Questions and comments

[Tabatha]

Hi to all of the GG's. :hello:

It's nice to know there are many GG's who are active participants of this lifestyle. From what I have read so far it appears to me that the feelings of not knowing or of your husband or BF not sharing the most intimate details of their life was harder than the "this is not what I had in mind" feeling many of you may have had/have. It is obvious to me that if and when the time comes for me to have an intimate relationship I should be upfront from the beginning, or atleast near the beginning.

Very new to this so any questions I may have may seem awkward so please bear with me.

Without the shock of learning a secret after a lengthy amount of time of being together, would partially dressing up be more or less acceptable for you? Would it be better to go all the way, would it look/feel weirder for say a partial CD, say high heels and nylons, just panties etc etc?

[Anita Mae GG]

I think you should just be who you are. For me there is no difference whether partially or fully dressed. I don't think it is "better" either way, just be yourself. There is no scale to acceptance in regards to your situation. You can't say I "only" wear underwear or I fully dress, just to make the impact on the other person less severe. Say whatever it is that you do..(which incidently is "crossdressing")

......Good luck and WELCOME to our world.......:D

[Sandra]

I think you should just be who you are. For me there is no difference whether partially or fully dressed. I don't think it is "better" either way, just be yourself. There is no scale to acceptance in regards to your situation. You can't say I "only" wear underwear or I fully dress, just to make the impact on the other person less severe. Say whatever it is that you do..(which incidently is "crossdressing")

......Good luck and WELCOME to our world.......:D


Same here for me. Most will see it as dressing no matter how much dressing is done, Just be yourself and say what you do.

[kathy gg]

:yt:

Welcome to the jungle!

[Sage GG]

partially dressing up ??? Is that like being partially pregnant? You are a CD say it, honesty is a wonderful way to begin a relationship.

[Patsy Stone GG]

Being honest and being yourself is usually the best policy.

[Missy Anne's GG]

Hi Tabatha,

Welcome to the forum!

As the other girls have said, just be yourself. It doesn't matter to me what my husband wants to wear when he dresses up in feminine attire. He is a kind, loving and unselfish husband who is always looking out for my needs, and that's what's important to me.

Hugs,

Missy Anne's GG

[dancinginthedark]

I am not entirely clear on your question hun. Are you asking if it is more acceptable to have a S/O who only dresses partially rather than fully? Or is it the process of getting used to the idea and actually seeing your S/O dressed you are asking about?

The others have answered the first question for you already. As to the second one it usually is a matter of timing. When will both of you feel comfortable with S/O dressing and GG seeing you dressed. For some it is easier to see you as you dress normally from the beginning, and for others it is a tiny step at a time. Say just panties and up from there as comfort levels bluild.

Oh btw, welcome to the family.

[Tabatha]

Sorry for any confusion here gals.... I am extremly new to this and have never fully dressed. I don't even know if I ever will. I divorced a year ago and I am tryig to get a point of view about how GG's look at it. would you guys find it more/less appealing to only be partially dressed. I see many of you don't seem to see much of a difference and have sort of a live and let live attitude which is nice.

One thing I have seemed to pick up on from the threads and posts I have read is that while for some of you you have undoubtably have or had a feeling of this is not what I had in mind in your masterplan for life, the lying and deceit, the years of secrecy and the sudden shoock of finding out something very intimate seems far worse than the actual dressing itself. I also see many of you are willing participants and enjoy it also. From this I have learned that when the time comes for an intimate relationship I should be upfront about this should this be more than a passing fad,

Thanks to all of you for your replies, you are all very helpful as I sort out this added part of my personality.