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BonnieJG
04-17-2006, 09:27 AM
Have to tell

This week end there was no kids around after dinner around 9pm the wife said lets go upstairs and whach tv in bed, ok and with in 5 min she ask me way don't you but on your stuff ( she call it stuff, getting dressed ) so oK :rolleyes: so I go and put on Pj's and a bra w/ forms on that I have done in the past befor , and she say NO let me look and I will find something for you OK she when looking and found a Black mini dress and a black top and she keep looking and found a tuqies bra/ forms. wig and she said put this on OK i said can you help me and she help me put it all on and she bed sit hear and she got out HER make-up out and put make-up on me and she ask what color would you like and I pick out some colors and we sat and whach some tv and she ask me do you want to go and walk the dog now it about 11;30 at night and I just look at her :rolleyes: ok but now I have to change ( I don't go out dressed) and she said NO just go like that, and I just look at her for about 5 min ? what is going on? Just go like that ... And I said are you sure. . yes . . and she said yes let go and walk the dog. so we got up and 1/2 way down she said let's just have somthing to eat and sit in the frount room and eat ok ( I did not what to push it Just about got outside dressed) so she said I'm to tryerd to go out now, let go back to bed and do it another day ... Ok :( dided get to go out that ok there allway next time

OK so for the next 1/2 day i was dress up and walking around the house dress. When she lets me get dressed up I have to stay in the bedroom and it allway at night.

My wife know that I dreesd and she has when out and got me bra, dress, tops, make-up ect for the past 3 years.

This is the first time that she has said lets go out and ask me and help me dress up and put make up on. IS SHE TRYING TO TELL ME SOMTHING ?

I know that she is all right with me dressing up and keeping in the bed room NOw she leting me come down and walk around the house.

But asking me to go outside dressed at night ??? what going ON :eek:

well that is my big week end of fun

BonnieJG

Phoebe Reece
04-17-2006, 05:12 PM
Bonnie, I think she is trying to tell you something. You should embrace it, enjoy it, and thank your lucky stars that she is telling it to you. Your wife is saying she loves you. If you want it to continue you need to say the same thing to your wife in some way that is meaningful to her.

jjjjohanne
04-18-2006, 06:45 AM
Buy her a Thank You card. Maybe send her flowers to work. Make this special for her too! Then don't push it to have another outing. Let it happen at her pace.

BonnieJG
04-18-2006, 08:00 AM
Thank for both of you for the kind works, I will take it step by step and see what happens I think I will let her tell or ask me what do and put on and get dress up

Thanks
BonnieJg

ChristineRenee
04-18-2006, 08:17 AM
Do something special for her now Bonnie to show your appreciation. As was suggested, maybe some flowers, or perhaps take her out for a romantic dinner and a night on the town. She has acknowleged your needs and desires...now is the time for you to reciprocate in kind. Sounds like you have a very understanding and considerate wife who loves you very much Bonnie...you are indeed a very lucky girl!;)

paulaN
04-18-2006, 11:51 AM
lucky girl, lucky girl, enjoy what she has given you and do something nice to thank her. lucky girl, lucky girl.

DonnaT
04-18-2006, 11:57 AM
Yes, I agree.

Sounds like she's trying to accept your dressing a little more and is working on her courage to be with you.

Next time she suggest walking the dog, maybe a counter offer would be to ask if she'd like to go to a safe location not in your neighborhood.

Shelly Preston
04-18-2006, 12:46 PM
Hi Bonnie

Sounds like you had a wonderful weekend
This seems like the start of an adventure which you should enjoy.
I agree with Donna but as had been said try to do something special for you wife. She deserves it.


Yes, I agree.

Sounds like she's trying to accept your dressing a little more and is working on her courage to be with you.

Next time she suggest walking the dog, maybe a counter offer would be to ask if she'd like to go to a safe location not in your neighborhood.