Looking to crossdress outside.

[cashmallowz]

Hi! Im a 24 year old boy from Asia looking to try out and crossdress in public for the first time, but I still feel a bit hesistant!

So I'm here looking for someone who can talk me up to it and steady my nerves and who I can share my photos too as well. thank you😅

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just send me a message ^^

[Sandi Beech]

Hi,

You can share photos here once you reach 10 posts to other threads. Many of us post pictures.

As for encouragement, You will read post after post where no one even noticed. You would be surprised. Of course I like to be noticed so I am a different sort of animal. Good luck and welcome.

Make sure you read all the rules as you have to reduce the file size to avoid them being too large.

Sandi

[Marketa]

Welcome,

One of the best ways to calm you down is, when you realize, how much you "scan" other people in the streets. My guess is, that just like 99% of population (1% to cover all possibilities) you don't at all, unless something is really off. And even if something is off, in another 99% you don't care at the end and you go on with your business.
Am I right?
Because the ugly truth is that people don't care. And when I'm already out and get somehow nervous that someone is staring at me, I go through a little dialog in my head: "Do you know them? - No. - Do they know you? - Also no. - So why do you care what they think? F them in particular!" and that calms me down and usually makes me smile a little.

And as Sandi said, read posts about outings here on the forum. Just write "outing" in the search bar and you'll get hundreds of posts, incl. mines. I was even in opera twice fully en femme and with no issues whatsoever.

Read the posts, calm down, put your best woman look on and go, conquer the world.

[Helen_Highwater]

OK, first things to realise are, daylight is your friend as are busy places.

Many take their first steps under the cover of darkness when the streets are quiet. However because they're quiet, you stand out. Others who use darkness are gangs and other criminals, not the sort you want to encounter.

Busy shopping centres where folks are just going about the daily lives and most, as Marketa says, aren't paying that much attention.

This of it this way. You're in a big hall with 10 others. You'll look at all 10. Put 100 in the hall you'll still only look at a handful, the rest you ignore and the rest are ignoring you.

And if you want a little nerve settler, do a drive through takeaway. A chance to interact with someone but from the safety of your car.

I've spent many days out and about enfemme. Used buses and trains, eaten in cafes and restaurants, use female changing rooms and toilets. Never had a bad experience. Use common sense, don't go into a pub full of football supporters who's team just lost a cup final and you'll be fine.

[Genifer Teal]

Are there places for people like you to go in your country? Stay away from places where the professionals might go. That adds, another element.You may not be ready for it yet. A support group would be the best suggestion. No one will care how you're dressed.Maybe you're still figuring it out.You don't have to have a perfect look. The main thing is you want to go somewhere where you will have the least stress, and you can just relax and experience the moment for what it is.

[docrobbysherry]

Cash, my Asian friend and I have dressed often in the Asian countries we traveled to from the USA. While I stood out there, my Asian trans friend was well accepted by everyone we encountered. |

I'm sure she passed often!:thumbsup: