Would You Be Happy If You Woke Up As a Woman?

[JackieD85]

I thought of everyone a few days ago after having the following dream: In the dream, I woke up to go to the bathroom to find out that I needed to sit down. When I looked in the mirror and took off my pajamas, there was a woman staring back from head to toe.

My face and hair looked like myself in drag, just without makeup. Just like a woman getting up from bed would look.

All I remember after that was a sense of peace. I was happy. It might be because (due to hormone problems, I have developed a feminine body to where I dont need any padding). This has been both a blessing and a curse. Womens clothing fits better and bras (40B) and panties are part of daily life.

So if that dream was real, I would be happy. I wouldnt have to live a double life (I present as male in public, but work from home).

But everyone is different. Would you be happy if you really woke as a woman?

[CynthiaD]

In a word, yes.

[Kris Burton]

For me, only if I could snap my fingers and return to my male self, and then back again at will.

[kimdl93]

I am not much for engaging in wishful thinking. I can think of quite a few things that I would be happy to wake up to tomorrow morning, but none of them are going to happen. As my father used to say: If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.

[Taylor Dame]

Same as Kris - only if I could return to male whenever I wanted.

[bridget thronton]

I am happy any morning I wake up

[Aka_Donna]

Ugh, crossdressers not transgender. Fantasy, not reality, so most will say either no, or ok IF I can switch back at will.

[Marketa]

I'm in the switching camp, so if I woke up as a woman, I'd be genuinely happy for a bit, so I don't have to use padding, but then reality would hit and it wouldn't make much of a difference in my happiness in long term.

But if I would like to wake up as shapeshifter? I'd probably give my soul for that.

[Claire M]

I think I would like it, if it came with the switch back option. While it might pleasant for me personally, I could see all kinds of havoc for my for my family and my life overall. So basically, yes, I'd like to see how it truly feels to be a woman. But if it created too much turmoil for those I love, I'd probably switch back.

[Sabine7]

Waking up in a female body and continuing to live further as a woman is one of my most intensive dreams and fantasies. A desired change I would accept with joy even if permanent.

[Verona]

Although I love being a man that occasionally crossdresses, I would be more than happy to wake up a woman. Just as I am more than happy to wake up a man.
I wonder what would be the first thing I would do?

[marieclaire]

I wish I had a key or key that I could change male or female.
If I woke up as a woman, I would enjoy all the experiences I was entitled to: buying lingerie and clothes naturally, wearing a bra and filling it with my own breasts (I would touch and squeeze them so much!), going through PMS, having relationships with a man, putting on makeup, exploring this new body...
I would dress like a princess!

[Genifer Teal]

Life wouldn't be easy peasy but I'd make it work.

[SaraLin]

Yes.


BUT


My wife wouldn't

[Connie D50]

after 60 +years wish I was one I would say yes :).

[Georgina]

No. It would probably mean that I would not want to wear skirts and dresses as much and what about slips and my girdle and bra. I appreciate the clothes I wear more as a man.

[CarlaWestin]

Uh? No.

Jackie, maybe you've noticed that the pink fog is at its highest density in the waking moments.
My first early thoughts are being June Cleaver out shopping for the day in heels, pearls and a smart full length house dress.

But the guy me has guy things to do.

[ShelbyDawn]

Waking up as a woman would be delightful, but me in drag is not a pretty sight, so, Unless there were some esthetic adjustments, probably not.

[JohnH]

I have been on estrogen for over 13 years, and have developed a feminine appearance. So in the morning I can stand in a mirror and I see a woman looking back at me. However, with my relaxed vocal cords at the time, when I sing, a sound of an oktavist comes out, shattering the illusion.

John

[JesseVF]

In total fantasy land including an entire new existence I would say yes, but just waking up a woman in my current world only if could control it.

[Raychel]

No not for me,then the joy of dressing on womens clothes would not be there.
If I were to crossdress I would have to dress in guy clothes. :puke::puke::Pullhair:

[audreyinalbany]

nope...I'm fine the way I am

[Cassiek]

I'm wishing for the magic wand to be able to wave for switching from boy to girl and back again at will.

[BrendaPDX]

I am not sure, but most of my clothes would fit!

[docrobbysherry]

For over a decade I dreamed of becoming female.:daydreaming:

Then, I bought my 1st silicone female suit. That was nearly 20 years ago and I've never had that dream since!:thumbsup:

Because whenever I want to now I can see myself as a naked, anatomically correct, woman in my mirror!:battingeyelashes:

If I want to wake up as a woman I go to bed as one!:heehee:

That event completely turned my life around! I turned from trans to a CD in an instant!:eek:
See avatar!

[danniUK]

If it weren't for the relationship problem it would cause?

Absolutely yes.

[AllieBellema]

I would. Granted I've gotten used to the reality of being a MIAD, still there is those days where I wish I woke up a woman instead.

