Philippa Jane
10-20-2024, 11:17 AM
I think I can post this here but if not I am sure the moderators will move it.
I don't see very many relationship issues here like I will relate as it is not exactly a CD issue.
Most of you are married or have a female SO. But it is interesting and heart-warming when GG?s support you.
I will talk about a relationship that for me developed but ultimately was one sided.
I met a GG some months back and did tell her from the outset that I was a TS.
We got along well and went out for shows, dinner and lunches. Practically each weekend.
After a few months, imagine my surprise and hurt when I found out she was going back to her ex.
This is where the sisterhood came in. A number of ladies I have met socially recently have been privy to what has happened and have offered a great deal of support.
On Friday I went to lunch for the last time with the lady I was keen on. I had told her the week before of my feelings towards her and that was when the bomb dropped about her ex.
I went along to lunch to see if we could still be friends. I was just too reserved and I think I was shutting down to protect myself.
Alas I am an all or nothing girl and I don?t like second best.
After lunch I texted a female friend (Caroline) and asked for company at a local caf?. She was already there so we met and had a number of drinks. We both spoke about our love lives and that we wanted something better. When she heard my story Caroline wanted to first punch this girl out
(That was the wine talking) but she did demand that I drop this girl completely as she felt I was too good for her and she did not deserve me.
That was nice to hear.
After many drinks in the afternoon Caroline bought me dinner. (This girl is generous to a fault.)
I spent five hours with Caroline and it was wonderful to have somebody care about my feelings.
She tells me she is BI but she is far too young for me.
Two other ladies took me out on Saturday to also help distract me . They also know of my failed relationship and the woman involved.
Girl power looking after me (a TS no less) above a GG.
I don't see very many relationship issues here like I will relate as it is not exactly a CD issue.
Most of you are married or have a female SO. But it is interesting and heart-warming when GG?s support you.
I will talk about a relationship that for me developed but ultimately was one sided.
I met a GG some months back and did tell her from the outset that I was a TS.
We got along well and went out for shows, dinner and lunches. Practically each weekend.
After a few months, imagine my surprise and hurt when I found out she was going back to her ex.
This is where the sisterhood came in. A number of ladies I have met socially recently have been privy to what has happened and have offered a great deal of support.
On Friday I went to lunch for the last time with the lady I was keen on. I had told her the week before of my feelings towards her and that was when the bomb dropped about her ex.
I went along to lunch to see if we could still be friends. I was just too reserved and I think I was shutting down to protect myself.
Alas I am an all or nothing girl and I don?t like second best.
After lunch I texted a female friend (Caroline) and asked for company at a local caf?. She was already there so we met and had a number of drinks. We both spoke about our love lives and that we wanted something better. When she heard my story Caroline wanted to first punch this girl out
(That was the wine talking) but she did demand that I drop this girl completely as she felt I was too good for her and she did not deserve me.
That was nice to hear.
After many drinks in the afternoon Caroline bought me dinner. (This girl is generous to a fault.)
I spent five hours with Caroline and it was wonderful to have somebody care about my feelings.
She tells me she is BI but she is far too young for me.
Two other ladies took me out on Saturday to also help distract me . They also know of my failed relationship and the woman involved.
Girl power looking after me (a TS no less) above a GG.