DTelia
06-12-2024, 05:56 PM
Im sure youve all heard of the saying
One step at a time. or One day at a time.
Well…today after not dressing in about two years and after purging for the first time since I started really dressing a decade ago?my wife asked me how I was feeling and that phrase came to me. I would use the quotation marks but the site always changes them to ????anyway the phrase I told her was
One Dress at a time. And that is how Im proceeding now. She believes Im happier and more content when Im dressing…but like many of you feel the pressures of society and guilt at times as well. So i stop and I honestly tell my wife I don?t want to anymore and I mean it.
This has been a 30 yr journey for my wife and me. Shes known since before we were married?it was a secret I felt necessary to share. Shes gone on her own journey of understanding…first it was cute and then concern and then encouragement.
But we are at a point of recognizing that there is probably a healthy balance and place for it?maybe even a necessary one?I dont know yet. But what I do know and what I do now say when she asks me how Im doing after going back into boy mode?
One Dress At A Time - emojis didnt work :-( was a happy face and a dress
One step at a time. or One day at a time.
Well…today after not dressing in about two years and after purging for the first time since I started really dressing a decade ago?my wife asked me how I was feeling and that phrase came to me. I would use the quotation marks but the site always changes them to ????anyway the phrase I told her was
One Dress at a time. And that is how Im proceeding now. She believes Im happier and more content when Im dressing…but like many of you feel the pressures of society and guilt at times as well. So i stop and I honestly tell my wife I don?t want to anymore and I mean it.
This has been a 30 yr journey for my wife and me. Shes known since before we were married?it was a secret I felt necessary to share. Shes gone on her own journey of understanding…first it was cute and then concern and then encouragement.
But we are at a point of recognizing that there is probably a healthy balance and place for it?maybe even a necessary one?I dont know yet. But what I do know and what I do now say when she asks me how Im doing after going back into boy mode?
One Dress At A Time - emojis didnt work :-( was a happy face and a dress