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Maria 60
07-20-2024, 08:53 AM
Last night I was looking at some Crossdressers on Instagram. Not hiding anything from my wife she looked over and asked me why am looking at Crossdressers, and if I was getting off on them. I have a very open relationship with my wife and without holding back I explained to her how I really felt about viewing other crossdressers. I told her I feel a connection with them, I like to see how they dress, I know what there feeling when there wearing those silk panties and those pantyhose and beautiful dresses and heels. I could see by there expressions on there face of there excitement of seeing themselves. I show her a picture of what seemed like a closet dresser sitting on the patio outside fully dressed. I told her look at the emotion on his face, look at the smile and the thrill of excitement and fear or concern of taking that big chance of what he?s doing and in some pics he?s looking around to see if anyone is looking. I could almost feel what they are feeling and I feel the excitement for them as if I would feel for myself if I was doing or dressing like them.
I told her it?s like when she is following someone and seeing there beautiful house or when there on vacation, you could feel there excitement and probably a feeling of wishing you were with them.
I?m wondering does anybody here follow others sisters and when reading about them or viewing them do you feel any of the feeling I feel?
kimdl93
07-20-2024, 09:19 AM
I have never been on Instagram, Flickr, etc. I do follow some transgender and CD subreddits, mostly to get some idea what works (and what does not work) in terms of clothing styles and makeup, particularly for more mature women. I am more interested in reading the about the issues/challenges/relationships that seem relevant to me or transgender and/or CD people in general. Excitement? Probably not the word I would choose. Recognition of things we have in common, sure. I also try to offer empathy, appreciation and support for people making their best effort.
SophiaRose
07-20-2024, 09:24 AM
Social media can get a bit too addictive for me. Reels suck your time. I go to Youtube for tips, and listen to Pod Casts, (Fox and the Pheonix) for more introspection.
Viewing CDers in person draws a connection. I was in the UK on a business trip last week and saw a fellow dresser strolling through the market place where I was having lunch with my colleagues. I immediately felt a connection and wanted to go out and say hello and strike up a nice conversation. Alas, that would have probably been a bit weird having a Yank stop you to say hi and a bit hard to explain to my coworkers.
alwayshave
07-20-2024, 10:09 AM
Maria, I follow a couple of crossdressing subreddits and like to view other crossdressers. I find it inspiring.
Jane G
07-20-2024, 10:17 AM
Maria I don't follow any other people doing anything. I'm not on any other crossdresser sites. Perhaps a defence on my part, to keep the pink fog at arms length, as I find more free time in retirement. There are and have been a few on this site that I have taken inspiration from over the years. Mostly though it is women that inspire my crossdressing. After all they have a considerable head start on most of us.
Cheryl T
07-20-2024, 10:30 AM
I don't follow anyone on any of those platforms but I do enjoy looking at others pictures.
As Kim said, I look to see what other women my age are wearing and see what I feel looks good on them and might look good on me. I'm no longer after those ultra femme outfits we all love but I want to see what clothing others wear in public. I'm looking at hair styles, makeup and the whole package. I'm not only looking at CD's and TG's I'm looking at all women, especially if they are my height and build. It's never too late to change your style or take a tip from someone else.
Stephanie47
07-20-2024, 11:30 AM
I am not on any "social media" outlets. I do "Google" cross dressing subjects on the internet and YouTune to see what may pop-up. I like to see their presentations. I do notice on some of the sites the number of "followers" a girl may have, however, there are none that I follow. The only lady I am drawn to view on Youtune is Heidi Phox; mainly because she seems to speak to her audience.
docrobbysherry
07-20-2024, 12:07 PM
No, Maria, I don't presume to think I know what anyone is feeling or thinking. Especially, women and trans!:heehee:
When u get as old as I am and if you'd met as many trans as I have u may think differently. I found that whenever I presumed what they were thinking or feeling and spoke with them, I was invariably wrong!:doh:
Debbie Denier
07-20-2024, 12:14 PM
I have done on flickr out of curiosity and admiration. In the past I have followed individuals on other social media only to find they were after hooking up. Which is of no interest whatsoever to me .
Fiona_44
07-20-2024, 04:53 PM
I enjoy the strong sense of community among trans women and like to post and follow other ladies on a few other sites. It strengthens the sense of community and has allowed me to make numerous friends throughout the world.
