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Marla
05-05-2006, 04:26 PM
I'm finding myself acting and thinking more like a female even when I'm not dressed. I even came on to a man the other day. It wasn't good, but I still loved the feeling. Is this Ok and have any of you had this experience?
CharlaineCadence
05-05-2006, 04:31 PM
I do many things now that i never did before. talking walking ect all in a fem manner.
Maria-Christina
05-05-2006, 04:32 PM
Maria
I find myself thinking more and more like a woman but not to the extent of coming onto a man. It's a load of little things like buying a little netted bag to separate tights in the washing machine from the rest of the clothes. Or walking round the supermarket with brain in girlie mode planning what I need to buy. Or when my tights had slipped a bit making sure no men when around to adjust my attire.
Maria
PS All of my feelings are strange as that is my surname.
bredalee25
05-05-2006, 05:36 PM
oh yes i'm doing it too seems i can't do anything without looking at it as a woman thats who i am and i'm very proud to admit it finally that my female persona has taken the riens and has no intention of giving them back. ttfn
Karren H
05-05-2006, 05:53 PM
Guess I'm becomeing more enfemme all the time but typically I don't act enfemme or have enfemme feeling when in drab. Almost like I can turn it on and off at will.....All guy in male mode and all fem in girl mode!! hehehe
Love Karren
janedoe311
05-05-2006, 06:23 PM
Ever without thinking about it started to walk in a girls bathroom when as your normal self? I do not get dressed up in public and a few times I was spacing out and almost walked in to a womans restroom, I was not thinking of myself as a man I guess.
Jennaie
05-05-2006, 06:30 PM
This is very simular to a thread I read in another forum where the SO of the cd said that she liked him better and saw him as a woman when he was dressed. It seems to bring on a personality change. I keep reading comments like "Your so much more comfortable and relaxed when your dressed, why didn't I see this before?"
I find that it's when I am thinking in female mode, dressed en-drab, that people address me as maam by mistake. "which I love, by the way".
Last night my neighbor, who knows I dress but had never seen me dressed came down to visit, I looked through the peephole to see who it was and when I noticed it was him I decided to open the door even though I was fully dressed with makeup and all. After visiting with me for a couple hours he looked at me and said, "Can I tell you something" , I replied, "please do", He said, " I like you better this way, your so relaxed and comfortable, you just seem happier and I feel like I'm visiting with a woman, not a man".
I realize that I am probably, as someone else put it, " a little more on the ts side of all this", but I can't tell you how good it made me feel to hear him say that.
I have no intentions of ever pushing this to the point of hormones or any other kind of mind and body changing drugs. I do like my male side, but I love my female side and she loves life.
michelle19845
05-05-2006, 06:39 PM
when not dressed i have the urge to be fem.i liste nto fem music and sing when drvining to it,always want to look at the womens clothes,but worried i'll hear a comment from a clerk cause i'm in drab.emotions are almost always fem.i have been told that i'm like a little girl when i'm sad and emotional by a GG friend.i assume it's that "androgynous" thing with me. time will tell.
michelle19845
DawnLabelle
05-05-2006, 06:50 PM
Actually, I've found that ever since I went out dressed completely the first time, which was also the first time that I got completely dressed (including properly done makeup and body shave), I've started to adopt quite a few female mannerisms. The way I cross my legs, the way I hold my smoke, the way I tilt my body, and sometimes I have to remind myself to stop walking like a woman when im at work!.
Dawn
SoCalSuziCD
05-05-2006, 09:20 PM
I can definately say that I'm more girlier than before I dressed fully. Although I'm not a full time, I start seeing what girls see and things that bother me before, doesn't bother me now. Such as g/f taking forever for the makeup, shopping, and sometimes emotional things like pMS?? :P
After I told my g/f about my dressing, she asks me for advice on what to wear to buy and stuff. Weird..
Sally24
05-05-2006, 11:00 PM
I have noticed little things like slipping off underwear like a lady without even thinking about it. I think it just is an occupational hazard. The more immersed in the whole female thing you get, the more it becomes a part of you. I find I can kick it into high gear almost instantly, the walk, the movements of the hands, but I can't really turn it off 100%. My therapist tells me that it's quite natural and nothing to worry about.
My SO also sometimes prefers the Sally me to the man. Much more easy going and relaxed. I also drive much calmer.
Kate Simmons
05-06-2006, 02:40 AM
I'm finding myself acting and thinking more like a female even when I'm not dressed. I even came on to a man the other day. It wasn't good, but I still loved the feeling. Is this Ok and have any of you had this experience?
All the time Hon but more so when I'm Ericka. I think there is some kind of "default" programming in the brain (especially ours) to feel and act that way when we are en femme. Ericka
btmgrl6
05-06-2006, 03:05 AM
You came on to a guy,but it wasn't good, but you loved the feeling?
steph
Annette_boy
05-06-2006, 03:30 AM
Hi Ladies
I find myself thinking more and more female for example when the windshield of my van was smashed by vandals i was so devatstated that I cried my eyes out.
The old me would have wanted to hunt them down and clubed them into the ground Now I just cry .............. and then want to hunt them (giggles)
Love and Hugs and Sweet Kisses
Annette :love: :hugs: :kiss: :kiss:
Joy Carter
05-06-2006, 04:02 AM
"I wish I may I wish I might have the wish I wish tonight" I'm enormously happier being transgendered just wish others saw it that way.
Esther
05-06-2006, 05:43 AM
i used to think it was all about 'dressing,' but i guess it's really about 'being.' i was out (an dressed, but conservatively) with my SO in a department store. my SO was about 20 feet away when a man made a pass at me. (i think he read me.) i have never been with a man or seriously entertained thoughts of it. i turned him down politely, but after that i was on cloud 9 all day. as my SO said, 'well, i guess that clears up that misconception.'
rpservices1
05-06-2006, 07:35 AM
Ifind myself feeling like a women more and more all the time but I still like to come on to women but do not want intercorse
Bev06 GG
05-06-2006, 07:57 AM
Hi Marla,
You little monkey you. One thing puzzles me tho. How do you know what were thinking when most of the time were not so sure ourselves. Women are very complex beings you know and our hormones do funny things sometimes. Ive heard it said by many a man that they just dont get where we are coming from, and when it comes to rational, I would say that men and women are on a totally different planet.
BEVxxx
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