[Suzie Petersen]

Since we are in fantasy land here anyway, if the reason for this happening was for instance a world wide virus, spreading indiscriminately and with no known vaccines or antidotes available. In other words, it was well understood and totally accepted that this just randomly happens to some and it therefore was not my own fault or doing ....

At this stage in my life, there is really nothing I want to do that I cannot just as well do as a female.
So yes, I would be happy to live the remainder of my life as a woman.

[Fiona_44]

At this point, I think living the rest of my life as a woman would be a wonderful experience.

[Cheryl T]

Would I be happy?
Oh my yes!


Would my wife be happy?
Oh my no!

And for that reason I don't entertain the idea. I made a commitment when we married. No matter how I feel or what is possible I can't break that promise.

[DanielleDubois]

A hard no from me. I am thoroughly content in my male life I exist in 99% of the time but do get great enjoyment in my temporary Danielle time.

[CrossKimmy]

keeping everything the same? absolutely yes

[Elizabeth G]

I would be ecstatic, but that dream has been running around in my head for over fifty years and still hasn't come true...

[JocelynJames]

I?m totally good with the way things are. Have to admit, it would be pretty great to not worry about beard cover any longer. But being a woman comes with a whole host of problems most men will never know . Men have their own as well, but I think the way things are is what makes dressing on my terms enjoyable and exciting.

[Snide_lobster]

No, I know the effort it takes to present as I like. Having to do that every day would quickly grow tiring.

[Maid_Marion]

Yes, I'd be able to wear sexy thongs!

[SophiaRose]

You bet! Up until the point of seeing how it would affect my wife and kids. They come first so alas, I would have to decline the gift.

[Stefanie Taylor]

If I knew up front, so could book a holiday, I'd love it for 2-3 weeks.

[NancySue]

I think it would be a very interesting experience and I like experiencing new things, like trying on new things, as long as there?s a switch back.

[April Rose]

I'm with Kim on the no wishful thinking, and with Bridget on the waking up thing.

[Cheryl T]

As a followup to my earlier comment.

I would be ecstatic!
I would probably run to the closet and the full length mirror and examine every inch of me.
I would probably run back to bed and do the same.

The next day I don't know what I'd do. LOL

[valerie anne]

I'm wearing a bra in bed tonight, just in case the boob fairy visits.

[Brynna M]

No. It would screw up a lot of my life to suddenly female and there are some very important things like being a father that I can't do the same way as a woman.

[Joanne Curl]

I would love the chance but not permanently. My wife would not stay and that wouldn’t work for me.

[Celine 9]

I would like to like to wake up as a woman and would do it on a temporally bias.

[sometimes_miss]

If I could do it starting from about age 13 onward, sure. But just switching from a homely old giant man, to a homely old giant woman, I think I'll pass. That's my sister's life, and it's not much different from mine now.

[Andrea Renea]

No, Id freak out if I just woke up one morning female...lol

It would be OK as someone else said if
I could turn it off and on at will.

[Crissy 107]

A nice thought but I would have to say no

[_jenni_]

I would pretend to be annoyed of the situation but would privately be excited it finally happened?If it were to happen tomorrow. If it would have happed years ago you wouldn?t be able to take the smile off my face.

[Cheryl T]

Seems we would all love the possibility, BUT ...
If we are dealing with the hypothetical then I'll vote for being a shapeshifter. Let me change back and forth as desired or needed. I already have the clothes LOL.

[alwayshave]

Sure I'd love to wake up as a woman. Would I like to stay that way is another question. Probably not.

[Jessica Secret]

Yes I would! I feel like many aspects of my life would be better if I was female, and I could be a real girlfriend to my boyfriend. To wake up as a woman without having to go through all of the surgery and steps to genetically became a woman? To look sexy in bikinis and lingerie? Yes please!

[Jane G]

Any age prior to 55 I would have said yes without a question. Then I finally accepted who I am. Today I would still be happy to wake up as a woman. But finally I am also happy to wake up each day as me. Those dreams I had since child hood, stopped after self acceptace.

[HelpMe,Rhonda]

I used to answer this question with the 'as long as I could switch back and forth' type of reply.

After actually getting around to trying it out medically and socially, yes, I am happy to wake up and spend the rest of the day and night this way.

[MistyCD]

Reading thru this reminds me of the story Joe Bates Saga where an industrial accident turns 3 men into 3 women overnight. Its a very long read and extremely detailed but well worth the read.

[CarlaWestin]

Since we are in fantasy land here anyway........

Hi Suzie. I chuckled when I read this and if you don't mind (of course you don't) I think I'm going to start a play along thread with that comment.

