it would gross her out but that I would stretch it out or ruin whatever I wore, and she carefully buys everything she wears. Sometimes when she's downsizing she'll ask if I want and I mostly do although I have to admit, her style is much different that mine. Take skorts for example. A complete turnoff to me. What's the sense in wearing a super short skirt is there isn't anything lacy and stockingy underneath?

I guess those are the limits.

[NatalieMN]

I guess I can be considered along the lucky ones, though other girls in here seem to have a good situation as well.

For me right now, basically, there are no limits. Not to say something won't pop up eventually, but my partner and I have never come across anything that the other was uncomfortable with. In fact, she encourages me more than I could have ever imagined and is the reason I even stepped out of the house as Natalie in the first place.

I think the only thing that could be reasonably considered a limit is that she doesn't want every date night to be with Natalie. She wants the boy me sometimes too. Which I think is more than fair.

[Stephanie47]

I am definitely in the "I don't want to see it!" category with my wife. Ever since "The Talk" in the early 1980's she has not said "boo" about my desires. Sometimes I wish she would say something, anything, but it's the ostrich effect...stick head in the ground or ignore the big elephant in the room. It can be maddening. But, the alternative can be sharp barbs that attack the soul. She is support of the GLBTQ+ community but it's NIMBY for her.

[countrygirl]

As I have no one. I don't have any limits. If I do find someone some day. They will be told about this side of me and that it will not be hidden away. I have done that far to long.

[TamT]

Zero tolerance. I cannot dress at home while she is there, and she is there most of the time as she does not work.

She knows that I'm wearing lingerie everyday as she does the laundry and I stopped throwing unused slips daily to hide this. I have to wash my lingerie by myself without her to figure it out how. That's difficult!

I'm currently swapping my jeans to female ones and shirts to blouses the days I go to work, but she doesn't know about this as I don't change at home. Simply DADT.

[Sometimes Steffi]

I wash my own lingerie, but not very often. I have panties to last for months. I do my wash when my wife is not around. I can throw the panties in the drier, but it's hard to find a safe place to hang the bras to drip dry.

[Lacey New]

My limits have expanded and contracted depending on the circumstances. For the most part, it has revolved around how much time alone I would have in the house. My wife does not know about my crossdressing. Early on in our marriage I tried to playfully put on her panties but she was grossed out and I knew I could not push it. So, I have always kept my stash small and well hidden. But there was a period when the kids were out of the house and she was traveling for work when I would get dressed up at home and told go out underdressed. I even purchased dresses in person while underdressed and had a wonderful time at a Dress Barn. Now, several moves and purges later and with both of us retired and at home, my opportunities as well as my collection of things has become smaller and much more limited. But that?s ok. I still enjoy the times when I can play.

[HeatherMarie1972]

We have not discussed limits but she has suggested going away for a weekend where I could dress as I please. I don't really dress around her now and if so, just panties. However I think if she saw me dressed there may be a change of heart with regards to her tolerance for it. I'd also feel embarrassed to some degree to be dressed around her.

[Mandyinfemme]

Wife doesn’t like wigs. And she likes my facial hair. Everything else is fair game. I can shave my face when she?s out of town.

[Judy-Somthing]

I can't even use femenet words!

[CDMargret]

For me and my wife it's the wigs. She would rather me not wear the wigs at home. Course when we are out I wear them yet at home she prefers me not to. I do dress to the nines otherwise. The wigs are hot and I don't feel odd not wearing one. More so when I do wear them that I feel a bit odd.

I so want a very well made highest quality wig cut and fit to me. There is a place a few hours from here where I can have this kind of service. I hope that kind of wig would be a game changer compared to the inexpensive costume wigs I currently own.

[Raychel]

The only real limit my ex-wife had was no sleep forms at bedtime.
Other then that she really didnt have any limits,

Now living alone there are no limits, except when I have company staying over.
And honestly that is pretty rare.
If I am at home I dress 100% of the time

[Nyla F]

No dressing around my wife, she doesn't want to see it. Other limits are my choice, not interested in transitioning, not interested in makeup, not interested in outing myself to others, etc.

[prene]

When I had a girl friend who found out.
Her limits were:

I could not dress more feminine than her.
I could not like me more curvy (Busty) and she did not like when I wore a corset and my waist was smaller than hers.

Needless to say she broke it off.

[Meg]

My wife died back in May. But for me it was panties, pantyhose and nightshirts. Of course a LBD can easily be a nightshirt. She was accepting of a softer side of me but did not want anything too lacy, feminine. She was vey understanding to a point. In fact after a hard day of work she would ask why I wasn't in something "more comfortable". Since her passing, I seem to have stepped up the game several notches. Several shopping sprees later, I am starting to have a sizable wardrobe. But with family close, in the neighborhood, I must exercise some caution as I am not out. They wouldn't leave me, but they certainly would not understand.

[Natalie5004]

Being out and about with my wife. It will not happen.

[Olivia J. Robinson]

Hey Debs.
Limits, eh?

Well, I'm finding that this has been a variable sort of thing for me.

First - don't wanna see me at all

Then - makes her nervous, so don't ever wear breastforms around her

Then - all is good, dressing at home. I'm not going to stay in full fem as I make dinner or haul paving stones by hand to the back yard, though (tried once, with small forms and a light sports bra...after about an hour, i most definitely had "Wandering Boob Syndrome" going on. ;-) )

Now - If I am going to go out dressed (to my school over the summer to do work, to pick up a snack from the corner store) she just makes sure that I have my head on straight, and that I am not going to be endangering myself or my career. (a number of the families where I teach are "not very friendly" {rabid-irrational-frightened-bully sort of situations) to anyone on the LGBTQ+ spectrum....don't need parents coming at me with torches and pitchforks)

[hugs]

[Dawnspryte]

Pretty much just when SO is out of town.

[RachelR]

I just told my S/O about a month back and she is totally supportive and wants our home to be a safe space for me to dress but I am just slowly introducing her to my dressing. As of right now there are no limits but since I work from home and she works in the office I mainly wait until she is at work to fully dress. I am expecting some rules to come along as time goes on.

[Sometimes Steffi]

DADT. Hear no evil, speak no evil, see no evil.

[Jane G]

I can't let the rest of the world know who I am. Sounds hard perhaps, but heck We have gotten this far.