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Jill
04-30-2006, 04:38 PM
So what I want to know is, what is your most essential dressing item? For me it's pantyhose, couldn't dress without it, it's my favorite. I hope that I covered the important things, if your option isn't here, please say what it is.

Tina Dixon
04-30-2006, 04:46 PM
Bra, how am I going to keep my breast forms in place:D

Faye Emmette
04-30-2006, 04:46 PM
Can be in dullo clothes:thumbsdn: or comfy clothes:thumbsup: . Start with the basics and work your way from there.

nikisbest
04-30-2006, 04:55 PM
I put lingerie, I don't think I could do it without panties and bra.
The bra is my favorite article, so femme and love the feel.
Niki

Meag
04-30-2006, 04:57 PM
Due to the after affects of prostate cancer, I wear stretch nylon panties and because of diabetes that causes legs to swell, I wear support hose 24/7. So I have to say it is lingerie that really makes me feel efemme. Silky slips and cami's is where I start.

Meag

Toyah
04-30-2006, 05:07 PM
At the risk of going a bit off thread there is nothing I feel essential for me to dress it deprnds on the outfit I guess but I do hate bras

Helen MC
04-30-2006, 05:09 PM
Knickers!

bredalee25
04-30-2006, 05:09 PM
actually all the items are to me but I chose bra cuz without boobs you look like a boy in a dress thats just my thoughts on this ttfn

Kate Simmons
04-30-2006, 05:55 PM
Jill, I voted for "other", meaning coffee in the morning or a beer at night. The rest of 'em I can fake if I have to. Take care, Ericka

barbie lanai
04-30-2006, 06:03 PM
I need it all, but a bra is a must have to start with.

Karren H
04-30-2006, 06:05 PM
For me it's everything!!! Isn't crossdressing unless I create the total package.

Love Karren

carolbitv
04-30-2006, 06:12 PM
i love to dress fully. but when i can love to wear bra and forms ,panties garter belt and stockings. Carol

Jacquelinecd21
04-30-2006, 06:56 PM
A nice pair of sexy high heels and a silkie pair of pantyhose makes the whole outfit for me. Without out that I feel that I am not completly dressed. Sometimes I walk around wearing pantyhose and heels with my male side.

Teresa Amina
04-30-2006, 07:45 PM
Tough one! I feel incomplete without my hair, and veronica gives me hips, but as Tina wrote you've got to have the bra to keep your forms in place. Of course you could use that adhesive so maybe I didn't choose the right option!

VERONICARH
04-30-2006, 08:25 PM
I think all of the items are important. but I think that a woman in pantyhose makes her look very femme. Veronica

Tina Dixon
04-30-2006, 08:29 PM
Tough one! I feel incomplete without my hair, and veronica gives me hips, but as Tina wrote you've got to have the bra to keep your forms in place. Of course you could use that adhesive so maybe I didn't choose the right option!

I still got chest hair so sticky stuff is out.

Kristen Kelly
04-30-2006, 09:05 PM
For me it's everything!!! Isn't crossdressing unless I create the total package.

Love Karren

Same here If I dont do my nails or put on jewlery I feel something is missing

sparks
04-30-2006, 09:16 PM
I need a bra to feel dressed. I feel it is the most femme thing going.

Butterfly Bill
04-30-2006, 09:21 PM
About the only thing out of that list is some kind of shoes, but not necessarily heels. My feet are too tender for city sidewalks and greasy parking lots. Don't really need any of the undergarments, I can go regimental.

jackie
04-30-2006, 09:21 PM
i like to start nude ,and work up from that,,Jackie

Barb Valentine
04-30-2006, 09:46 PM
I'd say a bra I just like the way it feels

Jacqui
04-30-2006, 10:07 PM
what is your most essential dressing item?

For me, it's a bra. It's the one item that most women need.

Mistybtm
04-30-2006, 10:32 PM
For me it's everything I agree with that totaly But i do like it simple at time's
bra dress panties and hose of any type are the basics for me.
Misty:happy:

Danielle
04-30-2006, 10:57 PM
Stockings and a garter belt fire up the crossdresser flames 4 me..Oh yeah!

