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Julie Frisky
08-22-2024, 10:34 AM
Hi Everyone, I just wanted to share with you that for the first time ever I left the safety of my home and went and played 9 holes of golf while wearing a Golf skort, tan tights, and a bra which I padded out with old tights as I do not have breast forms lol, one of my goals has been to play golf en femme but this is the closest I can get for now, I am still in the closet so I was so excited to try this but so scared too, the course I was playing is very quiet, I turned up in male attire with my female garb underneath and as the pro shop cannot see the 1st tee from the shop, I stripped off my trousers there and padded out my bra, and then played 9 holes, there was only one green keeper who I managed to avoid, part of my brain was saying the hell with it if they see me so what but the other part was screaming don't be seen what are you doing, as I was clearly a MIAD as I had no wig or makeup on.

It felt so exhilrating to feel the wind on my pantyhose clad legs and seeing my skirt blowing in the wind and feeling the bra beneath my top but it also felt so natural, I had one of the best rounds in a while I just felt so calm and as I knew no one else was close I also felt very relaxed, the only problem now is that I want to do it again but instead of playing golf just go for a walk at a beauty spot maybe as a MIAD, most of my dressing is without make up and wigs as I never see to have enough time to get fully en femme plus my wig is not very good quality.

What inspired me to get out and this was belonging to this forum, even though I have only recently joined I have read so many threads on other's first outings which gave me the courage to get out today, so thank you

Julie xxx

Hannah878
08-22-2024, 11:45 AM
Congrats on your first time. May it be the first of many.

Maid_Marion
08-22-2024, 11:52 AM
Congratulations!

I saw my first professional golf event. the Traveler's Championship, dressed female in sleeveless top and white skort! It was perfect attire for the hot and humid weather!

Marion

kimdl93
08-22-2024, 02:04 PM
Good for you! I hope you have more opportunities to get out into the world, presenting in a way that feels right for you.

alliy377
08-22-2024, 02:28 PM
Congrates, Julie. That is soooo one of my goals to golf en femme.
Hopefully, someday I'll have the courage like you to do it.

XOXOX

Kayy
08-22-2024, 02:59 PM
Congrats, and I must admit to a tinge of jealousy, I’d love to get out but can’t seem to overcome the psychological barrier.

Fiona_44
08-22-2024, 06:30 PM
Congratulations! Now that the genie is out of the bottle, it can't be put back in. You will want to go out frequently.

Julie Frisky
08-23-2024, 01:22 AM
Thank you all for your support and encouragement I certainly will be planning some more time to get out.

Julie xx

bridget thronton
08-23-2024, 02:50 AM
Well done - hope you enjoyed your round on the links

Sometimes Steffi
08-23-2024, 03:15 AM
I haven't golfed as a bo in many years. But, I've never golfed as a man is a dress. Having gone out as a girl wearing forms, I can't imagine how the weight and protrusion of forms wouldn't affect my golf game.

Heather76
08-23-2024, 10:35 PM
Julie, congrats on what you did. I did a similar thing 2 years ago. I went to the course late in the day so there was room between me and the group in front of me. It was cool weather so I wore a windbreaker with a bra under my shirt. I had forms in my golf bag. When I got to the @ 2 tee, in went the forms. When I got to the # 8 green, the forms came out. I would love play a round of golf 100% en femme; but, that's not going to happen where I live. Enjoy these little victories whenever/wherever you can.

chrissy111
08-24-2024, 06:52 AM
Congratulations!! All you need is a wig and some makeup and you can hit off the Ladies tees.

Julie Frisky
08-24-2024, 11:39 AM
Oh yes Chrissy that is something I will be working up too, thank you for telling me your experience Heather it's so good that I am not alone in wanting to play golf en femme.

Julie xx

Andie
08-25-2024, 07:42 PM
Congratulations Julie, hope you continue to go out dressed however you like. I’ve found that most people just mind their own business. That doesn’t mean they don’t notice what you’re wearing, they do. We just have to continue to dress the way that makes us the happiest, and move on with our lives.

Debbie Denier
08-26-2024, 03:25 AM
Congratulations Julie. Its a wonderful feeling as you say feeling the wind on your legs when wearing tights . Be careful out there as it can become addictive.

alwayshave
08-26-2024, 05:40 AM
Congratulations Julie. You are a braver girl than I.

Julie Frisky
08-26-2024, 08:44 AM
Thank you Alwaysshave, Debbie and Andie, I think you are right it could be addictive, I am already thinking what I am going to do next, if I am brave enough, thank you all for your lovely commments.

Julie xx

Natalie5004
08-26-2024, 12:03 PM
Very nice. Love hearing these stories.

@tammileetilliso
08-27-2024, 10:07 PM
What do we do to be a little feminine? What delicious moments.

Nikkilovesdresses
08-28-2024, 01:05 AM
I had one of the best rounds in a while I just felt so calm...

That seems conclusive proof that you were in a good place emotionally Julie.

FWIW I doubt you'd get into much trouble on a golf course, golfers, like gardeners, tend to be decent people. You'd probably just make their day- "You'll never guess what I saw on the 3rd green today!" I think you'd just be brightening up an otherwise dull day.

I think the key is confidence. You just look them in the eye, smile broadly and wish them a good morning. I think they'd respond politely.

I'm basing that opinion on what I've read here over the years- after all you're in Surrey, not Alabama.

picone07
08-28-2024, 04:36 PM
What did you shoot and what tees did you use?