Hi honey!

[Stephanie47]

What I mean by that is "Am I being followed by my wife?" My wife is addicted to a tablet that a neighbor gave her. She sits for hours at the dining room table. I noticed when she had stepped away from the table and I was passing by that she had it open to a Reddit Crossdressing site with an article posted and being discussed about a guy picking his child up at school in full drag. I did not know my wife had any interest in reading such stuff as she is not supportive of my interests. Once, when I did step away from the computer with this site open, she made a comment that I should be more careful, less a visitor see it open. As I have said many times on this site, she has not said anything concerning my interests since the mid 1980's. Heck, now I don't have a clue if she visits here or is a member to get into the non-member pages. I've never had any crossdressing or trans site pop-up on my feeds, so I think she had to go hunting for it.

Again, Hi Honey! :)

Anybody suspect their non-supporting wife is trolling you?

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Stephanie :hugs:, That is very Interesting, Maybe there is a Crack in the Armor,

Keek us advised, >Orchid**O:daydreaming:O**

[Traci H]

Stephanie, you ask an interesting question. No conversation about cding in a very very long time, yet this.

My wife spends hours on her phone and her desktop. We each have our own of each of these. I don?t think she looks at any of this stuff as I believe she wants it to go away and pretend it never existed.

However, you bring up an interesting point. Perhaps one should do some checking from time to time, or might that be considered invasive. Hmmmm

Since I am the tech person here, I could easily do so. Have to dwell on that a bit. Since I believe we each should have our privacy, I probably would not make any invasive efforts to see. However seeing an open page is another thing of course.

[NancyTO]

Always clear your browser history or go In Private. :)

[Dutchess]

I'm on the reddit ones most days because those people are very honest about what goes on.
Very
No one denies this is sexual, they are very accepting of agp and open about it, no one claims to have been doing this since 6 weeks old and doesn't know what sex is etc
They are very honest. Nothing is censored or really of limits so people speak/ act very freely and you can really see what's going on in that lifestyle.

One thing I like about it is that, like I've said before, the general user is younger than the demographics here and you can see that.
They are far more concerned ( finally) about the so's dealing with this than the dressers and won't hesitate to put you in your place if you come on complaining about your so.

I'll leave it at that p

[Heather76]

I doubt my wife is trolling me. She doesn't care to talk about my CDing. Although she is accepting, she is not supportive. I do suspect she has likely read up on CDing to make sure I am what I say I am -neither gay, bi, or wanting to transition. I have no problem if she has tried to educate herself on the psychology of CDing. In fact, I'd be happy if she has. The fact she has eased up on some of her previous boundaries makes me think she has done some research.

[docrobbysherry]

How would she know u r u, Steph? Unless she knows you're name is Steph?:eek:

Otherwise, u have no pic posted. And, she'd spend a year going thru every member here's bio info. And, then only see your age and where u live!:devil:

What's your name on Reddit?:heehee:

[alwayshave]

Stephanie, My wife has been here. I don't think she has been in a long time. I also show her threads when I find them interesting. However, my wife is supportive of my dressing.

[Jillcder]

I wish I would love it if my wife trolled me on the Crossdressing sites I visit.

[danniUK]

I've actively encouraged my wife to join this site as a GG. There's nothing I say on here that I would want kept secret in any way, and I've always thought it might be a good way for her to get an insight into how other CDers and their partners handle things.
She hasn't so far though!

[Stephanie47]

How would she know u r u, Steph? Unless she knows you're name is Steph?:eek: :

She knows I come to this site because I had kept the browser open when I stepped away. I don't have a picture posted but it does indicate geographically where I am. If she were to peruse the comments in the first section that is open to all readers, there is sufficient hints. I am not a registered participants on any other sites, although I do drop a comment on occasion. What surprised me was the fact she had to make a concerted effort to seek out something cross-dressing related. Reddit just does not "pop-up." It doesn't bother me, if she was reading the comments here, mine and others. There really isn't anything objectionable posted. It's not that we do not discuss the current political environment of transmen and transwomen, it's she never makes a comment about me. And, surprisingly, since I started this thread one of her friends was over and she and my wife openly were discussing high school kids of the late 1960's and early 1970's who turned out to be trans or gay. She didn't even give me any sort of knowing look. I've always posted our marriage is a deep "Don't Ask, Don't Tell."

[April Rose]

if she made an effort to go on Reddit, she was asking.

[docrobbysherry]

Steph, why didn't u at least mention her on Reddit? Or, is that part of you're "don't ask, don't tell" pact?:sad:

I would be too curious NOT to ask about that?:straightface:

[DianeT]

Actually, - I - am trolling my wife here (she's a member) when I make allusions to her rolling her eyes about some bits I write here ('cause I know she will).
She reads everything I post and I read everything she posts. We often discuss it together.

@Stephanie it's nice to see that your wife finally takes some interest in the thing. It must be comforting for you.