Showing off to my therapist.

[Philippa Jane]

I went all out on visit to my therapist today.
I still go as The Greek Girl is still on my mind.
I only have one black halter top which is also a swim suit. I teamed this up with a very baggy pair of trousers also black. These had a rather wide and tight band which helped smooth out the waist line. I had teamed this all up with an off white wool jacket which I could fold over my overexposed breasts. The swimsuit is fine on the beach but perhaps not in polite company.

At the rooms I was ushered inside and instead of sitting down I asked my therapist to close her eyes as I had something to show her. Not to be outdone she went one better and put her hands over her eyes. I took my jacket off and faced her and said for her to open her eyes.
My bare shoulders are looking quite toned and my shape is good in my eyes. She told me that I looked very good........and then I turned around to show her my back with the tattoo.
I'd like to think she was suitably impressed and although she probably did get the significance to me she asked me to tell her anyway.

The woman is hanging her head in shame, embarrassment and at times disgust. Many of the emotions I have felt over my journey. The spreading of her wings is her rising above all of that and to begin a new life as a woman who had been hiding all of her life.

[VS Fan]

Love this! I wish I had gone to see my psychiatrist dressed when she was JUST my psychiatrist and not my primary care doc also (she’s in a new office that might be less conducive to my arrival that way lol)

Anyway this is awesome, glad it went well!

[JenninSC]

I always wanted to do this with my therapist but never had the nerve to do it.

[Marketa]

Thank you for sharing your experience, Philippa.

Actually I'm considering asking my psychiatrist in my next therapy if she'd be ok with me coming as Marketa for some of next sessions.

[CynthiaD]

Thanks for the post Philippa, I found it quite touching.

[Suzi Q]

Philippa,

In 2018 and 2019 I was seeing a therapist. She told me it was OK to come to the sessions dressed if I wanted to.

I would dress after I left my house and attend my sessions with her. Then whatever errands and shopping I needed to get done I would remain dressed until I had to go home.

I would wear some type of blending outfit and a couple of times she asked if I wanted her to take a photo and here are a couple.

Basically she said she didn't think I needed to continue seeing her since I was comfortable with my feelings and was able to interact as a female in the general public.

(I can't remember the exact words she used)

Suzi Q

[docrobbysherry]

I imagine she asked u, "So, when r u coming out to everyone?":battingeyelashes:

[Philippa Jane]

VS fan. Kelly
From my very first visit to my therapist back in 2021 I went as Philippa. Each appointment I enjoyed going wearing something different. That was more of a buzz than the sessions but I came to really enjoy them.

Jennin SC. I always thought it appropriate to see her as the person I wanted to be. They are not there to judge you. It might be a little challenging at first but it helps one to be able to open up. But, hey we are all different.
Marketa. You look every part the woman we have seen here. I am curious that you feel you need to ask permission.

Thank you Cynthia. I have felt a little awkward at first describing those feelings.

Suzi Q. I love the photo of you in the lemon dress. That looks so natural. Lisa has never offered to take a photo but I do enough of that myself.

Sherry. Ah, I love the humour. Right on point. LOL

[JesseVF]

Both my previous therapist ( remote video) and current in person therapist have/had no problem with me presenting as I wished. Besides just enjoying the freedom to dress as I want I feel it makes it easier to discuss my issues.

[alwayshave]

Philippa, You are braver girl than I. Good for you.

[JohnH]

Since I wear trousers ONLY if I have to (last time, 2023 late September to my mother's funeral) I have been wearing dresses exclusively. That includes shopping, church, etc., and also to doctor appointments. Health care professionals have seen everything so it's no big deal to them. I have even flown en femme undef my name John, and it was not any big deal at all.

John

[Philippa Jane]

Yesterday I went to a function at a rooftop bar at the Hilton Hotel. The 18th floor has wonderful views all around the balconies.
A number of the friends I was to meet knew of my new artwork and I was only a little embarrassed at first to show it off.
Because of the little top I went braless and I was a bit coy at first. The ladies were looking at the tattoo first and maybe the men looked elsewhere.
I was asked about the symbolism only once which I was grateful for. As much as I am open about my transition there are still some things I prefer not to say too much about unless we are friends.

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