Cool

[@tammileetilliso]

What are the coolest and most enriching things about being in a relationship as a crossdresser? What makes it worth facing the challenges?
Translated from Portuguese by Google.

[JocelynJames]

I especially enjoy shopping ?for women?s clothing , with my wife. Whether online or an actual brick and mortar store. She?s taught me a lot about foundational pieces and getting deals. We can?t really share clothing though as I?m much larger.

[chrissy111]

For me it's the Love, acceptance, and guidance that my wife gives me. Being my wife's wife has been one of the highlights of my life.

[DianeT]

It mostly brings difficulties in the couple. Sure, it creates opportunities for acts of love, but these acts are responses to issues we would never have had without CDing in the picture. I can hardly picture any wife of a CDer saying that she'd take a crossdressing husband again if she had a chance to start over. At any rate I am sure my wife wouldn't. I love crossdressing, but I don't like what it puts on my wife's shoulders (for the record I told very, very late into the relationship).

[OrdinaryAverageGuy]

I don't think it adds anything positive to the relationship. It's an extra hurdle, it's secrets kept from others, it's the possibility of embarrassment, it's extra money spent on clothes that I really didn't "need". But she loves me and is happy to deal with all of it. There are worse secrets out there, I could be abusive, could be on drugs, etc. The only good side I can think of for her is I don't complain when she goes out and buys clothes for herself, because I get why she needed that cute shirt when she already has a closet full of cute shirts.

[Marketa]

I don't know about cool and enriching, but one positive is, that she knows we don't wear her bras and panties secretly, because we've got our own.

[Kris Burton]

Might be unique to mu situation, but recognizing that for all the trials, tribulations and challenges my wife and I have encountered over our 44 year marriage, my CDing has not been one of them.

[AmyJordan]

For me its being absolutely adored by my beautiful wife and although our relationship is odd and in some aspects she can be very strict in imposing her determination for me to live as her wife instead of her husband I know she loves me intensely as do I her. It makes everything I do to please her worth it.

Amy x

[bridget thronton]

I suppose shopping with my wife

[April Rose]

My wife knew I was in the trans spectrum from the day we met. She sees it as a feature, not a bug. The fact that she is less conventional than I am, and encourages me to push my boundaries is kind of thrilling, after a lifetime of dipping my toe in the waters.

[Gi Gondin]

We talked a bit last night about the importance of CDing in our relationship. We believe it takes a lot of trust and openess to share this level of intimacy. Our mariage would not last a week without it. She only have urges, not a single purge! And believe it or not, she has pink fogs! As challenges I believe at first was leveling up the understanding of how CD would work for us as a couple and nowadays how to store a second feminine wardrobe and so many pair of heels!��

[docrobbysherry]

Good question? Wearing/sharing each other's clothes?:heehee:

[Jessica Secret]

For me it's being able to dress in front of my boyfriend and have him tell me how beautiful I look which is validating, and also trust that he's not the least bit uncomfortable with my dressing. Having a SO who supports me emotionally makes me feel really safe and comfortable while dressing. Plus shopping online together and getting his advice about whether he thinks something would look good on me is a lot of fun also. :)

[@tammileetilliso]

The key to a good relationship and happiness is this complicity you mentioned. Congratulations. Be happy.

[Rochal Tukque]

Just being able to be myself.

[BiancaEstrella]

It mostly brings difficulties in the couple. Sure, it creates opportunities for acts of love, but these acts are responses to issues we would never have had without CDing in the picture. I can hardly picture any wife of a CDer saying that she'd take a crossdressing husband again if she had a chance to start over. At any rate I am sure my wife wouldn't. I love crossdressing, but I don't like what it puts on my wife's shoulders (for the record I told very, very late into the relationship).

The absolute only type of man I would choose to be in a relationship with is one who crossdresses, in this lifetime and every one I got to choose my role in ever after. I want to be that safe, affirming, and loving partner.

I just need to find my crossdresser!

[Sabine7]

I did once try en femme to have an act of love with my wife. It did not work. However, I always continue to imagine I am a woman when doing that.