Deanna2
04-30-2006, 11:03 PM
There should have been a category with skirt or dress and I would have checked that box.

I wear panties, pantiyhose and camisoles as everyday wear so they don't really count as dressing up. However, when I put on a skirt then I feel as though I am dressed en femme. A bra, heels and a wig make it better, but I am happy enough just wearing a skirt.

Miriannah
05-01-2006, 04:07 AM
Definitely the shoes for me, although really, everything combined is what makes it 'the real deal' to me.

Caitlintgsd
05-01-2006, 04:12 AM
Occasionally I go out in capri's so a skirt or dress wouldn't be on my list. And as I don't use forms sometimes I don't wear a bra. And with my hair growing longer and summer on the way I'm thinking about ditching wigs as they're a bit warm during the day. So I guess the only consistent for me are Panties and blingbling.

Ambercd12
05-01-2006, 04:15 AM
other because you need clothes if you want to go outside

jerseycarla
05-01-2006, 11:47 AM
Bra, without a doubt.

Jill
05-01-2006, 12:29 PM
I see now that I should have included skirts and dresses or clothing in general.

Kate Simmons
05-01-2006, 12:41 PM
other because you need clothes if you want to go outside
Now why on earth would we of all people need clothes silly? LOL Ericka

Ellie
05-01-2006, 12:41 PM
I voted for pantyhose but I recently noticed how much better I felt with heels on as well.

KerriAnn
05-01-2006, 01:31 PM
Like any architect will tell you, you've always got to start with a good foundation. So for me it's the lingerie whether it's just panties for when I am in drab or the full works with forms, bra, panties, stockings and slip for that extra special moment around the house.

assley
05-01-2006, 01:54 PM
bra panties and panyhose for me

Casey Morgan
05-01-2006, 02:03 PM
For me it's panties. I can wear sleepwear to bed and don't need a bust to feel dressed. Everything else listed is a second layer. They can play up the "fashion" angle all they want, but I never feel dressed when I'm wearing mens fashion briefs (en femme that is).

allisonrn06
05-01-2006, 03:21 PM
Definitely pantyhose but heels are a close second.I love all of it though.

Leslie16
05-01-2006, 03:37 PM
bras, panties, pantyhose, you can all do without if you have to. But unless your hair is long, you aren't a girl until you put on the wig!

Pink Satin Sissy
05-01-2006, 03:47 PM
Lingerie and a dress
Lingerie and heels
Lingerie and lingerie (my fav)

Pink

Kathryn
05-01-2006, 03:56 PM
Bra and panties do it for me. Even if i have to wear drab over them I am well started
Kathryn:love:

Ashley in Virginia
05-01-2006, 05:19 PM
Cocaine. I do a line or two and I am good to go.

Sam-antha
05-01-2006, 05:24 PM
Bra goes on first, I think. Maybe it is the panties, if tucking and taping then it is panties definitely, if not a thong..... so there.

Lilith Moon
05-01-2006, 05:56 PM
I didn't vote because my essential item was not there...bodyshaper/padding to give me a femme figure.

suzanne claire
05-01-2006, 06:06 PM
The only way to dress is to be a complete fully well dressed woman:evil:

Clare
05-01-2006, 06:52 PM
For me, it has to be pantyhose as I hate having bare legs at anytime. Nothing worse than wearing a nice skirt or dress with no hose on the legs! Simply, hose provide a nice look and style to the legs in addition to warmth in the Winter months.

MelindaC
05-01-2006, 07:12 PM
Girdle and stockings, followed by bra and slip ---- everything else is built on those basics

TGMarla
05-01-2006, 07:30 PM
Y'know, it's more a question of what can I do without when I dress? I like it all. I like the skirts, tops, and dresses. I like the hosiery and high heels. I like the jewelry and the makeup. I like the long hair and "having" breasts. So what do I do without? I usually dress when I have the time, and usually put it all on when I dress.

What's a girl to do? :idontknow:

bob_bobbi
05-01-2006, 07:41 PM
Skirts for the win!

Tina P Hose
05-01-2006, 09:35 PM
Tina must have her pantyhose, but a bra is nice as well, and tina must have a mirror !

