What If?

[Jillian310]

I don't know if the following has beed discussed before: If your life circumstances were drastically altered, i.e., you became finacially wealthy and didn't have to work to earn money (lottery), and had at the same time a horrible tragedy that totally removed you from your family and lost your home (hurricane, flood, etc.) and were required to start all over in a new locale alone, would you dress full time, part time, or just the same as now? Do you think that you would want to appear dressed part or full time in public , such as shopping, clubbing, etc?

[nikisbest]

Now this is a question I have never thought about before.
I would have to say that I would be a little different, I think I wouldn't
worry about doctor visits or things like that. I would wear what I wanted and
would probably go out shopping for clothes in femme. That has possibilities written all over it. I mean you would be in a town that no one knows you and you could be yourself, and you wouldn't have to work, so you could just shop all day long. I think I would dress more and would wear what some of the girls talk about on here. Well guess we can dream can't we.
Niki

[allisonrn06]

If family weren't an issue,and I didn't have to work I would probably spend a good bit of my time dressed completely fem,but I probably wouldn't live my life entirely as a woman, as there are aspects to my male self that I enjoy.

[Faye Emmette]

Thanks for the good thought Jillian.
I'm sure I'd be a lot more en femme if I could be not concerned about my large circle of friends and my Family.
Now, you've got me thinking...
Yes, living in the city and stepping out to restaurants and cinema with a friend and as natural as can be. Tha's for me.
F.

[rpservices1]

If it wasn"t for family I would be dressed all the time . And wife wouldn't talk to me while dressed Brenda

[Teresa Amina]

Always an interesting question since it's framed a bit differently each time.
Seems I've already had the bad part of your scenario- my wife died last fall and with no close family I am free to relocate and take up a new life somewhere else. The house is still standing and since it's paid for would provide to cash for such a move. But I still haven't won that Lottery!:Angry3:
When I do make such a move it will be somewhere closer to an accepting community where I could be as much Teresa as I might want, how much is not clear yet.

[cd300]

well you made me think here??? hmmm. well i guess if i were to hit it rich i probably would spend more time as jessica as well as come out to friends and family. but i dont know if i would want to do it 24/7/365 i think i would be able to take up other hobbies to keep myself busy in my male self... i know the wife would appreciate more of the male me too. lol :)

[Marla S]

I assume, if all this would happen, especially loosing family and friends, I'd have probably other things to worry about than to care for my dressing style.
In other words, I wouldn't be the same person anymore.

On the other side I would do some things different, but would probably run into similar problems as now. I would need some social interaction and don't want to have "CD-friendly or not" as only criteria.

[JoAnnDallas]

This is a good thread. If I was single, I may go almost 99% en-fem, with my male self showing up as her brother once in a while. LOL

[Laurie Ann]

Good question I would be Laurie Ann as much as I possibly could. It would not be all the time because I like the male aspect of my life also.

[Maryanntv]

If I would be filthy, filthy, filthy rich .... ? Think I would buy a small country and declare myself queen ! or better still.....princess :D

[bobbie anne]

I have thought about this before. I would dress up probably 75% of the time. I know I would push to the limit, I do not pass but I am sure I would put more effort into it. I have stopped for gas, and gone into a grocery store dressed.

[Caitlintgsd]

I'd take all of my guy stuff and enjoy a fabulous bonfire.

[Edwina]

Good question.
I think I would be free to look for a couple of really good wigs, have a make over and then see if were reasonably passable. If yes, then I would be out that door to explore as the new me.

[Karren H]

Jill, can I still play ice hockey?? Don't tell me I can't!! Maybe I'd buy the Penguins if I won the lottery. Hehehe.

So your asking if the Mon River flooded and wiped out my house and family was killed at a tragic accident at say Permanti's (fries and coldslaw everywhere) and Ed Rendell handed me a check for a couple million dollars?? Well I'd move out of Pittsburgh for sure!! Too damn dangerous with all the flooding and explodeing sandwitches!! LOL.

Answer - Nope wouldn't go full time. Will always have fun in both gender roles!!

Love Karren


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I'd take all of my guy stuff and enjoy a fabulous bonfire.

I think all your guy stuff was lost in the huricane!! But since your a bizillionare you could buy new guy stuff and burn that!!

Love Karren

[Andrea]

If I lived in London I would certainly be more tempted to go to clubs dresses as a girl and go to dressing services more regularly as the availability is there and certainly if there was family to worry about then a girly wardrobe would almost certainly appear.

[Maria-Christina]

I would dress full time without a doubt. I would grow my hair so wigs would become a thing of the past. I'd have liposuction to get rid of the belly. I'd throw all my male clothes away.

Maria

[ShortSkirt]

If I was lucky enough to start all over again.

I'd be on hormones as soon as the doctor allowed it. I'd be fulltime, no question there. I'm not sure if I would have gone as far as SRS, but I think after enough time living fulltime, and building the life of a woman, it would just be a natural progression, for me anyway.

[Kate Simmons]

I'd probably become a female archeologist or relic hunter who travelled arround the world looking for ancient artifacts and the latest fashions while on holiday. Ericka

[btmgrl6]

This is a no brainer for me. I'd have a complete and total overhaul. so much so that even my friends would not recognize me. Then I'd spend all my time traveling,shopping, and just geneally goofing off.

Steph