D-Day tomorrow

[Verona]

My suitcase is packed, several outfits and shoes to match, ready for my first time out in public at tomorrows monthly ladies meeting at a hotel.
My wife is joining me and I am now having a glass of red before bed. Hopefully I do not get butterflies and back out at the last minute, I have got to stay in girl mode and ride this pink fog to get me through.
I am so excited and yet so so nervous.
I really need some positive comments to get me over the line girls. Xxx
Hugs
Verona xxx

[Fiona_44]

Just relax and enjoy. It will be a thrilling experience.

[Penny Daniels]

Good luck! I hope to be as brave as you someday soon!

[Debs]

Verona, do not back out of anything youll regret later, say for instance, you going to the bar to buy the drinks, do it, going to the loo on your own , ladies of course, having a dance, these are examples, if you question anything like that and dont do it, you will be kicking yourself the next day, also this is a confidence builder for when you come out with me in the real world of shopping, lol

[StephanieCLT]

You'll be great. That first step out the door will likely be a doozy, but give it a few minutes, and you'll be great! And the fact that your wife is with you and supportive, well you are a lucky girl!

[Helen_Highwater]

Verona,

I was as guilty as you in overthinking the situation. A mind full of "What if's", things that just didn't materialise. Pull up those big girl panties, deep breath, put on your most confident face, know that you'll be amongst friends and that you're about to have one of the best times of your life.

Remember, the hotel staff have seen it all before and they're use to catering for the group. Meeting you isn't going to throw them into a tizzy, far from it. A big bonus is that you've got the support of your SO, not that you'll need it. Mingle, introduce yourself, chat, share stories, the time will fly by.

[Verona]

Aww thank you so much Debs and Helen. You girls really are amazing. You have both made me feel welcome and I almost feel like I know you both so well. I would love to meet you lovely ladies and hopefully it will not be too long before we all get together.
I am hoping this experience will kick start me coming out of the closet and being more sociable.

You girls have definitely helped me do this and made me feel so inclusive

Thank you both so much x

[Anne E]

It sounds wonderful. Have a great time!

[alwayshave]

Verona, Just breath. Once you are there and meet the other girls, you'll be fine.

[Sandi Beech]

Whatever you do. Like the others said, do not back out or you will always wonder what you missed out on. Since it is a group meeting, the risk is near zero and the self esteem you can get from the acceptance of others is priceless. You just can not understand that until it happens to you. You just have to trust me and the others here who have ventured out many times. Good luck and tell yourself to just do it ; )

Sandi

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Verona :hugs:, GoodLuck, Don't forget your camera,

[audreyinalbany]

OMG, if you're wife is going with, you've got nothing to worry about

[kimdl93]

You?ll be fine. Nothing to fear but fear itself, as FDR said so long ago.

[Rhonda Darling]

Verona, once you've broken the ice and start to meet people, don't forget about your lovely wife. Introduce her, keep her close (unless/until she meets some other wives/SOs and is comfortable on her own at the event.) She's what got you there. Cherish her.

[bridget thronton]

Enjoy your outing

[Genifer Teal]

My first time meeting with the group years ago I was afraid. I didn't go dressed. I thought I'd check it out first. I wasn't there five minutes and wished I had broad clothes to change. ("Broad" was a typo. I left it because it worked)

[Verona]

Setting off in a couple of hours, I?m all shaved and packed.
I like that comment Genifer lol
broadly speaking

[Connie D50]

Have a wonderful time Verona

[CynthiaD]

For the first few minutes it will feel exhilarating. Then it will start to feel normal. That’s the part I treasure the most: when it just feels normal.

[chrissy111]

How can you go wrong with your wife by your side, enjoy.

[Verona]

I do not know if I can do this, the place is red hot. I cant be melting whilst here I will look terrible
I am so nervous, having a glass of wine to calm the nerves

[Cheryl T]

Just relax and be yourself.
Allow yourself to enjoy the moment and don't over think things.

[Verona]

I think I was having a hot sweat. I am ok now.

[Suzie Petersen]

Getting Hotflashes is not unusual ;)

[Verity]

So excited for you! As someone who is not yet ready for outings, but hope to one day, sooner than later, I am cheering you on! Do it to inspire us! But far above all do it for you, no regrets. Life is too short to not enjoy your self. Can?t wait to hear about your experience! I am encouraged by you.

[Verona]

It was amazing
I felt like a princess
Everyone was lovely and so welcoming

[BrendaPDX]

Your bags are packed, you're ready to go. Stop standing here beside the door, your mind's made up, it's time for you to gooooo! Don't look back, just bring your wedding ringggg! Get on that jet airplane and goo oo,oo. Wishing you the best.

I am really sorry if this was offensive, just an old song hit me.

Brenda

Well, I could have read the whole post. Sorry

[Debs]

There ya go Verona, first steps taken. You'll get addicted now, theres no turning back, just dressing in the house will not be enough, you'll get dressed in the house and find yourself looking out of the window, and scheming thinking of excuses to step outside.

[Helen_Highwater]

I'm not one to say, " Told you so" but....

And if you think that was good, wait till you go shopping enfemme for the first time.......and use the female changing room to try things on.

So much lays ahead of you and yes, hopefully we can meet in the not too distant future. Bon voyage.

[Verona]

I am on cloud 9
My wife loved it too, it was so fun. We had a ball.
Thank you all for the encouragement and support.
Already booked for the next event and trying to think of the next step. Shopping, driving, walking, lunch, etc.
it feels like a whole new world is there for me to explore. Xxx

[Sandi Beech]

Ha, you are hooked now. What Debs said. Of course some of us are hooked on it too. Just remember it will be easy to focus on all things crossdressing now. Make sure you limit that a bit because you need to make sure your wife is not neglected. If you want her to stay on board with it, so spend some time focusing on her. Glad you enjoyed it.

Sandi

[kimdl93]

I am so glad to hear the you both enjoyed the outing. The world is waiting for you!

[Helen_Highwater]

I am on cloud 9
My wife loved it too, it was so fun. We had a ball.
Thank you all for the encouragement and support.
Already booked for the next event and trying to think of the next step. Shopping, driving, walking, lunch, etc.
it feels like a whole new world is there for me to explore. Xxx

Verona,

Now, at this point I would suggest just a modicum of caution. Attend a few more meetings. Get fully comfortable with being dressed in this safe public place. This will help tremendously in building your confidence for more adventures. You mentioned a drive. Have you considered a drive through? I've done it a good few times and half of those the staff hardly looked at me especially now we all just tap our cards to pay. And wear flats or very low heels. Driving in high heels takes experience. You don't want a shunt to spoil your day.

Shopping. An out of town retain park, midweek, school term time and during the day. It'll be busy enough for you to blend, not so busy it'll feel overpowering. And my top tip; shop for something(s). A blouse, a skirt, hose, whatever you fancy. Wondering around aimlessly makes you look like a shoplifter. It also give you a focus. If there's an M&S then they tend to have a cafe. Chance for a coffee and a bite to eat and to mingle with the muggles.

Baby steps is the way to go.

[Brynna M]

Just wanted to say congratulations on such a wonderful outing. And thank you for sharing with us.

[Verona]

Thank you all for the support and encouragement.
I am so happy, I think this has changed my life, I wake every morning with a smile and it?s a great way to start the day.
Love you all
Thanks ladies xxx

[Sometimes Steffi]

A Whole New World.

Read the lyrics here (https://www.lyrics.com/lyric/7525877).

It wasn't written for us girls, but it couldn't be more appropriate.