New Year Resolutions

[Jenn A116]

Have you made any new year resolutions for your girl self? Things that you want to do in order to improve your presentation? I've made a few myself including loosing weight (doesn't everybody?), looking for a better hair style and getting my ears pierced.

[Karren H]

Yeah! Looking to drop 10 pounds and add at least a cup size to my bust!

[Marketa]

Flatten my stomach - that's must have resolution I think

Find and buy blue pumps - not navy-blue, I've got awesome pair of those already

Improve my make-up skills, especially the bloody eyeliner

And the most important: get a friend, ideally GG

[alwayshave]

Jenn, I dropped 20 pounds last year, I'd like to drop 30 pounds this year.

[CDMargret]

For sure continuing to drop and flatten the belly. But I want to go out more. A few hours north of me there is a group of gurls that meet at an LGBTQ center once a month. Been so shy to go to this one yet I need to take that leap.

[Kris Burton]

I'd like to get out more frequently and take on some more challenges when I do. Less blend, more femme - really test those passing skills!

[chrissy111]

Become better at cooking.

[Helen_Highwater]

I'd lost a fair bit of weight, flattened the belly in readiness for my usual November week away which got cancelled due to my SO having an operation and needing me to be nursemaid. I slipped into nibbling mode, snacking between meals and put a couple of pounds back on, Christmas hasn't helped so the New year is time for a reset, back to getting in shape as I've booked a week away in March (details to meet up offer to follow).

So hopefully I'll get that flat front, from the bra band down and get the chance to show off a femme figure on a few nights out.

[CynthiaD]

Same resolution I always make: Never wear male clothing ever again. I’ve never been able to keep it, but I keep getting closer and closer. :)

[kimdl93]

Yeah! Looking to drop 10 pounds and add at least a cup size to my bust!

So, Karren, will you need to lose 15 lbs to net 10?

[Raychel]

Every year I make the same resolution to lose weight.
every year I fail miserable.

I don't have a resolution for this year.
Maybe to just make life as easy and happy for myself this year.
That would definitely include more Raychel time.

[SophiaRose]

Get out of the house and enjoy some shopping en femme. Yeah..lose some weight and figure out my makeup routine as well.

[Steph_CD_62]

I have not made any New Years Resolutions.
I haven't before, and I plan on making any either.
It would be nice if I lost a little weight around my waist, but otherwise I can't think of anything to change.

[TheHiddenMe]

Like others, lose weight--about 25 pounds. The 10 I put on the last two months, plus 15 more.

A dual benefit; fit into more fun clothes and better race times.

Hard to do, though.

[bridget thronton]

Weight loss, sleep, and exercise

[CharlotteCD]

Get back into a comfortable size 14 top half, which means losing 20kg/44lbs.

I'm on Mounjaro (like Ozempic) as of yesterday so I feel confident.

[Suzie Petersen]

My goals for 2025 are:

1) Keep treating my wonderful wife as well as she deserves, and hope she keeps treating me better than I deserve.
2) I hope to get out more in girl mode and will work on being even more accepted among regular people while I present as a female.
3) I will make an effort to stop hunger and secure world peace .....

I did really well on #1 and #2 this year, but #3 still needs a lot of work from all of us.
As it turns out, my personal issues and problems are so small compared with what others, and the world in general, is facing.
That is probably a good thing to remember now and then.

#4 Lastly, I hope to be a good example to others in the TG community, to help others who struggle with this, to share my story and experience, and through that, instill hope that it is possible to find balance in this thing we do, and that having a happy and solid marriage while also being a CD/TG person is indeed possible.

[Karren H]

So, Karren, will you need to lose 15 lbs to net 10?

Hmmmm. Think a 36DD to a DDD would yield about a pound incrementally, each breast, so maybe loose 12? Either way 10, 12 or 15 and a DDD I will take it! Lol.

[April Rose]

My resolution for this year is to try to be as good an ambassador as possible for people in the transgender spectrum to people in the general population.

[Fiona_44]

In 2025, I want to get out to more formal affairs where I can get dressed up in an evening gown or cocktail dress. I love getting dressed way up.

[TheHiddenMe]

Add two:

1. Go clubbing with Sandi Beech

2. Hit the formals with Tricia Lee


:)

[BLUE ORCHID]

At My Age (82) Not going to Kid Myself, Just carry on with Life as Usual,

[docrobbysherry]

I don't make resolutions. I plan things well in advance all year round!:heehee:

I'm used to putting on weight during the holidays. And, already up 4 pounds from Xmas left overs. Yummy!:)
I'll be munching chips and cookies watching the games New Years day. So, probably up 6 or 7 by Friday?:straightface:

But, after salads, veggies, and skinless chicken for dinners next week it'll be gone by the 10th, at latest. A girl's gotta watch her figure!:battingeyelashes:

[susan jackson]

Work on my voice

I now have the body, but not the sound of a woman

[Andrea Renea]

I don't make'em...I just break"em

[Joanie CD]

I've got at least 4, which overlap with most people here:
1. Lose more weight -- I lost 20 pounds (9kg) in 2024, and hope to lose about 50 more in 2025
2. Get my ears pierced (my wife is OK with it)
3. More travelling en femme for the whole trip, solo or with my wife, including camping
4. Getting past my minimal skills with makeup

[Jasmine23]

Lose weight to get in better shape, both from a health & fitness pov and so that outfits look better. Also want to dress more and hopefully go to a dressing service to dress up fully and possibly go out in public!

[BrendaPDX]

Firm up my body and get rid of some of Brenda's clothes!

[NatalieMN]

The easy one first; lose weight. Pretty common but I tend to go up and down too often. Would like to get to a better weight and stay there.

Otherwise, I would love to get out as Natalie a lot more. It is always tough to find the right time to get out and do stuff especially as we tend to be busy with a lot of other stuff throughout the year. I am hoping the winter will remain fairly slow and Natalie can get out more than she has in the past. I would love to finally go on a trip fully as Natalie with no boy mode in sight (except maybe TSA depending on how much I want to push it) but that probably won't happen next year yet.

[BrendaPDX]

Work on toning my body and getting out more, well at least once. I need to find some local gals for a place to get ready.

[Sandi Beech]

I like Dee?s list, but unfortunately I will likely never get back to clubbing like I was able to back in 2022. That was a big year for me.

Sandi

[OrdinaryAverageGuy]

I have business goals that I won't get into here, working on the house(s) goals that also aren't relevent here, would like to lose weight but until I make the decision to do it I won't, But I would like to bolster my courage up to go out in public a little more comfy. Specifically I'd like to go out and be seen in leggings much more than I've done so far. Not just black ones, but cute ones. I've done gas fill ups in town, and truck stops on the road, but if I could get myself to go into Lowes that would be amazing.

[Susan_Michaela]

Haven?t made any resolutions in 2024 or this year but in 2023 I came out 100% dressing so on January 1st it?s been two years full time for me now. I?ve not had any problems and believe it?s the best decision I?ve made to date in regards to dressing

[Philipa Jane]

I made my first one today.
Not to allow friends to treat me badly without calling them out.

As to the diet.
I told a friend I had three eggs today.
She asked fried, poached or scrambled .
I said none of those just Cadbury chocolate.

[April Rose]

I just got a medical report that which showed I'm not in quite as good shape as I Thought I was. Attending to that will be a priority. The fact that it will let me fit into some skirts that I have"outgrown" will be an added incentive.