Samantha_In_Mt_GG
05-07-2006, 03:22 PM
I would like to know if what I am felling is normal or if any one has been through this.
I have known about my boyfriends CDing for about 6 months and I am totally accepting of it all. We go shopping, have girls night with movies, makeup, and icecream:D . We have made time several times a month to do this type of thing. We also go shopping on a regular basis together and pick out clothes, undergarments and special things for each other. It is wonderful that we wear the same size. My side of the closet has never seen so many dresses or cute clothes. On the weekends I raid his side of the closet and he raids mine. I would much prefer a pair of his jeans and shirt to the slacks that i have to wear all week.
None of our friends have known about what we do until recently. SURPRISINGLY they all took it very well and accepted him. A few of them even told some secrets about themselves as well. Then of course they all wanted to see pictures. The girls were impressed. They guys couldn't look yet but they still treated him very well. It is nice when we all get together because we are all relaxed and there is some joking that goes on between everyone about the CDing and the others secrets, (nothing is ever hurtful) just all in fun. So all in all things are great. BUT the problem is that one of my female friends who has known my BF for several years wants to go shopping with him/us. Wants to give tips and advice. Granteed she does have good taste in clothing. Every time she says anything like that my green jealousy monster starts to show up. I am not one who usually gets jealous over anything, so it is bothersome to me to feel Jealous and protective. I think that I feel this way because for 6 months I felt like i had to protect his secret and we became so close, we have our little rituals that we do, such as wear the same color of toe polish all the time, because it was funny to us that we were the only ones that new what was going on. I guess now that she knows and so do the others, I feel threatend that what we have might be jepordized some how. Am I being parinoid here? Or has any one felt this way? :rolleyes:
I have known about my boyfriends CDing for about 6 months and I am totally accepting of it all. We go shopping, have girls night with movies, makeup, and icecream:D . We have made time several times a month to do this type of thing. We also go shopping on a regular basis together and pick out clothes, undergarments and special things for each other. It is wonderful that we wear the same size. My side of the closet has never seen so many dresses or cute clothes. On the weekends I raid his side of the closet and he raids mine. I would much prefer a pair of his jeans and shirt to the slacks that i have to wear all week.
None of our friends have known about what we do until recently. SURPRISINGLY they all took it very well and accepted him. A few of them even told some secrets about themselves as well. Then of course they all wanted to see pictures. The girls were impressed. They guys couldn't look yet but they still treated him very well. It is nice when we all get together because we are all relaxed and there is some joking that goes on between everyone about the CDing and the others secrets, (nothing is ever hurtful) just all in fun. So all in all things are great. BUT the problem is that one of my female friends who has known my BF for several years wants to go shopping with him/us. Wants to give tips and advice. Granteed she does have good taste in clothing. Every time she says anything like that my green jealousy monster starts to show up. I am not one who usually gets jealous over anything, so it is bothersome to me to feel Jealous and protective. I think that I feel this way because for 6 months I felt like i had to protect his secret and we became so close, we have our little rituals that we do, such as wear the same color of toe polish all the time, because it was funny to us that we were the only ones that new what was going on. I guess now that she knows and so do the others, I feel threatend that what we have might be jepordized some how. Am I being parinoid here? Or has any one felt this way? :rolleyes: