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cd300
02-27-2025, 01:56 PM
Hello all my beautiful friends,
Jessica has been through a lot lately.
Right after Christmas she had a minor heart attack and was hospitalized for a few days. Other than an abnormal heart beat they have been unable to determine cause as all follow up tests were negative.
Jessica's soon to be ex wife moved out about a month later no warning. I got a new job offer and took it and myself and my 17 year old daughter have moved 100+ miles away from that area for new job.
Also through all of this I received physiological treatment as one PA in hospital said I had a broken heart that's why they can not find anything, this being from being with my wife for over 22 years and having her disown my daughter and my self in matter of weeks.
So through therapy and I mean lots of it in last 8/9 weeks I have realized I love being Jessica wether daily weekly monthly or less than that. And I will continue my life with her a part of it but I am no longer at this time looking to transition any more.
It was a knee jerk reaction to my wife saying she preferred Jessica over my male self and was now attracted to women. ( She lied to cover up her new man thinking I'd be less jealous of her leaving me for a woman) 🤯
So I will remain active and proud here. I am officially back to my high school weight 6 ft 202 lbs not as fit as then but working towards it.
I will be posting my first pics of Jessica in our new house soon. And best part is my Daughter accepts me no matter what so I do not have to hide.
Jessica side if the closet is nearly double that if my male side now 😆😆😆

I sincerely and I wholeheartedly mean I love all of you for everything you say and do to help me through my rollercoaster life. I couldn't be where I am at without my sisters here. .

Until next time
Hugs
Jessica Rose

Marketa
02-27-2025, 02:26 PM
Wow, that were wild and busy months. I'm glad having you back here and that you are finally in better place mentally, emotionally and literally physically.

I wish you and your daughter all the best and happiness.

Fiona_44
02-27-2025, 03:35 PM
Hang in there Jessica. Life will slowly get better and you will find yourself in a much better place.

docrobbysherry
02-27-2025, 03:51 PM
Maybe u r starting to realize u r better off without your ex? That's when I strarted climbing out of the depression I was stuck in when my ex left!:thumbsup:
Sherry helped me a lot then, too!:battingeyelashes:

So lucky she left your daughter with u. Hugs, GF!:hugs:

JesseVF
02-27-2025, 04:12 PM
Amazing - good for you in handling all that trauma! So great you are in a better situation and especially having your daughter?s support and acceptance.

Di
02-28-2025, 05:02 AM
That’s a lot
Here’s to a new chapter of life Jessica Rose ….you got this !

alwayshave
02-28-2025, 07:23 AM
Jessica, Sound like a lot of change. I'm glad you are dealing with it well.

Brynna M
02-28-2025, 01:57 PM
That sounds really awful. I hope the new job and new home will help you and your daughter heal.

BLUE ORCHID
02-28-2025, 06:19 PM
Hi Jessica :hugs:, That is a Very sad Story getting kicked when you are Down,

I am sure that Better days will be comig your way, >Orchid**O:daydreaming:O**

Jenn A116
02-28-2025, 08:37 PM
A really dramatic list of changes Jessica! Looking forward to catching up with you at our next meeting in just 2 weeks!

Crissy 107
02-28-2025, 09:48 PM
Hi Jessica, We are all pulling for you and your daughter, that is wonderful she accepts you for you.

bridget thronton
02-28-2025, 11:20 PM
Glad you survived your heart attack - hope life treats you and hour daughter well in your new home

Lana Mae
02-28-2025, 11:54 PM
Best wishes to you and your daughter! Now you can let yourself be yourself!
Hugs Lana Mae

cd300
03-01-2025, 07:37 AM
Thank you all for your kind words and encouragement. My main focus has been to make sure my daughter is good. Kinda hard when your own mother disowns you. She is resilient her therapist says. New life No wife lol New Job New house and New city. Mid life crisis list nearly checked off ������

Meg
03-01-2025, 10:41 AM
Jessica, So glad you are doing well. It seems that you are doing what is most important, taking care of yourself and your daughter. I for one, am so glad you have the support of your daughter. Wishing you both all the best as you navigate all the changes. Change is most often vital and necessary. Love, Meg