fantasies

[Scrunchie-Bunchie]

I always fantasise about being a real girl. The only thing that really stops me from being a real girl is that I'm not a genetic girl. I'd love to experience the bodily feelings that women do.

I dream about going outside in a dress or skirt and hose as a girl and being accepted as a girl. I am afraid of going out though as people tend to be very conservative.

I also dream about having a vasectomy as a way of saying goodbye to maleness but in a way nobody can see.

Anybody else get these feelings? Has anybody done anything about them?

[Maddie]

Vas don't help testtostrone still in system you just cant replicate

[Nikki Dee]

Everyone of us gets those feelings love...to some degree or other...it goes with the territory.!!...and some do more about it than others...do whatever is right and possible for you love.!!!..most of all...enjoy.!!
Love Nikki. x

[Christina Nicole]

Go out! Get out of town, go to the next state or whatever and go out. If you don't know how to pull together a look, there are a lot of places that will do a complete transformation for you, even providing clothes and wigs. There's really no reason not to go out if you really want to do so. I know a TS who is built like a football player. She transitioned and lives as a woman in the Midwest. So looks really don't matter all that much.

The operation you are thinking about is an orchiectomy. Don't do it. Once past adulthood, you need some hormones in your body to avoid other issues. That means either testerone or estrogen, and the estrogen is only if you are willing to live as a woman 24/7.

Warm regards,
Christina Nicole

[ShortSkirt]

Definately go out. Somewhere. It's an incredibly free feeling and makes you more secure in yourself at the same time.

[Jennaie]

"The only thing that really stops me from being a real girl is that I'm not a genetic girl."

I have the same problem dear, with the exception of the GG's, I think we all do, nothing you can do about it. :hugs:

Just be all the girl you can be. A girl can only do so much you know. :happy:

[bredalee25]

I feel that way everyday of my life I too was scared to go out but i did it at night the first time and many times after. But one day near halloween i went out in daytime even went to the post office and bought stamps the clerk even called me mam it was such a thrill to be referred to as a woman in public by a kind young man no less. so if you really want to go out you'll find a way to do it honey we all have fears about the first outing but be warned if you do go out it's addictive you'll want to do it more and more so have fun and just do it. ttfn

[Laurie Ann]

I believe that on some level we all feel that way.

[Teresa Amina]

Oh, Scrunchie! Why would we all be here if it weren't for those fantasies?:hugs: If you're a girl inside the outside is just the vehicle of your perceptions and can be "modified" as much as you dare.
But the vasectomy won't help to do anything but prevent being a dad!:D

[Kate Simmons]

I don't know exactly WHEN it happens but at some point during the transformation I become Ericka.(Possibly between putting on my wig and applying my lipstick.). Somewhere along the line that happens and I become much much more than a guy in a dress and feel totally feminine. I've stopped trying to figure out why and just go with the "flow" and enjoy being myself. There is no other feeling (at least to me) on earth like it. I'm just glad I finally accepted it and stopped fighting it. Enjoy being yourself, Hon. Ericka Kay

[LucyTwitch]

Hi

I went to a GRS clinc two years back when the feelings became that strong, I convinced myself that was the way forward for me. but when I was there it made me realise, its a choice we all have if you are only 100% sure within yourself thats what you wont.

[Karren H]

Not like that!! No ones going to cut on me! LOL. And I'm not ashame of my maleness!! He and Karren get along pretty well and take turns using this body! Hehehe Kind of the best of both genders, when and where I want!! So I guess I'm living my fantasy and I think when you go out enfemme, most people either 1.) Don't pay much attention to you and B.) Don't really care what you wear!! Hey, Its your life! Go out and have some fun, girl!!

Love Karren

[TGMarla]

Okay, deep breaths there, girl! You've got it real bad, don't you? Thinking about this day and night? How old are you, anyway, if you don't mind my asking? I went through all that when I was a bit younger, and then things settled down nicely. The trouble you're having right now is not easy to deal with. This thing has got a real firm grip on you right now, and it's controlling how you think. The trick is to get to the point where you do the thinking, and the transgender issues take a back seat.

Now, you may well be TS. Only you can determine that. But it's not a decision that should be made while in the grips of obsession like you are. But you may want to go and see a gender specialist anyway. But watch it. Some of these doctors will tell you what you want to hear, even if it's not what you should hear. But I'd also suggest that you try to slow yourself down a bit, or this thing will eat you alive. Give us some feedback, and maybe we can all talk this thing out. As you can see, many of us feel to some degree the same way you do.

[Scrunchie-Bunchie]

I'm dressed right now... red panties, green bra (hey, it fits), black opaque hose, black ankle-length dress, short sleeved black jacket, brown cami, black 3/4 length suede stiletto boots.

Right now, I am a woman. I just don't go in and out in the right places. In a couple of hours I have to change to look like a man again. Honestly though, I'd prefer to be able to go out like this, to work like this and so on. I hate having to hide my womanhood from everybody. I would be the happiest girl on the planet if I were geneticlaly female.

[allisonrn06]

In discussing our sex-life,my wife and I have both mentioned that we would like to experience what sex is like for the other,but that's as far as I go in "wishing I could be a real girl".

[Kate Simmons]

Not like that!! No ones going to cut on me! LOL. And I'm not ashame of my maleness!! He and Karren get along pretty well and take turns using this body! Hehehe Kind of the best of both genders, when and where I want!! So I guess I'm living my fantasy and I think when you go out enfemme, most people either 1.) Don't pay much attention to you and B.) Don't really care what you wear!! Hey, Its your life! Go out and have some fun, girl!!

Love Karren
Well said Karren, I agree with you 99.9%. The other 0.1% is for my "off" days. Ericka