Big Steps Update......

[janelle]

Morning girls. Well lastnight went very well. Someone said we should talk first & i would like to say we did that a long time ago. My wife is just slow to accept me this way. Anyways, i finished in here & said to her i was coming out dressed if it was ok, do what you want was her reply. She looked me over good, but didn't say a word. My thoughts were oh no. We ended up having a nice night together & this morning she sent me a e-mail saying my outfit was cute.
Lastnight i thanked her for not running off & hiding someplace or asking me to go up stair by myself. Wonderful is all i can say. My plan is to do this off & on for sometime now until she is comfortable with it & then add more,wig, & finially make-up. I can see her coming around but it is slow. I love her so & i will give her all the time she needs.
I thank all you girls here as you have given me courage to do more than i ever thought i could. Please give yourselves big hugs from me, your great. I hope you all have a wonderful day & weekend, but should be able to say that later as i will be here. Love you all, take care.
Hugs & kisses,
Janelle

[Annaliese]

Morning girls. Well lastnight went very well. Someone said we should talk first & i would like to say we did that a long time ago. My wife is just slow to accept me this way. Anyways, i finished in here & said to her i was coming out dressed if it was ok, do what you want was her reply. She looked me over good, but didn't say a word. My thoughts were oh no. We ended up having a nice night together & this morning she sent me a e-mail saying my outfit was cute.
Lastnight i thanked her for not running off & hiding someplace or asking me to go up stair by myself. Wonderful is all i can say. My plan is to do this off & on for sometime now until she is comfortable with it & then add more,wig, & finially make-up. I can see her coming around but it is slow. I love her so & i will give her all the time she needs.
I thank all you girls here as you have given me courage to do more than i ever thought i could. Please give yourselves big hugs from me, your great. I hope you all have a wonderful day & weekend, but should be able to say that later as i will be here. Love you all, take care.
Hugs & kisses,
Janelle
Janelle that is great, you need to send her flowers.

Anna

[CharleneCD]

I am happy that things went so well for you and your wife. It sounds like you are doing it right in taking things slow with her. But hey slow or not, what a positive first step. With that, given time and love, anything is now possible for your future. Here's to more positive steps.

[Caitlintgsd]

...... We ended up having a nice night together & this morning she sent me a e-mail saying my outfit was cute......

That's sooo cool! I'm very happy for you. :happy: I'd have to suggest that you take small steps with her so that she doesn't feel overwhelmed by the "new you" though. IMHO.

[CharlaineCadence]

you should send her flowers and a card saying that you are open to what ever secret she might wish to share with you as she was with you.

[Billijo49504]

Fantastic, I'm glad things went so good. Especially the emailed compliment. Sometime, when you're dressed, you might ask her for some advice on doing your makeup. Even if you're good at it...BJ

[DonnaT]

That's good to hear Janelle.


My plan is to do this off & on for sometime now until she is comfortable with it & then add more,wig, & finially make-up. I can see her coming around but it is slow. I love her so & i will give her all the time she needs.

Ask her to be honest with you with respect to her comfort level. My wife is somewhat comfortable after 30 years, but when it comes to the wig and makeup, she hates it. Lucky for me I don't need to wig and makeup to feel contended.

[stephanie100]

I dont always wear wig and make up around the house. Great news a bunch of red roses would be nice wih a card.
Steph

[janelle]

Yes i think you Ladies are right, she works on friday so i think i will have some flowers sent to her there. A thank you from me & it will be something to brighten her worset day of work.
You gals are so wonderful, i thank you with all my heart. Take care.
Janelle

[EricaCD]

Sounds like you have picked a very sensible course of action, and I am delighted to hear it is going so well. Very best of luck to you and your wife!

Erica