Kandi Robbins
07-20-2024, 06:12 PM
No one understands this better than we do. And I can only speak from experience, I don't even understand it myself. So for me (and I have my own community online https://kandis-land.com/), sharing experiences, sharing tips, sharing anxiety, sharing our feelings all helps normalize things and let's us know we are not alone. Seeing another lady enjoying being herself is inspiring. So yes, I do enjoy our sisters online.
DavynaCD
07-20-2024, 09:17 PM
I had a very similar conversation with my wife the other night. She asked if that meant I was gay. I explained that I identify with them so I appreciate what they?re doing and encourage it. Love to you ❤️❤️
bridget thronton
07-21-2024, 01:51 AM
I just follow threads here - Maria you are one of those people whose posts I always read
Connie D50
07-21-2024, 06:17 AM
Maria, belonging to this site is following crossdressers :). If I find any site that helps me with with make up, fashion and hair tips what better place then a crosdressers page. Connie
audreyinalbany
07-21-2024, 07:52 AM
yeah/no...the only reason I look at other crossdressers is for comparison. But truth be told, I kind of do the same with GG's. wondering if I look as good or dress as well
Sandi Beech
07-21-2024, 08:11 AM
No, other than this site, I do not look for images of CDs. I tested fetlife for a while and that site is just way too explicit for me, and I cancelled my account.
I have met several young crossdressers when clubbing, and they have asked if I am on instagram. Even some women asked the same of me so I guess it is a popular thing to do. It is just not for me. This is the only place I see CDs other than the ones I have seen in the wild.
Sandi
Sometimes Steffi
07-21-2024, 11:09 AM
I guess that I'm not very social.
No FB, no IG, no twitter, no subreddits.
I follow a few girls on Flickr, but otherwise it's just here.
I am in a couple of TG Meetup groups, but not for the convo, only for Meetup events.
Natalie5004
07-21-2024, 10:10 PM
THis is how I see my sisters on line.
Heather76
07-24-2024, 08:35 PM
This is the only place I interact with other CDers. I joined another CD site but haven't visited it in months. I likely went there only 3 or 4 times when I first signed into it. I like this site very much and it's all I need/want to feed my CD inclinations.
BiancaEstrella
07-25-2024, 04:40 AM
I experience strong attraction to crossdressers, but mainly when I'm looking at photos/videos (whether here or elsewhere, which is to say that I see CDs in multiple social and personal contexts) I am intrigued by the series of choices one makes to achieve their feminine look, which is less about attraction and more about the CD's motivation. What I do/don't find attractive is not governed by a traditional series of "standards" but by my own, which have been thoroughly personally vetted. I'm often pleasantly shocked by those feelings when they arise, because I'm usually thinking "I wish I'd thought to buy shoes like those!" or "that mascara is poppin'!"
Bella.CD
07-25-2024, 04:56 AM
I do check out other sites and have accounts on some of them as well. My GF knows and she knows about my fantasies as well. Happy that I don't have to hide anything from her. The coming out and confessing was a little sketchy at first, lol.
NancySue
07-25-2024, 10:38 AM
This is my only site. I so enjoy reading, chatting, pm?s, etc. Occasionally, I visit Google and YouTube to get ideas, see other activities, read, etc.
Geena75
07-25-2024, 08:26 PM
I would like to get into some of the other platforms, but just don't have the time to get into it, especially in the spring/summer when I have so much to do around the place. I like to see what the others are wearing, thinking of if it were something that would work for me. Even more, I enjoy hearing of what they are doing and taking in the range of different perspectives on this 'peculiar pastime.' It often helps me define what I am about and where I want to proceed.
Helen_Highwater
07-26-2024, 03:34 AM
I've searched "Cross dresser public" on YouTube in the past and found plenty of videos of folks from our community out and about in the wider world.
It does show just what is possible, demonstrating just what a bit of confidence can deliver. In shops and eateries, they just go about their daily business and seeing them both gave me confidence and also the importance of getting those mannerisms right. A femme walk perhaps being the most important.
Georgina
07-26-2024, 03:47 PM
I am on Flickr and I love following others. It is a great way to see how others present and also to comment on their photos. I have contacted some of them, then chatted on the phone and eventually met. Can it get any better than that?
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