[DianeT]

As a grown up, everytime I imagined being an actual woman I figured I'd be a heterosexual one and that meant having sex with men and putting up with their jokes, and the fantasy quickly vanished with a 'pop' sound. As for having this fantasy as a teen, it mostly meant having breasts and looking hot, but at that time I didn't really forecast the implications of looking hot as a girl.

[Sharon budd]

A lot of women wake up as a woman, but sadly in cultures and societies which either repress or disrespect women. So I have to answer: it depends.

[BLUE ORCHID]

I really enjoy having the Best of Both Worlds,

[Maria 60]

I guess for myself it is trying to live a double life. I love being a male but I do enjoy having those dress like a princess days and fem moment. I enjoy both aspects.

[Melanie Therese]

I would love to have more feminine shape and boobs, but full woman is a no. I enjoy intimacy with my wife so not having that part of me is a deal breaker.

[MsEva]

Time is the key isn't it? Maybe forty or fifty years ago, yes I would have loved that. Waking up as a female. But time marches on and now I am pretty happy. I get to dress quite a bit in retirement. My wife has a really active social life. She knows about my dressing and has so for some thirty years. She is pretty cool with it. My wife and I are about to be grandparents for the first time. We are so happy! We painted the new nursery yesterday. Can't wait for our new grandchild to be born. I spent the morning refinishing my daughter's old toy box to fit with the new nursery. I can't complain. I wouldn't trade my position now for any other.

[sara66]

I would be fine if I were born a girl. However, I would not what to just wake up a woman. It would disrupt my whole life. It always sounds good but seldom meets our expectations.
Sara

[crobeson96]

Would my wife change, too? Not sure were our positions(?) reversed either of us would have picked the other LOL.

[Adelaide]

I've been dreaming about it since I'm a teenager! So my answer is yes....keeping my little extra!

[Christina89]

As some have stated if I can snap my fingers and change back and forth I most definitely would.

[Michelle_G]

Yes Please!

[Jasmine23]

Yes, as I think my personality would suit being female. As this is a fantasy I'd also like to be a good looking woman and that everyone else would think I had always been a woman, so that life could go on as normal.

[Sabine7]

To wake up as a woman? In a desired curvy female body? Yes, I would accept this as a gift, a delayed gratification for a mistake made when I was procreated. It has became clear to me after decades that I do crossdress because my female mind needs that. It is not an addiction but a natural need. There are lot of another needs, desires, fantasies to live as women do. I don't know if I am entitled to call myself a woman but my feminized mind does.

[kateydoe]

Oh my! Yes I would love that. I truly believe I?m stuck in this body and I need to be set free. I also have the woman feelings and desires.

[OrdinaryAverageGuy]

Thanks to Misty's suggestion I read the Joe Bates Saga, quite interesting! Long and drawn out, but a lot of good stuff in there.
Another story I thought about from this thread was Jack Chalker's Four Lords of the Diamond series, for sci-fi and fantasy fans out there. Each book is a different world, on one of them people swap bodies with whoever is sleeping near them each night. One day you're you, the next you're in your wife's body and she's in yours. I guess that would make everyone a CD?

[jessicacd43]

Yes yes yes

[Natalie5004]

I am not sure if I would like that. Because women with a very feminine shape gets a lot of attention. I think if they dress down, not to highlight it, less attention is attracted.

Can any guy here imagine what it would be like if it happens to them?

I guess I see too many video's.

[JulieC]

Natalie; exactly. I got the tiniest insight into that the first time a random person saw me (partially) en femme. I felt completely objectified in a very, very negative way (not that there's a positive way to be objectified). I'm not sure I would want that all the time every time I go out. Many years ago, I started dating a very nice young lady. We hit it off very well, really clicked. She wore baggy clothes all the time, nothing form fitting, nothing overtly feminine. I was in total shock the first time I saw her without her clothes on. She had an incredible figure, just awe inspiring. She told me about her fashion choices... she wore the baggy clothes because she was sick of the negative attention her body drew. My wife too has sometimes said being a woman is a pain because of the negative, objectifying attention her figure draws.

So yeah, it would be awesome to wake up a woman some day, but there are significant negatives to such a dream too.

[Kitty Sue]

No, I would not want to be a GG in today's world. Women are treated horribly. Far easier for me to just pretend I am one.

[Freddi]

Maybe like to see what a real woman feels like for a month or so but not permanently.

[Sabine7]

My desire to be a woman is so strong that I would pay the price even if it was high including being socially disadvantaged.

[Debs]

Yes, If Im ever single again, and touch wood it wont be for a while , while my good lady is alive, I would consider transition to end my days with a smile on my face.

[MarinaTwelve200]

I have always had very mixed feelings about that. I one way I think it would be GREAT and in another, it would be HORRIFYING. I suppose the latter would br more accurate, but the erotic aspect is very strong and might be the root of the positive reaction. I have read of polls that suggest that close to 90 percent of straight men would like to become a woman for a week or so, if only to see what it was like, PROVIDED they could change back. I agree with it too, so I suppose I am in the "Only if I can Change back" camp.

