Helen_Highwater
11-05-2024, 01:12 PM
So, in my post??https://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?285521-Looking-forward-from-the-past&highlight=
I wrote about how I hoped things would pan out to trigger ?the conversation? and allow me to dress more freely during my SO?s recovery from surgery. Well it didn?t happen and the status quo
pretty much prevailed.
That said, things over the past 10 ? 15 days since her discharge from hospital have been somewhat different. It?s been a case of, when she?s up she?s up, when she?s down she?s down. And by that I mean when she?s either been upstairs in bed or downstairs resting on the sofa, and without my help to negotiate the stairs she?s not moving from one to the other. So, for my SO (her choice) it?s been mornings spent upstairs knitting and doing one set of exercises to aid recovery and then downstairs for lunch and different exercises and to watch TV through to bedtime.
For me it?s been visa-versa. My mornings are spent downstairs, cleaning and tablet time afternoons upstairs on my PC.
This has enabled me to add wearing a bralette and forms to my usual femme attire while doing the kitchen cleaning or spending time on my tablet when downstairs or time on my PC when upstairs. It makes going CU, Covered Up, a little more time consuming when being an attentive carer but it?s seconds only.
Can?t lie, it?s been nice to be able to spend more time PF, Partially Femme. Having forms on just takes things up a notch. There?s a tiny part of me that feels a little guilt about cashing in on things but my SO?s situation isn?t of my making, I make sure all her care needs are met, so why not make the best of what?s there.
I didn?t want to ?have the conversation? once she?s had the op. She?d already got a lot to cope with and it wouldn?t have been fair to add more to it. That time will come soon I?m sure but for now it?s a case of let sleeping dogs lie.
My SO?s mobility is improving day on day and starting to get around much easier so it?s only a matter of time before my new found freedoms come to an end. Nice while it lasts but looking forward, who knows.
Yours
Helen
head cook, chief bottle washer, butler, house maid, laundry manager, chauffeur, general dogs body.
I wrote about how I hoped things would pan out to trigger ?the conversation? and allow me to dress more freely during my SO?s recovery from surgery. Well it didn?t happen and the status quo
pretty much prevailed.
That said, things over the past 10 ? 15 days since her discharge from hospital have been somewhat different. It?s been a case of, when she?s up she?s up, when she?s down she?s down. And by that I mean when she?s either been upstairs in bed or downstairs resting on the sofa, and without my help to negotiate the stairs she?s not moving from one to the other. So, for my SO (her choice) it?s been mornings spent upstairs knitting and doing one set of exercises to aid recovery and then downstairs for lunch and different exercises and to watch TV through to bedtime.
For me it?s been visa-versa. My mornings are spent downstairs, cleaning and tablet time afternoons upstairs on my PC.
This has enabled me to add wearing a bralette and forms to my usual femme attire while doing the kitchen cleaning or spending time on my tablet when downstairs or time on my PC when upstairs. It makes going CU, Covered Up, a little more time consuming when being an attentive carer but it?s seconds only.
Can?t lie, it?s been nice to be able to spend more time PF, Partially Femme. Having forms on just takes things up a notch. There?s a tiny part of me that feels a little guilt about cashing in on things but my SO?s situation isn?t of my making, I make sure all her care needs are met, so why not make the best of what?s there.
I didn?t want to ?have the conversation? once she?s had the op. She?d already got a lot to cope with and it wouldn?t have been fair to add more to it. That time will come soon I?m sure but for now it?s a case of let sleeping dogs lie.
My SO?s mobility is improving day on day and starting to get around much easier so it?s only a matter of time before my new found freedoms come to an end. Nice while it lasts but looking forward, who knows.
Yours
Helen
head cook, chief bottle washer, butler, house maid, laundry manager, chauffeur, general dogs body.