marieclaire
04-10-2025, 03:08 PM
This article will address two topics that may be interconnected. Perhaps someone has dressed you, or wanted to dress you as a woman or girl? And maybe you didn?t accept it, but ended up regretting it? ? or not!
Sometimes, people don?t introduce crossdressing into their lives themselves ? it is introduced to them by other people. Imagine some hypothetical situations.
? When you were a child, your mother, sister or someone dressed you as a girl. Whether it was to take you to a party, as a punishment, for a bet, or just for fun. Or maybe you, now grown up, are a police investigator and your superior tells you to disguise yourself as a woman to work on a case. You enjoyed the experience, but you never admit that to anyone.
? Your school had a ?Womanless? event ? or your friends simply decided to have a ?sex change day? (where teenage students dress up as the opposite sex) and you were invited to participate. But you refused, even though you already like crossdressing.
? Someone wanted to put you in some lingerie: your mother lent you a pair of your sister?s panties because all your underwear was still in the wash; or when you were a teenager, she suggested a bra for your gynecomastia; or, years later, your girlfriend or wife asks you to try on some of her intimates because she has a fetish. And you come to a standstill: boys and men don?t wear lingerie.
But is masculinity so fragile that it can be compromised by simple items of clothing?
You may never have even thought about wearing something of the opposite sex until you were presented with one of the situations described above. You may like it and repeat the experience (even if secretly), or not. You may simply refuse out of fear and shame. Another situation is that you like crossdressing, but refuse to participate in events with the theme, out of fear and shame of doing it in public.
Generally, mothers who dress their sons as girls for parties, do not expect them to like feminine clothes so much that they would want to dress up at other times. Perhaps mothers who turned their sons into princesses to win a charity Womanless would freak out if they caught them wearing feminine things in another context. The ?problem? is that it was probably the mother herself who made her son discover this pleasurable hobby of wearing things of the opposite sex, when she put him in a dress, jewellery, shoes, makeup and even lingerie, so that he could win a simple contest. But the boy likes the experience and wants to do it again ? after all, Womanless parades do not happen every day ? but he needs to hide it, even from those who encouraged him to do it.
But what if you refused to participate in a Womanless parade or a school gender-reassignment day, when even the bullies in class dressed as girls?
On the one hand, you missed out on an experience that you might have enjoyed if you had never done it. Or worse, you missed out on an experience that you know you would have enjoyed, and that you could do in public without being frowned upon by society. But there is another side. You might have been ridiculed by the bullies (even if they were also dressed as girls). Plus, today we have the internet and social media ? it is normal for teenagers to post pictures of events they attend and things they see. Imagine, years later, your prospective girlfriend or boss checking you out online and finding pictures of you from 10 years ago, wearing a dress, wig and bra. That could be embarrassing.
Isn?t an easy choice. Either you miss out on enjoyment, possibly of something really amazing, or you could deal with a future problem.
In addition, there is the issue of masculinity. A boy may refuse to wear his sister?s panties even if his own underwear is dirty, for example. Underwear is for boys, panties are for girls. A teenager with gynecomastia may rebel if his mother or sister suggests he wear a bra. Bras are for girls. A man may even be suspicious of his girlfriend?s or wife?s intentions if she asks him to try on panties during an intimate or fetishistic moment. He may think that trying on panties is an attack on his masculinity.
But is someone?s masculinity so sensitive that it can be shaken by a simple piece of clothing? Not a real and strong masculinity; that wouldn?t stop someone from having this new experience.
On the other hand, if your sister finds out that you wear panties, she may use this against you. If you accept your wife?s challenge and start wearing panties during intimate moments, she may use this to attack you when your relationship is going through a difficult time.
There is no easy answer.
If in the past someone dressed you as a girl and you liked and enjoyed the experience, that was amazing. If in the past someone wanted to dress you as a girl or woman and you didn?t let them, even though you wanted to or were curious, don?t blame yourself. You had your reasons ? which, considering the society we have, are more than fair!
But remember: it is not a simple piece of clothing that defines your masculinity or who you are.
Do what makes you feel good.
? Have you ever been dressed as a woman or a girl by someone else?
? Have you ever had the opportunity to be dressed as a woman by someone, but didn?t accept? Why?
? If you could go back in time, would you now have accepted being dressed as a woman where you had previously been invited but refused?
Sometimes, people don?t introduce crossdressing into their lives themselves ? it is introduced to them by other people. Imagine some hypothetical situations.
? When you were a child, your mother, sister or someone dressed you as a girl. Whether it was to take you to a party, as a punishment, for a bet, or just for fun. Or maybe you, now grown up, are a police investigator and your superior tells you to disguise yourself as a woman to work on a case. You enjoyed the experience, but you never admit that to anyone.
? Your school had a ?Womanless? event ? or your friends simply decided to have a ?sex change day? (where teenage students dress up as the opposite sex) and you were invited to participate. But you refused, even though you already like crossdressing.
? Someone wanted to put you in some lingerie: your mother lent you a pair of your sister?s panties because all your underwear was still in the wash; or when you were a teenager, she suggested a bra for your gynecomastia; or, years later, your girlfriend or wife asks you to try on some of her intimates because she has a fetish. And you come to a standstill: boys and men don?t wear lingerie.
But is masculinity so fragile that it can be compromised by simple items of clothing?
You may never have even thought about wearing something of the opposite sex until you were presented with one of the situations described above. You may like it and repeat the experience (even if secretly), or not. You may simply refuse out of fear and shame. Another situation is that you like crossdressing, but refuse to participate in events with the theme, out of fear and shame of doing it in public.
Generally, mothers who dress their sons as girls for parties, do not expect them to like feminine clothes so much that they would want to dress up at other times. Perhaps mothers who turned their sons into princesses to win a charity Womanless would freak out if they caught them wearing feminine things in another context. The ?problem? is that it was probably the mother herself who made her son discover this pleasurable hobby of wearing things of the opposite sex, when she put him in a dress, jewellery, shoes, makeup and even lingerie, so that he could win a simple contest. But the boy likes the experience and wants to do it again ? after all, Womanless parades do not happen every day ? but he needs to hide it, even from those who encouraged him to do it.
But what if you refused to participate in a Womanless parade or a school gender-reassignment day, when even the bullies in class dressed as girls?
On the one hand, you missed out on an experience that you might have enjoyed if you had never done it. Or worse, you missed out on an experience that you know you would have enjoyed, and that you could do in public without being frowned upon by society. But there is another side. You might have been ridiculed by the bullies (even if they were also dressed as girls). Plus, today we have the internet and social media ? it is normal for teenagers to post pictures of events they attend and things they see. Imagine, years later, your prospective girlfriend or boss checking you out online and finding pictures of you from 10 years ago, wearing a dress, wig and bra. That could be embarrassing.
Isn?t an easy choice. Either you miss out on enjoyment, possibly of something really amazing, or you could deal with a future problem.
In addition, there is the issue of masculinity. A boy may refuse to wear his sister?s panties even if his own underwear is dirty, for example. Underwear is for boys, panties are for girls. A teenager with gynecomastia may rebel if his mother or sister suggests he wear a bra. Bras are for girls. A man may even be suspicious of his girlfriend?s or wife?s intentions if she asks him to try on panties during an intimate or fetishistic moment. He may think that trying on panties is an attack on his masculinity.
But is someone?s masculinity so sensitive that it can be shaken by a simple piece of clothing? Not a real and strong masculinity; that wouldn?t stop someone from having this new experience.
On the other hand, if your sister finds out that you wear panties, she may use this against you. If you accept your wife?s challenge and start wearing panties during intimate moments, she may use this to attack you when your relationship is going through a difficult time.
There is no easy answer.
If in the past someone dressed you as a girl and you liked and enjoyed the experience, that was amazing. If in the past someone wanted to dress you as a girl or woman and you didn?t let them, even though you wanted to or were curious, don?t blame yourself. You had your reasons ? which, considering the society we have, are more than fair!
But remember: it is not a simple piece of clothing that defines your masculinity or who you are.
Do what makes you feel good.
? Have you ever been dressed as a woman or a girl by someone else?
? Have you ever had the opportunity to be dressed as a woman by someone, but didn?t accept? Why?
? If you could go back in time, would you now have accepted being dressed as a woman where you had previously been invited but refused?