[Ann Smith]

What a sweet dream this would be, this awakening. Suddenly all my hidden away outfits and lingerie and heels and makeup would be out in the open, where they should be. Sigh.

[Sabine7]

And nobody would ask stupid questions seeing us fully dressed! Everything on its place all the time! Painted nails and toes, full makeup, long earrings, attached eyebrows.

[mollymulligan]

YES!

My wife said that its not all that fun being a woman but I would take all of it in a heartbeat and not look back

[prene]

If I had a 100% female body like my sisters yes and no.
YES
I would love having the same curves my sisters have they are busty(DD+)
also great sexy clothing I could wear
No
but lots of times they get the wrong attention. from guys
They also complain that about cramps every month for a few days.

I think yes

[BustyOlivia]

For me this would be a dream come true! So many dreams I?ve had about various scenarios in which it could happen. Even embarrassingly to admit, going to holistic book stones that had Wiccan sections and seeing if they had anything for someone like me.

[Jade P]

No I like being a man sometimes, but do love dressing, looking and feeling feminine.

[Mercedes]

Not while I am married . . . but if there was opportunity for a single day while not interfering with the marriage, in a different city, I would in a heartbeat.

[Linda E. Woodworth]

My wife and I have actually talked about this.

Of course I'd want the ability to change back and forth.

My wife demands that I remain female for 1 month.

I'd still do it with the above conditions.

[Sabine7]

Having my male parts replaced with female parts this would be a minor issue. Eventually, at my age the periods would have been long terminated. Things that are fascinating me in women the most are very unpractical. This is also true for walking in high heels, doing makeup, etc.

[WandaRae2009]

I don't know if I would say I'd be happy, because I know my wife would be extremely upset. However I would not be upset and more than willing to deal with it and go one with life as a woman.

[Glenda58]

In a heartbeat I wouldn't have to go thought all this to transition.

[kimdl93]

This thread has been lingering for a while. After long consideration, I decided to drop the pretense and admit that if miracles and hypotheticals were possible, I would be totally thrilled to wake up as a genetic woman. Maybe some day, gene therapy will be available to use CRISPR and tweak our genes. Would you do it? I would!

[StephanieLake]

For me, only if I could snap my fingers and return to my male self, and then back again at will.

That would be my wish if I ever found a genie. I'd love to be able to switch back and forth whenever I wanted.

[VivianNewkirk]

I'm in! Where do I find this magic elixir?

[Sallee]

Would it take all the fun out of CDing if I transitioned or went full time. I kind of think it would. Getting pretty would be the norm and probably become a pain. Putting makeup on in the car on my way to work I see many women doing Mascara at stop lights. I want time to admire the pretty lady staring back at me

[GraceH]

I've had that dream numerous times, and each time it felt right. I was disappointed when I woke up. Still, after such dreams, I put on a dress as soon as I got out of bed, still imagining the feeling in the dream that it was completely natural, normal and right.

[Richelle423]

It would be a dream come true. I would finally feel whole and complete.

[countrygirl]

Absolutely YES!

[Veronica Lacey]

Given that I don't know what the physiology of being a woman actually feels like - considering different hormones and different body events - I'm content to remain a male.

[LaSirenaBella]

I certainly wouldn't complain. Don't know about my wife, though.

[Maxine Smith]

Absolutely. Though I'd probably freak out a bit at first

[Kitty Sue]

When I was younger I thought being a woman would be fun. However, I was looking at being a woman primarily from a sexual standpoint. Now that I am older, married and have a daughter there is no way I would want to become a real lady. It seems in almost every society in the world women are treated far worse than men. It should go without saying that it's the men who are their greatest threat.
I have fun dressing up as a woman, but I have no desire to be a woman in reality.

[Joanne108]

I think I would initially enjoy having real breasts and a female body. But I know that I would still feel like a man. So while it might be fun, I am positive that I am a man not a woman.

[JennyMay]

I wouldld be pleased to wake up as a woman, but I would feel cheated. If it were possible for me to have the female body I have longed for all my life then why wait until i am nearly 70 years old.

[Celine 9]

I would like to wake up as a woman for a day, just for the fun of it.

[marilyn m]

if it wasnt for my family yes, if i could take a potion like in the film
dr jekyll and sister hyde and metamorphosize into a beautiful women that would be good

[AlicePetticoat]

I think I would enjoy waking up as a woman for a day. I also feel I would eventually miss my male body though after a couple days?

[Alexa502]

I would love to wake up as a woman.

[Bunty]

if it wasnt for my family yes, if i could take a potion like in the film
dr jekyll and sister hyde and metamorphosize into a beautiful women that would be good

That would be wonderful!

I have long loved that film.