rachellegsep
12-28-2024, 03:52 AM
A bit of background 1st.
My wife and I are finally parting ways after 30 years. We have been separated for the last 10 but are still good friends and Business partners working together. With a recent restructuring of our businesses it has finally allowed the amicable non contested divorce to proceed. I made the mistake of not having the talk before getting married thinking I could put CDing behind me. We all know that is not possible and she obviously found out. As many others have said it was more the sense of betrayal of not having the talk before we got married. She did eventually come around and even bought me clothes and was comfortable with odd appearance Rachel enfemme in the comfort of our home. The reasons for the divorce are not crossdressing or infidelity. We have just grown apart with different interests and have fallen out of love. Several months ago she told me that I must move on with my life and be happy in finding a new women to share the rest of my days with, and she would have have no problem of me dating and it would have no effect on the divorce proceedings.
Long story short a women friend and partner in a separate business who knows the whole story about our marriage, gave me a number of a friend from her church saying that she thought we were very compatible. I told me wife about this and she said you must ask her out. I picked up the courage phoned her and we conversed online, realising we had a lot in common and similar circumstances, both with sons that are grown up and are out of the house. We set a time and convenient place to go on a dinner date. We talked for hours and hours until they ended up closing up the restaurant around us. At 1st I didn't feel the spark and thought we would just be friends, but after the second date with both of us more at ease with each and lots conversation we both felt the connection. We have been seeing each other almost everyday for the last 2 weeks and its like 2 teenagers in love. We both never thought we would feel this way again. My wife is happy for us.
Well last night as the relationship is getting serious, I decided we needed have the talk. I was sh--ing bricks, thinking I would lose her. I told her about Rachel and answered all the normal questions and more to put her mind at ease. She was very happy that I trusted her with the information and was glad I told her beforehand. She understands that its part of me has no problem with it. She even said that she had noticed that there was something about me that was different, in a nice way, to any other man she has every met in her life. I told I will not reveal Rachel to her unless she asks and that its only done in the comfort of the home unless by mutual agreement like in the case of themed fancy dress parties etc. Slow steps going forward but exited for the future.
My wife and I are finally parting ways after 30 years. We have been separated for the last 10 but are still good friends and Business partners working together. With a recent restructuring of our businesses it has finally allowed the amicable non contested divorce to proceed. I made the mistake of not having the talk before getting married thinking I could put CDing behind me. We all know that is not possible and she obviously found out. As many others have said it was more the sense of betrayal of not having the talk before we got married. She did eventually come around and even bought me clothes and was comfortable with odd appearance Rachel enfemme in the comfort of our home. The reasons for the divorce are not crossdressing or infidelity. We have just grown apart with different interests and have fallen out of love. Several months ago she told me that I must move on with my life and be happy in finding a new women to share the rest of my days with, and she would have have no problem of me dating and it would have no effect on the divorce proceedings.
Long story short a women friend and partner in a separate business who knows the whole story about our marriage, gave me a number of a friend from her church saying that she thought we were very compatible. I told me wife about this and she said you must ask her out. I picked up the courage phoned her and we conversed online, realising we had a lot in common and similar circumstances, both with sons that are grown up and are out of the house. We set a time and convenient place to go on a dinner date. We talked for hours and hours until they ended up closing up the restaurant around us. At 1st I didn't feel the spark and thought we would just be friends, but after the second date with both of us more at ease with each and lots conversation we both felt the connection. We have been seeing each other almost everyday for the last 2 weeks and its like 2 teenagers in love. We both never thought we would feel this way again. My wife is happy for us.
Well last night as the relationship is getting serious, I decided we needed have the talk. I was sh--ing bricks, thinking I would lose her. I told her about Rachel and answered all the normal questions and more to put her mind at ease. She was very happy that I trusted her with the information and was glad I told her beforehand. She understands that its part of me has no problem with it. She even said that she had noticed that there was something about me that was different, in a nice way, to any other man she has every met in her life. I told I will not reveal Rachel to her unless she asks and that its only done in the comfort of the home unless by mutual agreement like in the case of themed fancy dress parties etc. Slow steps going forward but exited for the future.