So I thought

[Maria 60]

This post might be removed I don't know if I'm about to cross any lines in my explanation. Through the years my dressing has gone threw so many changes, younger it was all sexual and always ended you know how and I would rip everything off as fast as I could. As I got older it became more about just feeling relaxed dressed but don't get me wrong it still feels amazing but it doesn't end like it used to.
Well yesterday my wife kind of proved me wrong and left me thinking this morning. We were getting ready to go out for dinner at a outside patio restaurant and I had my clothes that I was going to wear out on the bed. When I came out of the shower my wife asked me I was seriously planning on wearing those beige pantyhose and sports bra, she asked me if I was crazy it's was like 40C outside. She then told me she was going to save me a lot of pain and suffering and told me lets do it. I asked her what does sex have to do with anything, all she said was that I'll see. Well let's just say I didn't end up wearing the pantyhose and bra anymore. I guess she knows me better then I know myself and I guess the sexual part still isn't gone, I didn't rip everything off like I used to but the feeling of wearing the pantyhose and bra was gone.

[Aka_Donna]

104 is way too hot for pantyhose and I can't imagine that type of bra being comfortable. It is always great to find out parts still work just fine. If it's anywhere that warm in house, then it's time to pull out chemise or shorty PJ's for night wear.

[bridget thronton]

Interesting post Maria - you have a great wife

[StephanieLake]

Maria,

I get what you are saying. I don't think of my dressing as sexual anymore, I'm long since past that, but if I know I'm going to have time alone to go out dressed, I tend not to "take care of things" because I'll lose the urge to dress.

[Sharon budd]

Maria, you crack me up ��. Never stop posting.
Hugs, Sharon x

[JohnH]

With the hot weather in the DFW area of Texas I have not been wearing any kind of hosiery to church. My bra is necessary as my cup size is DD. So it's been above the knee dresses and sandals. Tomorrow it will be cooler so I can resume wearing hosiery and heels.

John

[siva]

I am like Stephanie, I'll lose the urge to dress, if I take care of those things self

[Bea_]

I started dressing later in life and there was some, but little sexual arousal from dressing. Various issues make intimacy very hit and miss in my relationship and I'm really not sure what effect that kind of episode would have. I'm glad that you're both willing to experiment with the process.

[docrobbysherry]

Maria, I'm sorry, I'm kind of dense. So, did the bra and panty hose help excite u or not? I couldn't figure it out from your post!:o

[Stephanie47]

Maria, at 104 F I'd never be dining outside on a patio. I think your wife was right. I don't know any woman who would wear pantyhose in hot weather. Bra is optional.

[Marketa]

Your wife had to teach you the hard way (pun intended).

I'm not wearing any kind of nylons once it gets above 25C. Also I found out I totally love skirt sliding on my shaved legs when walking.

[@tammileetilliso]

I'm younger and crossdressing still has a sexual component for me. But as I'm divorced, my desires don't come true with women.

[alwayshave]

Maria, At least your wife knows what motivates you.

[Jane G]

Great post. Fascinating as we age that we perceive changes in the need to crossdress change. But do they?

[NancySue]

What an innovative wife. Nice. I?m like the mail person, no matter what the weather, I wear mostly thigh highs and bra almost daily. Like Marketa, I totally love the feeling of my skirt swishing against my nyloned legs. I usually wear a half slip too, even if the skirt is lined.

[AmyJordan]

Hi Maria
My wife always insists I wear pantyhose no matter what the weather, admittedly it's very rare to even hit the mid thirties degrees here but even so I just have to adjust the denier and wear super sheer, It still satisfies her and I hardly feel them.

Amy x

[Geena75]

I've always felt that there is a sexual component to cross-dressing, more for some than others. It may be that dressing up pretty is the second most intimate activity with the feminine form, as though being dressed up is like having a long snuggle with our feminine side. A number to times I felt so good when dressed that I had to take some action feel satisfied in changing back.