jenni_xx
05-02-2006, 03:33 PM
Hi Everyone
Hopefully some of you will remember my thread where I told my girlfriend about my crossdressing, and how, after seemingly being acceptive about it, she went quiet and didn't mention it again. Well, last night, I couldn't wait any longer, and I broached the subject with her once again.
It seems that she got a few crossed wires. She was under the impression that it wasn't really that big a deal to me, something which I had to put her straight on right away. I don't know where she got this impression, but given that she had to take a lot in, I'm not surprised a few things got messed up. Anyway, the chat last night lasted for quite a while, and it all went superbly. She said that she had no problem whatsoever with my crossdressing, that she didn't have a problem with me crossdressing in front of her, and she would go shopping with me. We also talked about whether I wanted to go out fully dressed or not (to which I said I would, but I did have a few "self-conscious reservations"). On the downside, she said she was unsure as to whether she wanted to bring it into the bedroom (as it is something that she doesn't find a turn on), she said that I had to be prepared for her to laugh at me, but that I shouldn't interpret this as a sign of rejection. Also, she understandably put the boundary down at any cosmetic surgery, but I reaffirmed to her that this wasn't an avenue that I wanted to go down anyway. And she doesn't want this to become a too regular occurance (i.e. all the time) which I obviously accept. One thing that she said that really stood out for me was that she does not view me any differently, and that it doesn't matter what clothes I have covering my body, because it was the body underneath that was the very thing that she fell in love with. (heart melting moment I can tell you!!!!) And she also said that she was annoyed that I felt I couldn't tell her sooner. We talked for a while about why I did tell her, and whether I would have told her if she hadn't stumbled across my ebay account which listed the things that I had bought recently. I admitted that I have thought about telling her before this, but for one reason or another I took the easy option of not telling her, mainly because of my own insecurities of losing her.
So, that's how it went. And I am absolutely overjoyed. I still haven't dressed for her yet - I am hoping that this might happen tomorrow when I next see her.
I would also like to thank all of you who responded to my post with your excellent advice. And I would like you (if possible) to raise a glass to my girlfriend. She really is something so very special.
hugs
Jenni
xxxx
Hopefully some of you will remember my thread where I told my girlfriend about my crossdressing, and how, after seemingly being acceptive about it, she went quiet and didn't mention it again. Well, last night, I couldn't wait any longer, and I broached the subject with her once again.
It seems that she got a few crossed wires. She was under the impression that it wasn't really that big a deal to me, something which I had to put her straight on right away. I don't know where she got this impression, but given that she had to take a lot in, I'm not surprised a few things got messed up. Anyway, the chat last night lasted for quite a while, and it all went superbly. She said that she had no problem whatsoever with my crossdressing, that she didn't have a problem with me crossdressing in front of her, and she would go shopping with me. We also talked about whether I wanted to go out fully dressed or not (to which I said I would, but I did have a few "self-conscious reservations"). On the downside, she said she was unsure as to whether she wanted to bring it into the bedroom (as it is something that she doesn't find a turn on), she said that I had to be prepared for her to laugh at me, but that I shouldn't interpret this as a sign of rejection. Also, she understandably put the boundary down at any cosmetic surgery, but I reaffirmed to her that this wasn't an avenue that I wanted to go down anyway. And she doesn't want this to become a too regular occurance (i.e. all the time) which I obviously accept. One thing that she said that really stood out for me was that she does not view me any differently, and that it doesn't matter what clothes I have covering my body, because it was the body underneath that was the very thing that she fell in love with. (heart melting moment I can tell you!!!!) And she also said that she was annoyed that I felt I couldn't tell her sooner. We talked for a while about why I did tell her, and whether I would have told her if she hadn't stumbled across my ebay account which listed the things that I had bought recently. I admitted that I have thought about telling her before this, but for one reason or another I took the easy option of not telling her, mainly because of my own insecurities of losing her.
So, that's how it went. And I am absolutely overjoyed. I still haven't dressed for her yet - I am hoping that this might happen tomorrow when I next see her.
I would also like to thank all of you who responded to my post with your excellent advice. And I would like you (if possible) to raise a glass to my girlfriend. She really is something so very special.
hugs
Jenni
xxxx