romantic relationships with men

[@tammileetilliso]

Hey everyone! I'm new here and I'm still learning the art of expressing myself in the way I feel most comfortable. One of the things that makes me super happy is exploring my feminine side through clothing, but I confess I'm still a little insecure when it comes to relationships...

I wanted to hear from you, who have more experience: what's it like for you to have romantic relationships with men? Is there a lot of pressure to "be less masculine" or "more feminine" in certain situations? Do you feel comfortable being yourself all the time, or do you feel like you need to "put on a persona"?

Translated from Portuguese by Google.

[Keremy]

First do you want to be with a man or do you just think you have to because you are a cross dresser? If you are just being with a man because you are a cross dresser do not. You will not enjoy it as much as you want and they probably will not either.

If you desire to be with a man enjoy yourself and be yourself the right persona is always you. I do not remember who said it but it is true. Be the best you you can be.

Hugs
Keremy

[char GG]

Be careful and upfront about who you are. You don't want any negative surprise reactions.

[docrobbysherry]

In my experience men r not romantic, but very direct. The one's I've met want oral action!:eek:

[CharlotteCD]

When the clothes come off you're just two blokes having gay sex.

That's something that people on both sides of the relationship may struggle with. The chaser because they're denying that they are attracted to men, and the CD because they have a dream they're a woman.

[Jasmine23]

I've never been with a man, not attracted to them, but, when I dress up I do fantasise about attracting men, as a form of validation of my feminine appearance when dressed, it would be the ultimate compliment for men to find Jasmine attractive, but, it's something that I personally would never do IRL, but, I have seen that some CDs do go through with this. Is it gay, kinda of, but, also kinda not, as the CD is presenting as a female often calling themselves sissies and stays in that role, the men are attracted to the femininity, but, also know the sissy is much more submissive and generally easier than women