Female day

[Delila]

Well today is my birthday and Im thinking of having a complete megan day any thoughts on how I can explain this to my wife without upseting her.

[Veronica E. Scott]

Well today is my birthday and Im thinking of having a complete megan day any thoughts on how I can explain this to my wife without upseting her.


Hello Megan

First off does your wife know that you CD if yes then ask her thoughts on what you would like to do.

[Delila]

hi veronica yes my wife does know but i havent fully dressed in front of her since halloween a couple of years ago not sure how to aproach the subject

[EricaCD]

Honestly, I'd suggest not linking it to your birthday. Your wife needs to come to acknowledgement/acceptance on her own timetable. Goading her into a faster pace via the leverage of your pending birthday might lead her to either do something she doesn't want to (bad) or feel guilty for depriving you of a birthday wish (worse).

I'd suggest the following as an alternative course:

1. Buy yourself a fab, femme present on your birthday. Something that Megan would never ordinarily buy herself.

2. Plan on a full day dressed some time in the next few months.

3. On your birthday, start that discussion with your wife.

Just a thought.

Erica

[Billijo49504]

First off, Happy Birthday:love: Why not tell her, all you want for your birthday, is to spend your day en fem. See what she says. Good luck...BJ

[Annesah]

I usually don't advocate caution but Erica's idea is very good!

[Jodie_Lynn]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MEGAN!

I agree with you, I would love nothing better than a "Jodie Day" spent with my wife. She knows, and tolerates, but I hesitate to ask her.

I just think it would be nice (moreso for me I suppose) to spend the day doing 'girl' things.

[DonnaT]

Happy Birthday Megan.

Last year my wife asked me what I wanted for my birthday, and not really needing anything, I kept telling her that I couldn't think of anything. She kept asking, so one day I told her a trip to the movies enfemme.

Well, she took me to Vegas and I had a girly night out there.

If your wife knows and supports you, then you can ask. Otherwise, I wouldn't suggest ruining a good day by asking.

[Sam-antha]

Megan darling one, leave your birthday out of it, she might not appreciate the idea of remembering every year something that maybe did not take off so well as you had hoped.
It sort of sounds as though she does not know really know that you like to dress. Halloween two years ago is nothing great.
Buy yourself a present and forget to give it to yourself for a few days or a week after your birthday. Offer it to yourself in her presence as a found thing for Megan.
Better have a god story about megan tho....
Good luck
~Samm

[btmgrl6]

Hope you have a wondeful time on your special day. Whatever you decide to do... Have fun doing it.
Girly things are always fun to do!!

Steph

[Shelly Preston]

First off Happy Birthday :balloons:

I would aviod getting fully dressed as you wife will not appreiacte it unless she was to suggest it.

You could always suggest as you dont need anything you get something like a dress then you could at least model it for her maybe ?

BUt use caution, you dont want to jeopardize what you have already.

[jo_ann]

since my wife does accept me, sometimes when I can't think of anything fun to do for my bday, I just say "honey, I'm gonna have a crossdress day.. you take care of the dogs, i'm going to embrace my femminity today"

[Delila]

Thanks for all of the happy birthday wishes. I didnt get to have the full day dressed but I did get to go clothes shopping and my wife bought me a really cute anklet toe ring set was going to spend the evening dressed and she didnt mind but then my mother in law called and said she was coming by to bring me a gift. Otherwise it turned out to be a great day.