Siobhan Marie
05-02-2006, 02:56 PM
I put panties, but for me is dressing in what femme clothes I have.

Hugs Anna x

Sharon86
05-02-2006, 03:31 PM
i voted for lingerie, as that was the first items i enjoyed wearing as they were easier to get, however, now that i have a good sized wardrobe and more shoes than my wife, i want to be dressed from top to toe now, and i find ( my wife too) that it calms me down and relaxes me, BONUS. Love sharon.:happy:

Maria-Christina
05-02-2006, 03:47 PM
Tights to show off my shapely legs.

Maria

tacal
05-02-2006, 06:05 PM
I never dress without panties, femme or drab.:D

Candy Heels
05-02-2006, 08:27 PM
Stockings and Stilettos:)

black leotards
06-16-2006, 05:46 PM
Tights, tights and more tights of course ... opaque, lacy, striped or plain ... bring them on. Too bad it's so hot in the summer :(

Allison Vamp
06-16-2006, 09:20 PM
i had to pick accessories, because for me, it's makeup, i couldn't do without, i'm surprised it's not a category.

caffine
06-16-2006, 09:37 PM
bra panties and garter/stockings i have to feel femme under neath

Michelle Ellis
06-16-2006, 10:10 PM
I voted "other" because for me it's doing my hair :p I didn't vote accesories/wig because my hair is real :)

I have long straight sandy-blonde hair. When I'm in drab (I hope that's the right term) it's usually tied in a more masculine pony-tail with the same ol' worn baseball cap that I always wear.

But when I do my thing, my hair gets the absolute most attention :) I like to read about new hair styles and do the how-to's, but I usually fail misserably :p a lot of hair styles are so complex without help. So I usually end up in some kind of bun, top pony tail, pigtails (ooh I love pigtails :luvu: ) or something else I can do well :)

Maria2004
06-16-2006, 11:57 PM
Most essential items are 3 fresh Shick Super Slim razors a can of Aveeno "Positively Smooth" shave gel, and tweezers. After that one of my wigs, and shoes of course, as Butterfly Bill pointed out shoes pretty much a requirement if you don't want to ruin your pedicure :winking: The remaining items I pretty much have no use for and try and avoid if at all possible.

belinda
06-17-2006, 12:42 AM
Well it will be slips for me then(What a surprise i hear you all shout!)

Alison Michelle
06-17-2006, 12:43 AM
Gota go with panties, all day, every day.

Tanya K
06-17-2006, 03:53 AM
Love Pantyhose just something so hot about them:D

CharlaineCadence
06-17-2006, 04:53 AM
I cant dress with out me. lol
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kiss kiss
char

Khriss
06-17-2006, 05:01 AM
..is usually a "finishing touch" ..
I prefer to dress completely whenever I can...:happy: xx"K"

Angela Burke
06-17-2006, 05:22 AM
Some nice underwear (including a slip!), a skirt and blouse, stockings or tights, not too high heels.

Laurie_Ann_CD
06-17-2006, 06:45 AM
It has to be the bra for me. I just love how it looks on me.

Veronica E. Scott
06-17-2006, 07:31 AM
A bra,panties ,panty hose/nylons,without these essentials I don't consider myself dressed,everything else is excessories.

Eileen
06-17-2006, 09:03 AM
Jill you needed another catagory, all of the above! When I dress,to go out, I feel like I am a woman and dress fully. As I get older, it gets more important to be as feminine as I can be. My urge to be a f/t woman is gettng so strong!

Eileen

Slip Affinity
06-17-2006, 09:53 AM
I voted for lingerie. That's all inclusive of bras, panties and my absoulute favorite .... SLIPS, SLIPS and did I mention SLIPS?

Connieminiskirts
06-17-2006, 04:10 PM
I said other because I dont always "need" all the 'frills' sometimes I feel dressed when I have on a thsirt and a nice lil Miniskirt!! The rest just makes it so I can out!

