Ebs and flows of S/o acceptance

[cd300]

Good evening everyone,
I have some news to share some good
The rest not so good. So anyone around since 2005
May have seen my history with my wife.
There as a lot more downs than ups until
Covid hit. We bonded like never before
She started to really accept Jessica and we
Became girlfriends at times. We went to vegas 2x and got my nails done had full makeovers done together all was well until last year. I got ill I was out of work for 6 months we some how built a wall between us. Now as we approach our 20 year wedding anniversary instead of planning a celebration. She has asked to divorce.
She gas jumped into the deep end of her religion again and the fact we enjoyed girlfriend time would be unacceptable and itmade her question her sexual identity a d that's unacceptable so now we go our separate ways. She don't see me as a husband or man to her anymore and says she is really definitely and finally done. While we figure out the particulars she wants to stay in same house and same room with me as she still loves me and while nothing physically is to happen she won't mind if I dress for bed or whatever I do during times she is not home.
So I said there is some good news and here that is.

My 16 year old daughter and I talked about the lgbtq world and her acceptance of it is phenomenal beyond her years.
So I took a shot and told her the real reason her mom and I were splitting and she while guarded and a little shocked was very accepting and saw some of my pics. She asked a few usual questions that I answered and wa prepared for
thanks to everyone and to all my years here.

So instead of pouting and fighting for my marriage I have realized like she feels she deserves a full man who can meet her needs ( medically I can not often do this)
I deserve to be able to live my life and have a spot in it for Jessica too. If another person were to come along I will certainly make sure they are on par with my alternative dressing decisions.

In a post to come I will share some pics in the othe part of the forum. I have dressed full head to toe numerous times this last few weeks and really enjoying what I am accomplishing with this extra practice.

Thanks to everyone and anybody who reads thjs
Hugs xoxo
Jessica

[siva]

sorry Jessica, good luck for everything.
Its a roller coaster on my end too. I am still in the Closet and she doesn't know about the CD. She says she is done with the marriage, but want to stay in the same house but no physical. I have 2 daughters 16 and 9 who doesn't know anything about my CD.
I am really stuck in this life and don't know what to do, how to live my life. I don't want to take your post in a different direction, but I am just sharing you are not alone, I am here with a different kind of problem.

[bridget thronton]

Sorry you marriage is ending even if it is amicable. It is good that your daughter seems to accept you.

[DianeT]

I feel like we're missing a part of the story (how was this wall built after the newly found acceptance?), but I wish you good luck to find a way out that works for the both of you.

[Stefanie Taylor]

Hi Siva

It sounds like you're more like flatmates rather than a partnership. I don't think I could put up with that.

I'd tell her, what's the worse that could happen?

[@tammileetilliso]

If there is no agreeable solution for both, the solution that emerged (divorce) is the only and appropriate one. Get ready for your new life and enjoy the freest crossdressing.

[alwayshave]

Jessica, I'm sorry that your wife has pulled the plug on your marriage. But, I am glad your daughter is accepting. I wish you the best of luck moving forward.

[Jane G]

The future beckons Jessica. Hope it works out for you both.

[cd300]

Appreciate everyone's kind words.
@DianeT during my illness we didn't connect my illness has left on so many meds to get through a day
I am not able to meet husbandly expectations often one.
Two she dove into the deep end of her religion she belongs to. So we drifted apart and with the religions new local leaders appointed her to a new role she is never home and we fight over that specific thing nearly daily. So now she is using their teachings to say I am not a man not only becusse I CD not only the medical issues but becusse she has to work to help out household and all the sudden after 20 years of which she has only worked the last 13 consistently i am no longer a providing husband in Her eyes.

[Brynna M]

That?s so sad. I won?t pretend to have any wise advice but I do hope it works out so that you find yourself in a happier place