Finally Told My Wife

[Nathalia]

I'm really happy that i told my wife about me loving to wear pantyhose. Now I'm always excited wearing it with her knowing. It wasn't easy, my heart was racing when I told her but I am glad she was okay with it now it feels amazing having someone that knows I love to wear pantyhose. ❤️❤️

[cdinmd206]

Congratulations. Be very happy for what you have

[Suzie Petersen]

Good for you, Natalie!

[Kris Burton]

As it is said - the truth will set you free. Congrats!

[Nathalia]

Its all thanks to all of you, to this community, i built up the courage to tell my SO and now i feel really great being able to tell it to her ❤️

[Crissy 107]

Hi Nathalia, I am happy you had the talk with your wife, one of the great things about this site is the support we give each other.

[Maria 60]

I could only imagine that weight lifting off your shoulders. I remember when I told my wife and it was like the clouds lifted and the sky opened and the sun came in and I felt clarity. I'm so glad it worked out

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Natalie :hugs:, That is Fantastic, you are very lucky,

Be careful and Don't Overwhemh her with this Program, >Orchid**O:daydreaming:O**

[kimdl93]

Glad to hear that your revelation went down ok.

[docrobbysherry]

Great, Nat!:thumbsup:

But, what happens when u move up from "pantyhose" to the next CD step?:o

R u ok running every single new fem item by her?:battingeyelashes:

[Monique65]

So glad your SO is accepting. It is a blessing when someone we love accepts us as we are.

[Teri Ray]

Hi Nathalia, Best wishes to you and your wife as you work through all the details of your passion. Its never easy but once you guys get through the initial conversation it can get easier. You know better than anyone how much to discuss. Your throughs and desires need to keep her in mind.

[Jillcder]

Glad to hear it went well with your wife. I can tell you by experience its very difficult keeping the Crossdressing part of yourself a lifelong secret.

[Meg]

It is so nice things went well for you. The best thing I ever did was expose my desires for hose with my wife. She was not receptive to full out dressing, but allowed me hose and even suggested stockings and garters as an alternative. I just loved being able to come home from work and shower, shave and slip into hose before I prepared dinner for us. I did wear nightshirts and for me that was as good as being in a dress.

[NancySue]

You?ve absolutely done the right thing which I totally understand as I went through the same confession, betting she dash for the nearest door. She didn?t and said ?no problem?. She kinda suspected it because of my keen interest when she wore hose. Over the years, as you might guess, it?s progressed to which we?ve always had long, sometimes difficult, talks. Thank goodness she?s accepting. It?s wonderful.

[chelyann]

great news,
just dont go crazy or the door could close

[Raychel]

That is awesome Nathalia. Enjoy
It will be easier now that the ice is broken.
Just remember respect her thoughts, If it gets to bee too much for her
respect her wishes.

[Nathalia]

Thank you so much everyone for all these advice. Loving the support from all of you. docrobbysherry before I told her that i love wearing pantyhose she sometimes jokingly tells me to try some feminine clothes so i think from now on if she offers me to wear feminine clothes again i'll gladly accept her offer and maybe I can make my way up to being a full crossdresser from there. She is very accepting and i think she would love me to be in full femme ❤️

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Nancy i thought she wouldn't accept it actually but when i told her that i love wearing pantyhose/stockings she just smile and even offered me a pair to wear and i quickly put it on



Same meg now i always feel excited coming home knowing i can put on a my pantyhose. I'm actually checking online shops now for different kinds of pantyhose and will check with my wife what she would suggest for me

[Stephanie47]

I went back and read some of your comments and I have to ask when you're going to tell your wife about the rest of your femme wardrobe? Depending upon how one presents the desire to wear pantyhose it may go over easier than bra and panties. It is not uncommon for men to wear pantyhose for warmth in cold weather, if one has an outside job.

When my wife and I were first married we had incorporated nightgowns and hosiery into the bedroom on occasion. I think it her mind it went over as a little kink. It wasn't until our daughter yanked a vivid red Vanity Fair bra out of the bottom drawer of my armoire than "The Talk" precipitated. It did not go well.

[AlicePetticoat]

Very happy for you! Happy you felt the courage to tell your wife.

[CynthiaD]

I too love pantyhose. Congratulations!

[alwayshave]

Nathalia, That is wonderful. Enjoy your pantyhose.

[Mercedes]

Congrats Nathalia on a wonderful first step.

[Susan_Michaela]

Thank you so much everyone for all these advice. Loving the support from all of you. docrobbysherry before I told her that i love wearing pantyhose she sometimes jokingly tells me to try some feminine clothes so i think from now on if she offers me to wear feminine clothes again i'll gladly accept her offer and maybe I can make my way up to being a full crossdresser from there. She is very accepting and i think she would love me to be in full femme ❤️

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Nancy i thought she wouldn't accept it actually but when i told her that i love wearing pantyhose/stockings she just smile and even offered me a pair to wear and i quickly put it on



Same meg now i always feel excited coming home knowing i can put on a my pantyhose. I'm actually checking online shops now for different kinds of pantyhose and will check with my wife what she would suggest for me

Congratulations on your wife knowing about pantyhose. I just discovered a place to buy them pretty cheap. Yes it?s Amazon lol. I love leggs sheer energy and just got 4 pair delivered to my home and they ended up being only $5 a pair so $20 total 4 pair. Not sure what brand you use but they carry many brands colors and styles . Something to think about at least. Congratulations again I wish you and your wife the best and

[Debbie Denier]

Thats brilliant Nat.

[jjjjohanne]

When I first told my wife, I had stopped. I was dating her at the time. Back then, I lived with my parents, and I only had hosiery, because I could hide them. I had tried on other things. I don't recall if I told her about the other things that I might try on. Indeed, I felt like I told her the truth. She did not reject me, but she did not love the fact that I was a crossdresser on any level.

When I was married and started buying clothing, my wife knew about it. We had an arrangement that I could wear women's wear when I cleaned the bathroom. It was such a nice thing to be able to dress pretty around her. She started to express discomfort and I stopped dressing around her.

When I became brave enough to go out in public, she didn't know. One day, after a trip to a different town, she asked me, "How were you dressed?" I confessed that I wore a skirt. She became quite upset. Over time, I learned that she was worried about it progressing. She did not know where this was going to end.

I am not sure if she is more uncomfortable now than before... I seldom wear anything around her. Never in public. I have tried to keep open communication about it, but when she reacts with discomfort, I enter silent periods. We are aging and changing. I think I have fewer fears as I age. So, I take more "dangerous" risks. (Dressing where someone who knows me might run into me.)

...so, as a word of caution...

If you indulge too much into this opportunity with your wife, you might ruin it.
If you talk about it too much, you might ruin it.
If you hide it from her, you might ruin it.
If you confess everything, she will never be shocked or surprised by finding out something.
I don't know how much temperance is best. I don't know how much communication is best. I don't know... but there are risks of diving too deeply into the pink fog, and there are risks of deceiving her. If you betray a trust, then she will have a hard time getting over it.

Be good. Be honest. Be giving.

[Nathalia]

Thank you for sharing your experience when you told your wife johanne. Now i know where I'll set my limits with my dressing and be really careful in moving forward. As of now she's pretty accepting with me wearing pantyhose.