Sally24
06-17-2006, 04:22 PM
As I guy you could call me a "face man" as that was the most important feature of a woman to me. As a CD that translates into my needing the face and head to be just right. I don't get into the groove until my face is made up all the way and my wig is styled properly. I occasionally try on clothes without this when I'm in a hurry. Those times are not anything like my usual dressing sessions.

My usually progression is: breasts (forms and pocket bra), hip (pads and panty hose), skirt and top, shoes, make-up then wig and jewelry. Then the fashion show starts as I try on combinations of new and old clothes.

jenny_cheerleader
06-17-2006, 07:58 PM
Boots! Boots! Boots!

Jannette H
06-18-2006, 12:19 AM
All or nothing. Do it up right and step out as a lady:love:

Jannette H:yrtw:

older not wiser
06-18-2006, 03:17 AM
Hi Jill, Some of the other girls have said "all of the above" I gotta" for that catagory. All the choices are necessary of course, but if I had to choose one I would have to go with pantyhose. For me I don't consider myself dressed unless I wear pantyhose. BTW, you have great legs, wanna' trade?

Love; BonnieAnne:GE:

Bernice
06-18-2006, 10:16 AM
Underdressing just isn't dressing to me. And, of course, a person could go out in public without underwear of any kind. Yes, of course, given enough time, I also prefer to be all dolled up. But the question was about the most essential. For me, its something that would help gain me admission to a restaraunt (no shirt, no shoes, no service etc.) but that does NOT have legs. For me, that would be a dress or skirt, because heels or sandals alone just don't do it for me, and I just hate pants.

Other points about the bra won't apply to me because my foam breasts will usually stay put pretty well under knit clothing, without a bra.

Then again, I went swimming in a one-piece at a public lake once, and was not wearing a dress, so maybe I am a liar, or maybe there is no honest absolute answer.

At this very moment, I'm in a knit pullover shirtdress and sandals, with no forms, no wig, no makeup, and just drab underwear. So I'm a very LAZY crossdresser sometimes. :hugs:

seanmc
06-18-2006, 12:33 PM
I don't feel right unless I have heels on. But with heels, comes hose. Can I vote twice??

carend_99
06-18-2006, 08:30 PM
For me it's the lipstick. I can get all dressed up, put my wig and other makeup on, but I'm not complete until I put the lipstick on.

Sweet Susan
06-19-2006, 12:33 AM
This poll should have more than one option.

madylinecd
06-19-2006, 12:52 AM
stretch lace garter belt,:love: with lace top stay up suspender stockings,
and then some sexy lingerie
and then high heels
and then some more cattergories to choose from cause i could choose them all
and then a bra and then some panties and then a wig and some make up

carol anne
06-19-2006, 12:29 PM
:rolleyes: I voted for "others" because to me dressing means dressing completely and none of the categories included outer clothing such as skirts, dresses or suits. When I dress I always feel I should dress completely.

Dixie Darling
06-19-2006, 01:53 PM
I have to go along with Karren Hutton, TG Marla, Allison Vanp, Khriss, Sally24, carend_99, and madlinecd on this one so I voted "Other". First and formeost I'm a "face man" so I spend a lot of time and effort on makeup and hair. Not that ALL the rest isn't important, but a woman's face and how she's done her makeup (ESPECIALLY eyes and lips) is the first thing that catches my eye.

Dixie -- http://www.geocities.com/senorita_cd

britney1
06-19-2006, 02:46 PM
I have to go along with Karren Hutton, TG Marla, Allison Vanp, Khriss, Sally24, carend_99, and madlinecd on this one so I voted "Other". First and formeost I'm a "face man" so I spend a lot of time and effort on makeup and hair. Not that ALL the rest isn't important, but a woman's face and how she's done her makeup (ESPECIALLY eyes and lips) is the first thing that catches my eye.

Dixie -- http://www.geocities.com/senorita_cd

You took the words right out of my mouth. Lipstick is the #1 thing for me followed by the rest of the makeup. I prefer the makeup to the clothes anyday

SatinSarah
06-19-2006, 02:58 PM
for me it has to be the feeling of my bra to let me feel I am becoming the woman of my dreams. The feel of the bra strap on my shoulder is the moment I change into Sarah. I then love all the other things on the list - but finishing off with the high heels and tottering !

