Questions....

[Dana]

What are some of the things that you hate about your S/O (generic term) being a CD'er?

What are some of the things that you like about your S/O being a CD'er?

Being the S/O of a CD'er made your

1. Improved your quality of life?
2. Helped you grow as a person?
3. Helped you grow as a woman?
4. Change your life's perspective?

[Anita Mae GG]

What are some of the things that you hate about your S/O (generic term) being a CD'er?

What are some of the things that you like about your S/O being a CD'er?

Being the S/O of a CD'er made your

1. Improved your quality of life?
2. Helped you grow as a person?
3. Helped you grow as a woman?
4. Change your life's perspective?

Hate him about being a CDer?.....only that he isn't so open about his feeling right now, still timid.

Like about it?.......I like that he can even have the courage to acknowledge it and is a strong enough person to deal with it.

1. Has made me see what a strong person my husband is.
2. Definitely opened my eyes to be more accepting of those different than you, be less judgemental.
3. Has made me be more "mother Hen" protective of my husband.
4. Has made me realize that we are all different, we all have fears and insecurities and has helped me to realize that no one shuold be afraid to be who they are.

[Tamara Croft]

What are some of the things that you hate about your S/O (generic term) being a CD'er? When we are going out, Tam hogs the mirror and flaffs about with her hair for ages. This drives me nuts. I hate the selfishness, that seems to be pretty common amongst CD's. I hate the fact that she doesn't seem to be able to talk to me about things and changes the subject very quickly.

What are some of the things that you like about your S/O being a CD'er? I like the fact that she's more caring, sensitive and loving.

Being the S/O of a CD'er made your

1. Improved your quality of life? - My life is more quiet now, no arguing, no shouting etc... this is what I was used to with my past relationship.

2. Helped you grow as a person? - Hmm... I think I've grown more as a person because I've learnt a lot about CD'ing myself.

3. Helped you grow as a woman? - Nope

4. Change your life's perspective? - I guess so, I see things now in a totally different way.

[Dana]

1. Thanks for the spanking ~ Spamming ~ Didn't realize ! LOL! (You know)

2. Thanks for the response!

[Dana]

I want to see that picture you had! Don't deny me my that! That is "So" this "Ask a GG Picture, no "nonsense! I loved that picture of you! It says so much about you! So "girly" ~ so "No Nonsensce!"

[Tamara Croft]

I want to see that picture you had! Don't deny me my that! That is "So" this "Ask a GG Picture, no "nonsense! I loved that picture of you! It says so much about you! So "girly" ~ so "No Nonsensce!":lol: I put it back up..... spammer :p

[Sandra]

What are some of the things that you hate about your S/O (generic term) being a CD'er?

What are some of the things that you like about your S/O being a CD'er?

Being the S/O of a CD'er made your

1. Improved your quality of life?
2. Helped you grow as a person?
3. Helped you grow as a woman?
4. Change your life's perspective?


Things I hate: Don't think there is anything

Things I like : Easy this one, Nigella is more senstive and caring and more easy going.


1: Life is more easy going now.
2: Helped me understand people more and their needs
3: No
4: Has made me realise that we are all different.

[kittypw GG]

What are some of the things that you hate about your S/O (generic term) being a CD'er

I hate the fact that he is not confident about who he is and that translates to me as confusion. I hate that he can't stop thinking about it and appears to be obsessed. I hate that he watches and reads transexual porn. I hate when he says he likes what another female is wearing . I hate when he makes comments about clothes when we are shopping because he does not have me in mind when he says "that is cute" He is thinking about himself.

What are some of the things that you like about you S/O being a CD'er

I guess I like the variety of our sex life. I consider myself a texture person so I like the feel of soft fabrics and I do think he looks sexy in lacy panties.

Has being a S/O of a CD'ER :

1. Improved your quality of life?
There have been times that I have felt very close to my husband and
the fact that he is a CD may have something to do with that. But I '
would not say that it has improve the overall quality of my life. Infact
It has hurt our finances.


2. Helped you grow as a person?

I would say yes to this. I think that I have a better understanding
about people in general. I'm alway fasicinated by what drives people
to do and act the way they do. I have been more understanding about
people's attitudes. For instance when someone is having a bad day and
is a little crabby I alway thing about what they may be dealing with in
in their personal lives and I cut them some slack.

Helped you grow as a women? No.

Changed your life's perspective?
Yes in some good ways as well as bad. I really could do without the weird
fetish stuff that I would never in a million years would have known about
had I not had a CD hubby.

[lostmyhubby GG]

Things I hate about my SO being a CD is he/she is annoying, by that i mean always trying things on and needing constant reassuring, but doesnt realize that i need that from him/her too in which i never get unless i have put in a complaint about it. Since comming out i have stopped dressing up myself in fact have sold alot of my things and or thrown them out. sometimes i just feel there isnt enough room in this relationship/marriage for two women.God knows there isnt enough closet space.

Things i love are she is so sensous,soft and sexy and our sex life is fantastic i have to admit if it were a year ago i would have said i was bored with sex, but now it is exciting and i love the way she makes me feel.

i have realized alot about myself that i have to work on and have realized some things about him/her that she needs to work on as well.

We I think are the closest we have ever been in our new marriage(our 5th yeah anniversary is May 26th)

[Dana]

:lol: I put it back up..... spammer :p


LOL! I got properly spanked and sent across the curb! To me, that picture says, "I'm so sweet ~ but I BITE!"

"Don't FEED the Lions!"

[Dana]

Things I hate about my SO being a CD is he/she is annoying, by that i mean always trying things on and needing constant reassuring, but doesnt realize that i need that from him/her too in which i never get unless i have put in a complaint about it. Since comming out i have stopped dressing up myself in fact have sold alot of my things and or thrown them out. sometimes i just feel there isnt enough room in this relationship/marriage for two women.God knows there isnt enough closet space.

Things i love are she is so sensous,soft and sexy and our sex life is fantastic i have to admit if it were a year ago i would have said i was bored with sex, but now it is exciting and i love the way she makes me feel.

i have realized alot about myself that i have to work on and have realized some things about him/her that she needs to work on as well.

We I think are the closest we have ever been in our new marriage(our 5th yeah anniversary is May 26th)

WOW! Those waters run deep!

About sex? Yes. About ~ sex? NO!

A paradox?

Black and white ~ all at the same time!

Yes and no ~ all at the same time!

[KrazyKat]

Dana, I love my life partner. Period. Personally I try to grow and change everyday as a person and so does my partner!!
We're in this thing called life for the long haul, rocking chairs on the front porch, etc.
I feel lucky to have found my soul mate. :love:

KrazyKat