Maria 60
01-06-2025, 07:59 PM
I'm just writing this so everyone can see the challenges of living in an Italian household. My wife's brother was in the area and dropped by. His wife like most Italians love gossip and dirty laundry and usally my wife doesn't care for it, but yesterday it hit close to home. Try to follow along, she was telling us that her daughter went to a club and seen so and so's girlfriend at the club dancing with a girl. When her daughter approached her to say Hi it wasn't a girl she was with, it was so and so's son wearing women's clothing dressed as a women. Her daughter was a little confused but so and so's girlfriend explained it in a very normal fashion that this is something they do almost every weekend and they are living together and he dresses at home at times to. She turned to me and asked me if that was the most disgusting thing I've ever heard and something must totally be wrong with that girl, not to mention there getting married this July. I answered maybe they love each other and he treats her good, after all isn't that what everyone really wants. She snapped at me "F&$K THAT, a women wants a man, a protector next to her not a sissy". I then got up and stepped away and went downstairs to get a bottle of home made wine. When I came up she asked my wife if I would have told her I liked to dress as a women would she have still married me? My wife put her finger to her mouth and said "let me think".
"We love each other to death and I couldn't imagine living one day without him, he loves his children to death and would do anything for them and double that for his grandchildren and when I got into the car accident without asking he stepped up and has been treating me like a princess". "Yes I would have married him in a heartbeat, one hundred percent".
My sister in law had a disgusting look on her face and then my wife asked her if she would answer a question. She said to them that I helped with there renovation, that I did the demolition and the hardwood floors and ceramic tiles and who knows what else she doesn't know of. When there nephew was drowning in drugs I was the only one to talk to him and take him to rehab twice a week on my own time. I'm going to write exactly what my wife told them. "After everything my husband has done for you and our family, if he stands up right now and drops his pants and he is wearing pink panties and pantyhose what would you think of him and me?
OMG! I took a big gulp of wine, because I had a feeling my wife was going to make me pull my pants down to make her point because I was wearing that. My sister in law didn't say a word but my brother in law told me if I pulled my pants down it wouldn't matter what I was wearing under because he knows who I am and he respects me.
He asked if we could please drop the conversation and I agreed and went downstairs again to cut some home made salami and aged cheese and opened another bottle of wine.
We ate lunch together but it was very cold between the women, they were barely talking to each other.
When they left I told my wife for a second I really thought she was going to make pull down my pants, she said if her sister in law would have said one more word she was going to make me do it. I think that was our first laugh of the afternoon just thinking of what that would have looked like.
It was very discouraging and sad to hear her sister inlaw talking the way she did, she's young but I feel growing up in an environment that one has to be a curtain way to make sure that other people view them a curtain way for the price of there own children's happiness.
My wife made her point, if I did drop my pants everything I did for them would have been wiped out and I would have been seen as a weird freak. Thought I would share my Sunday afternoon with you after coming off a Friday shopping with my wife high ruined.
"We love each other to death and I couldn't imagine living one day without him, he loves his children to death and would do anything for them and double that for his grandchildren and when I got into the car accident without asking he stepped up and has been treating me like a princess". "Yes I would have married him in a heartbeat, one hundred percent".
My sister in law had a disgusting look on her face and then my wife asked her if she would answer a question. She said to them that I helped with there renovation, that I did the demolition and the hardwood floors and ceramic tiles and who knows what else she doesn't know of. When there nephew was drowning in drugs I was the only one to talk to him and take him to rehab twice a week on my own time. I'm going to write exactly what my wife told them. "After everything my husband has done for you and our family, if he stands up right now and drops his pants and he is wearing pink panties and pantyhose what would you think of him and me?
OMG! I took a big gulp of wine, because I had a feeling my wife was going to make me pull my pants down to make her point because I was wearing that. My sister in law didn't say a word but my brother in law told me if I pulled my pants down it wouldn't matter what I was wearing under because he knows who I am and he respects me.
He asked if we could please drop the conversation and I agreed and went downstairs again to cut some home made salami and aged cheese and opened another bottle of wine.
We ate lunch together but it was very cold between the women, they were barely talking to each other.
When they left I told my wife for a second I really thought she was going to make pull down my pants, she said if her sister in law would have said one more word she was going to make me do it. I think that was our first laugh of the afternoon just thinking of what that would have looked like.
It was very discouraging and sad to hear her sister inlaw talking the way she did, she's young but I feel growing up in an environment that one has to be a curtain way to make sure that other people view them a curtain way for the price of there own children's happiness.
My wife made her point, if I did drop my pants everything I did for them would have been wiped out and I would have been seen as a weird freak. Thought I would share my Sunday afternoon with you after coming off a Friday shopping with my wife high ruined.