Love Sarah

Bridget
06-19-2006, 09:36 PM
I have to dress completely. Although I sometimes may borrow a pair of jeans or a shirt en-male, when I go en-femme, I have to go all the way.

Harriet
06-19-2006, 10:12 PM
Such a difficult choice -- but I think I like my bra the best.

Penny
06-19-2006, 10:33 PM
All of the items are important but I put other because the most essential
element is attitude. Complete dressing allows me to be creative. I always strive to be pretty as possible but I want to make a statememt too. I want to make a statement about how I feel and who I am.

danielle_from_cal
06-19-2006, 10:40 PM
I have to have a bra on with my breast enhancers (Pals) to feel like I am dressed. Of course I have to have my makeup too.

Ms Alison Janes
06-20-2006, 01:08 AM
For me the most important item is my wig.

vet
06-20-2006, 05:06 AM
To me there's nothing more exciting than slipping into one of my large bras and then filling the cups.To give the ultimate in lift and separation I like a nursing bra with the cups open on top of my "regular" bra. Two or more bras and then a couple nice girdles to round it out.

RachelB.
06-20-2006, 07:20 AM
You should have included a "yes" button " or maybe an all of the above

Vallerie
06-20-2006, 08:05 AM
I would not dare say I was dressed up until I had a nice necklace and my favorite shoes! Everything else mentioned of course as well.


Vallerie

Suzanne Rae
06-20-2006, 11:11 AM
I selected accessories/wig because I feel that is what brings all those other items together in order to look and especially feel famine

Suzie :love:

Angie G
06-20-2006, 04:09 PM
Heels got to have my heels.
Angie G:heehee:

Dee 1062
06-20-2006, 05:42 PM
My Makeup. makes me feel so good....got have makeup !

angela2112
06-20-2006, 06:39 PM
for me it has to be a bra,can't imagine not wearing one when dressed

ArleneRaquel
07-30-2006, 11:38 AM
:love: I simply LOVE to wear pantyhose and sexy undergarments!But my make-up needs HELP!!

maid phylis
07-30-2006, 11:43 AM
my most essential clothing is my lingerie ,which i believe covers slips stockings ,girdles etc.all of us love to wear our lingerie as much as we can .dresses are great but you must be wearing your lingerie to put on that nice dress....love phylisanne:love:

CDsWifey GG
07-30-2006, 11:50 AM
for my hubby what he is most into is the make-up even if he does nothing else he loves the makeup and it is most essential to making him look like a woman. the wig is key, too and as far as clothing he is really into bras

julie w
07-30-2006, 11:50 AM
a skirt I have only worn pants twice when out enfemme

kellylv
07-30-2006, 12:53 PM
oh my gosh; started with heels they are just wonderful with nylons, then had to have the rest. Picked up my forms several years ago to complete a good figure, but just love those heels; with jeans, shorts, skirts, lingerie, satin pajamas, dresses; heels are like a good wig they are the foundation, and the roof of our transformation; all the rest is the paint and the siding, many colors and textures that bring joy to the moment.

gwenrob43
07-30-2006, 06:55 PM
I have to agree with Karren, you got to have it all - It's the Total Package.

Hugs,
Gwen

Beth J
07-30-2006, 07:05 PM
Aside from the obvious outer garments, proper shapewear is necessary to create a pseudo "gynoid pear" contour. It is paramount in passing for me.

vbcdgrl
07-31-2006, 12:03 AM
Since the poll won't let you choose more than one item, I didn't vote. Actually, in my case, I've found I don't need pantyhose or stockings. Since it's been so hot lately here in SoCal, I've gone out several times bare legged, and, have received several compliments. But, as far as essentials: bra, panties, wig, makeup, shoes, and, of course, some outer garment.

Vikki

sophie1
07-31-2006, 09:08 AM
its has to be lingerie it would be the same without it

Calliope
07-31-2006, 09:16 AM
My double ponytails. Once there, Daytripper be trippin.'

Charleen
07-31-2006, 09:50 AM
Alright, why only one choice? Of course for me it would be all of the above. With one choice though, I had to go with panties as I always wear them