View Full Version : Taking It A Step Farther Everyday
tightsgirl
04-24-2006, 03:32 PM
I'm sick of hiding who I am or what I am, I shave my legs regularly almost everyday and have no intention to quit for the summer. If I'm gonna wear shorts and its cool I'm gonna wear hose too. They are gonna notice the shaved legs so why not come out already.
I have become brave and have no inhibitions about buying clothes in the store anymore, and when I go on vacation i'm gonna hang out in TV bars and dress as a women for Halloween. To some of you this my seem like no big deal because you are already there, but for me these are crucial steps a little at a time.
Sharon_Rose
04-24-2006, 03:51 PM
Welcome to liberation! You should be what you want to be. It takes courage to take the step you took.
tightsgirl
04-24-2006, 03:55 PM
Thanks i spent my whole life pleasing others its time to start pleasing myself
Annaliese
04-24-2006, 04:02 PM
I'm sick of hiding who I am or what I am, I shave my legs regularly almost everyday and have no intention to quit for the summer. If I'm gonna wear shorts and its cool I'm gonna wear hose too. They are gonna notice the shaved legs so why not come out already.
I have become brave and have no inhibitions about buying clothes in the store anymore, and when I go on vacation i'm gonna hang out in TV bars and dress as a women for Halloween. To some of you this my seem like no big deal because you are already there, but for me these are crucial steps a little at a time.
I feel the same way as you do, I have yet to dress for Halloween. I take a little step every so offten and when I look back I have come so far. May be this is the year to dress for Halloween.
Anna
Sharon_Rose
04-24-2006, 04:07 PM
Most people will see what they expect to see unless you call undo attention to yourself. If they see a feminine outfit, they think woman and just continue on their way. If someone looks at you longer than just a passing glance, smile at them and keep doing what you were doing.
It is seldom personal anymore. No one stops to talk unless they know each other. No one seems to care what goes on about them as long as it doesn't
interfere with them.
Example: A TV station did a mock kidnapping. A little girl was approached by a man and was grabbed by the arm. She was screaming that he wasn't her father and was yelling for help. Can you believe that no one stopped. Most just put their heads down and kept going. Only a little boy noticed but his father took his hand and kept going.
Actually, we can use this to our advantage when we dress and go out.
Good shopping!!!
Joy Carter
04-24-2006, 04:13 PM
Nobody can live your life for you babe just don't get hurt in the process.
Love and Hugs Joy
Siobhan Marie
04-24-2006, 04:40 PM
Nobody can live your life for you babe just don't get hurt in the process.
Love and Hugs Joy
I couldn't agree more, you only get one shot at life, live it the way you want and be who want to be. Thats what I've decided to do, its what I need to do. There's the real me and Anna and they make me who I am. You go girl.
Hugs Anna x
miss_sarah
04-24-2006, 06:05 PM
Example: A TV station did a mock kidnapping. A little girl was approached by a man and was grabbed by the arm. She was screaming that he wasn't her father and was yelling for help. Can you believe that no one stopped. Most just put their heads down and kept going. Only a little boy noticed but his father took his hand and kept going.
Actually, we can use this to our advantage when we dress and go out.
Good shopping!!!
I saw that report too, how saddening that was :( It does reinforce that most people will avoid confrontation at all costs, though... everything has pros and cons I guess!
tightsgirl -- Hooray for you!!! :) Even small liberating experiences can seem to totally change your outlook on life... I love that! :D Happy to hear these success stories, from small to large.
tightsgirl
04-27-2006, 02:28 PM
I saw that report too, how saddening that was :( It does reinforce that most people will avoid confrontation at all costs, though... everything has pros and cons I guess!
tightsgirl -- Hooray for you!!! :) Even small liberating experiences can seem to totally change your outlook on life... I love that! :D Happy to hear these success stories, from small to large.
Thanks, still moving forward, besides my legs look too damn good to hide under pants all summer!:D
Penny
04-27-2006, 02:33 PM
I'm sick of hiding who I am or what I am, I shave my legs regularly almost everyday and have no intention to quit for the summer. If I'm gonna wear shorts and its cool I'm gonna wear hose too. They are gonna notice the shaved legs so why not come out already.
I have become brave and have no inhibitions about buying clothes in the store anymore, and when I go on vacation i'm gonna hang out in TV bars and dress as a women for Halloween. To some of you this my seem like no big deal because you are already there, but for me these are crucial steps a little at a time.
It's NIKE TIME! Just do it! For me, most every day is Halloween.
HaleyPink2000
04-27-2006, 02:56 PM
Nice for you Hun. Hope all goes well for you in the future! :)
Teresa Amina
04-27-2006, 05:00 PM
dress as a women for Halloween
How about dressing as a woman dressing for Halloween? What would your girly self wear to a Halloween party?
Joy Carter
04-27-2006, 05:03 PM
A bar room gurl from the old West. :)
Teresa Amina
04-27-2006, 05:05 PM
A bar room gurl from the old West. :)
Sorry, Joy, that one's mine!:D
tightsgirl
04-27-2006, 05:30 PM
How about dressing as a woman dressing for Halloween? What would your girly self wear to a Halloween party?
Schoolgirl
Teresa Amina
04-27-2006, 05:32 PM
Schoolgirl
Now you've got something to plan for!:D
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